<< do i want the audio out to go directly to my SS Receiver or to my DVD then to the SS Receiver? >>
You should wire it directly to the receiver. Never EVER (!) string things along "in-line" like that. You will only introduce signal degradation into the picture. Aside from that, your receiver should have enough inputs for both.
Is your receiver a Dolby/DTS Digital 5.1 receiver, or a Pro Logic surround receiver?