To All Ivy League Wannabees:
Read my previous comments above in this thread. I just want to add and reinforce my previous comments.
You guys prolly get lots of pressure from your mid-life crises, status-seeking, bragging-rights Parents, "lost in a maze" friends, and stupid hype-selling trash mags like US News & World Reports with their pseudo-scientific polls that brain-wash the masses into thinking that you must go here or there b/c its 3 points higher in the ratings or else you'll be a loser that'll struggle thru life as a miserable 2nd-tier rat that'll always get passed over for an Ivy Leaguer.
Give me a f*cking break!!
I've been there and done that to the extreme and I wish I had someone with my knowledge giving me this advice when I was a lost 17 year old pig who was lost in the woods and coincindentally thought this way!
BE ASSURED THAT IT'S ALL MARKETING! Don't feed into the BS trough! The most successful people I know in life do not have these backgrounds in the least.
If your goal is to want to work for someone else and earn a very good salary (as this is the only reason most Ivy League wanna-beeeees [u[incorrectly[/u] assume is the *primary*reason to attend an Ivy), the best way to succeed is taking the SMARTER road:
1.) Go to a good Public school
2.) Save your money
3.) Get good grades at the Public School
4.) Do a semester or two abroad to mature and broaden you a couple of years ahead of the other "children"
5.) Go to grad school..........Your good grades will float you to a good school. The school's rep at this level matter MUCH more than when in college.
6.) DON'T GO to Grad school unless you're 120% sure this IS what you want to do with your life. Your HEART must be into it! I've seen too many smart kids with half-a$$ thinking do the WRONG THANG b/c of PEER/PARENTAL/SOCIETY pressure. Ultimately, they end up spending more money and lost years RETRAINING themselves b/c they WEREN'T TRUE to THEMSELVES (i.e. doing something that is not near & dear to your heart--contemplating earnings potential is the WORST reason to do things in life......kids ultimately realize this when they hit 40......this is why the term "mid-life" crisis exists in our lexicon folks)
7.) Get an advanced degree. The higher the degree level, the higher the earnings (if that's your game). Surely, the better schools at the grad school level DO make a difference with earnings. At this level, your school's name will get you more money at the FIRST STEP entry-level job (all other things being equal, of course).
8.) Regardless if some Ivy League grad student earns a little more than you at the outset (that all it is, ONLY a little more which is even more trivial after taxes 😉 ), it DOESN'T MATTER................At the ENTRY LEVEL JOB, all things are BACK TO EQUAL..........Work hard, persist in your job, be politically sensitive and a good "peopl person". ALL advancement is dependent on these efforts. The hungrier the kid, the more successful he/she will become. Sometimes it's an Ivy Leaguer that get the promotion (by this I mean not only Ivies, but also schools like Berkeley, Stanford, Caltech, MIT, Chicago, Duke etc), BUT most of the times it's the kid from State with the Phd. or Masters that wins out in the LITERAL "RAT RACE."
9.) FWIW, tech skills are the most conservative areas that will serve your wallet the best (again, if your game is financial success).
10.) Try to follow your heart instead of your head with your tough decisions. I guarantee you that you will be MUCH BETTER and HAPPIER in EVERY possible way you could imagine......This statement is taking into account hundreds of examples of friends who have taken different paths in their lives.
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You should, however, IGNORE my advice above IF your sole materialistic intention is to work for McKinsey Consulting, Goldman Sachs I-Banking or Skaden Arps Law (and other firms of their ilk) in NYC or LA. Such places do care about where you went to school and all your current misconstrued myths about such things do apply here ..........BTW, such firms will LITERALLY suck the life force out of you (105+ hrs/week/7 days) and spit you out (i.e. fire you) if you don't make partner or Managing Director. Most that aren't fired leave anyways b/c they find it toooo humiliating that their younger underling proteges make Partner over them. The ones passed-over take smaller jobs or go out on their own with much reduced earnings. They are mostly bitter that they let life pass them by sacrificing themselves with long hours and yet have nothing to show for it at 40 (good family life or making partner)............The people that work at these firms are the most unhappy, miserable people in the world folks. They lie to themselves constantly that they are "happy", yet they are the ones with the huge Psychiatry bills AND three ex-wives with children that hate them because they were never there for them. The gold-digging women at these firms ultimately will remain single and childless (and miserable) and their remaining looks at 40 is not enough to secure a wealthy man they seek since the wealthy men go for 20 year olds anyways. ............................................Such is the quality of life that await the nerds on this board who feed into this type of hype. I, for one, worked two years after college at such firms (banking, consulting). What I experienced/witnessed was very, very pathetic to see for me and for others. I vowed that I would never be led thru this RINGER. I'm still friends with a MULTITUDE of these guys/gals who are ALL very, very, very miserable......Yet they seem mentally stuck in this tornado of wanting to get out but are too COWARDLY face the world.......I, on the other hand, was one of those "rebels", "losers"(?), who risked going out into the real world and doing my own thing (i.e.where my heart was). Now I earn more than most put together..................But I digress, these are extreme examples and I SINCERELY hope NOBODY here follows ANYTHING in their lives that follows the path delineated in this paragraph.................Ironically, among all my friends (the minority) who have followed the path of following their heart to life's decisions........well, they are the ones that are much HAPPIER, HEALTHIER, and WEALTHEIR than the other crew. IRONIC, BUT TRUE.
I WISH YOU ALL SUCCESS AND HOPE YOU ALL TAKE MY ADVICE TO HEART AS IT WILL SAVE YOU A LOT OF MISTAKES AND HEARTACHE IN THE FUTURE......Think independently and don't follow ANY herd mentality-- including your parents and friends (as they are well-meaning, but selfish, egocentric, foolish and CLUELESS). Be PROUD to be the OUTSIDER REBEL!