what is the most important feature(s) on a girl?

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Jfur

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Originally posted by: uclaxman
Originally posted by: Dezign
Why wack, uclaxman? Like you, just being superficial and honest. :cool: Don't get me wrong, he's a sweetheart... wouldn't be with him if he wasn't...

short and soft huh?
Good grief, you guys have dirty minds. :p He's a touch soft in the tummy, which is must be genetics-based because he eats well and dances/works out 6 hours/day. Fine by me, makes for a better pillow. :)

Peace,
Dezign

i know but are you happy with a guy who is only average? i wouldnt be ok with that...i would struggle with her looks...so you should make sure you can be happy with an "average" guy.....

my thing is go for looks...stay for everything else....

the everything else colors my perception of average

if I wanted plastic, I'd buy a vibe
 

Deeko

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Face. I will overlook lacking in other areas if she has a good face. Conversly, I will think a girl with a great body is unattractive if she doesn't have a good face.
 

uclaxman

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Originally posted by: Jfur
Originally posted by: uclaxman
Originally posted by: Dezign
Why wack, uclaxman? Like you, just being superficial and honest. :cool: Don't get me wrong, he's a sweetheart... wouldn't be with him if he wasn't...

short and soft huh?
Good grief, you guys have dirty minds. :p He's a touch soft in the tummy, which is must be genetics-based because he eats well and dances/works out 6 hours/day. Fine by me, makes for a better pillow. :)

Peace,
Dezign

i know but are you happy with a guy who is only average? i wouldnt be ok with that...i would struggle with her looks...so you should make sure you can be happy with an "average" guy.....

my thing is go for looks...stay for everything else....

the everything else colors my perception of average

if I wanted plastic, I'd buy a vibe

see original post: face...and tight body...everything else is average would be ok...not plastic
 

Jfur

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Originally posted by: Dezign
so he's gay huh?
Man, everything's just coming out wrong today... hip hop dancing, not ballet dancing. :p

Dezign, tell me about his hands....
I'm going to stop talking before I get myself into any more trouble. :)

Peace,
Dezign

good idea. Enjoy him -- he sounds like a great guy :)

 
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Lola

Originally posted by: Jfur
Originally posted by: ActPrincess
Originally posted by: Jfur
I like men's hands, thighs, eyes, and belly (not too hard, not too soft), and pretty much all of the other parts :) Physically speaking, hands are THE prerequisite for me to start thinking about a man as highly sexy.

If I were interested in women, I'd probably go for legs

oh....hands, eh? I never thought of that...although very important. I like eyes. and, they have to be charming/funny and kind. WE have to get along and have to have somewhat of the same arguing style.

Women...would fit the same things

eyes and hands both reflect a person's work and character, at least in my fantasy life ;) I ALWAYS look at hands. Personality wasn't the point of this thread, but of course that is the prerequisite for everything else :) I like a really intelligent, secure man, with a kind and altruistic nature (by really intelligent I don't mean a cocky a$$hole ;) )

so...what do you notice about his hands? like, are they clean or dirty? nicely manicured or long scraggly nails? See, whenever i look at someones hands, i think 2 things: if they are nicer than ine, he is WAY too high matience OR if they are really gross and dirty....then he dosent bathe, or he works very hard. Is that what you mean, or do you look at the structure and stuff?
 

Jfur

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Originally posted by: uclaxman
Originally posted by: Jfur
Originally posted by: uclaxman
Originally posted by: Dezign
Why wack, uclaxman? Like you, just being superficial and honest. :cool: Don't get me wrong, he's a sweetheart... wouldn't be with him if he wasn't...

short and soft huh?
Good grief, you guys have dirty minds. :p He's a touch soft in the tummy, which is must be genetics-based because he eats well and dances/works out 6 hours/day. Fine by me, makes for a better pillow. :)

Peace,
Dezign

i know but are you happy with a guy who is only average? i wouldnt be ok with that...i would struggle with her looks...so you should make sure you can be happy with an "average" guy.....

my thing is go for looks...stay for everything else....

the everything else colors my perception of average

if I wanted plastic, I'd buy a vibe

see original post: face...and tight body...everything else is average would be ok...not plastic

Focusing on some ideal of perfection as the end all = *plastic* people. I like a few "flaws". Like one tooth that is slightly out of line from the rest. It makes the whole package much more real and beautiful. That's what I mean by plastic (and not necessarily plastic surgery). Plastic = fake. Each man is different and can be PHYSICALLY sexy in his own way. When you throw personality into the mix, even an average or "ugly" man can be devastatingly attractive.

 

Orsorum

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Personality.

