Originally posted by: GeekDrew
Originally posted by: classy
The biggest problem we have is that the American Dream is only for a select few. Our culture is overly dominated by education. Kids are not taught to develop skills and pursue jobs they can enjoy, so they are easily discouraged and quit. Its not cool to teach kids about being farmers, hair dressers, or mechanics anymore. They even have kids being required to take 2-3 years of a foreign language, which is stupid. We're not developing people anymore, we are developing curriculums. And the curriculums are not geared towards developing the child to excel at what they are good at.
I think that this is probably the most accurate post in this thread thus far.
It's not so much that kids don't care, or that they are unmotivated, but more that they become discouraged by the fact that everyone is now expected to go to college, and to get a high paying job that is "successful", where successful is defined by the public at large, and not by that individual person. The nation is going to be in much more trouble, IMHO, than anyone predicts right now, in the next 30-40 years. There are too many people going to college, and not enough people willing to do what they enjoy, rather than follow society's dictation. I think we'll see fewer and fewer people be willing to work in positions such as maintenance, janitorial, mechanics, etc., and those that do will probably accept the position because they can't find anything else due to college-education people displacing them, and will thus be disgruntled... causing a loss of quality and satisfaction.
I've talked to many teachers and guidance counselors about this, at length. There are a lot of students that drop out because they just don't care, etc., as is stereotypical. They've all said that they started seeing students that were otherwise "good" drop out of school because they felt discouraged, and that life wasn't "worth it". I completely agree with those students, though I graduated from high school; I didn't want to shoot myself in the foot, in case I later decide I want to go to college, or otherwise pursue higher education.
I think that society has a fetish for college, and those that have not been to college are inferior in nearly all respects. I thoroughly disagree, though I will admit that it's sometimes hard to discern the difference betwen those that did not go to college and still "have a head on their shoulders" and those that did not go to college and did so because they would never have made it. Now that I think about it, though, therein lies a problem: many people are under the false assumption that getting a degree proves that you are "well rounded", "smart", or otherwise qualified for a job or function. I don't think that anything could be further from the truth -- I know many, many people that have been to college, and are much less able to do a job than me and others like me.
Unfortunately, I don't see the situation changing *at all* in the near future, because corporate America also has a fetish for hiring only individuals that have donated years of time and thousands of dollars to colleges. I assume that I'll probably go to college at some point, but I'm not ready to do so yet; there are other things that hold much higher priority to me than bowing to society's whims. I may be considered mentally deficient, "stupid", "retarded", etc., for my opinions, but I won't pursue a job solely because it will bring me "success" -- I will only pursue a job that I know that I will enjoy for the rest of my life. I've lost many close friendships because of that opinion, and I'm sure that I'll lose more in the future; so be it. This is something I'm convinced that I'm right about.