You think I'm joking. Nothing turns me off more quickly than a bitchy girl. She may be fun to look at from a distance, but I refuse to get within twenty feet of her.

Other than personality and intelligence, the behind and the stomach are important... gotta be in shape, enjoy some form of exercise. Self-control, etc etc.
 

KDOG

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For me its boobs. I am a boob man with a capital B. My wife is 38C/D and I'm in Heaven!!! Shes about 5'5" and has a nice booty to match. A good healthy butt is always a plus. Also I think hair is great. Guys know what I'm talking about - nice LONG hair. My wifes is brunnette and just past her bra clip. I'm begging her to grow it down to her a$$. One of the best parts of her is her athletic legs. Drool. She rides a stepper alot AND works out her butt!!! ;)
 

wolf550e

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Originally posted by: lozina
I am drawn to a beautiful female a$$ much like a moth to your front porch light.

And a pretty face is essential. Nice red hair is awesome. Not bigger than 36Cs. :D:cool:

BUT, of course, without a brain, it will never work out. :)
 

Jfur

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Originally posted by: ActPrincess
Originally posted by: Jfur
Originally posted by: ActPrincess
Originally posted by: Jfur
I like men's hands, thighs, eyes, and belly (not too hard, not too soft), and pretty much all of the other parts :) Physically speaking, hands are THE prerequisite for me to start thinking about a man as highly sexy.

If I were interested in women, I'd probably go for legs

oh....hands, eh? I never thought of that...although very important. I like eyes. and, they have to be charming/funny and kind. WE have to get along and have to have somewhat of the same arguing style.

Women...would fit the same things

eyes and hands both reflect a person's work and character, at least in my fantasy life ;) I ALWAYS look at hands. Personality wasn't the point of this thread, but of course that is the prerequisite for everything else :) I like a really intelligent, secure man, with a kind and altruistic nature (by really intelligent I don't mean a cocky a$$hole ;) )

so...what do you notice about his hands? like, are they clean or dirty? nicely manicured or long scraggly nails? See, whenever i look at someones hands, i think 2 things: if they are nicer than ine, he is WAY too high matience OR if they are really gross and dirty....then he dosent bathe, or he works very hard. Is that what you mean, or do you look at the structure and stuff?

I'm not sure exactly :eek: I like certain hand shapes, pehaps best described as "masculine" hands, although there are many different kinds that I find attractive. I don't really like soft hands or hands that look like they have never worked a day in their lives. It's almost like hands have a personality that can be inferred (like eyes, if you know what I mean -- it's not just the color or shape).
 

Skyclad1uhm1

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Originally posted by: Jfur

I'm not sure exactly :eek: I like certain hand shapes, pehaps best described as "masculine" hands, although there are many different kinds that I find attractive. I don't really like soft hands or hands that look like they have never worked a day in their lives. It's almost like hands have a personality that can be inferred (like eyes, if you know what I mean -- it's not just the color or shape).

Do you like hands that can massage very well? :)
 

Jfur

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Originally posted by: Skyclad1uhm1
Originally posted by: Jfur

I'm not sure exactly :eek: I like certain hand shapes, pehaps best described as "masculine" hands, although there are many different kinds that I find attractive. I don't really like soft hands or hands that look like they have never worked a day in their lives. It's almost like hands have a personality that can be inferred (like eyes, if you know what I mean -- it's not just the color or shape).

Do you like hands that can massage very well? :)

yes :)
 

Skyclad1uhm1

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Originally posted by: Jfur
Originally posted by: Skyclad1uhm1
Originally posted by: Jfur

I'm not sure exactly :eek: I like certain hand shapes, pehaps best described as "masculine" hands, although there are many different kinds that I find attractive. I don't really like soft hands or hands that look like they have never worked a day in their lives. It's almost like hands have a personality that can be inferred (like eyes, if you know what I mean -- it's not just the color or shape).

Do you like hands that can massage very well? :)

yes :)

*cheer* Jfur likes my hands! *struts around proudly*
 

Chaotic42

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Sense of humor
Intelligent
Outgoing

I'm not really into the sporty type girls. I'd rather have a full figured girl. One of those down to earth girls with dangly earrings and 50 pounds of crap in the purse.
 

vi edit

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A nice big, firm rack. Oh girl! Doh! I thought you said grill.
Damn my dyslexia.
 

bizmark

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mmmm..... really, I'm an ass man. But, I'm most critical about the legs. There's a wide variety of acceptable asses, and also a wide variety of accceptable breasts. But there's a significantly narrower window of acceptability for legs. Thin, not too muscular, minimal cellulite. I'm talking about girls my age (early 20s). I know that bodies deteriorate over time :(