Yea i've kind of got the card figured out, most likely 1070gtx but I will probably have to wait for the crypto fallout before i judge which one I can afford best. The reason I am eyeing the cpu as my problem child is these things can create a sort of constant heat where as the video card can emit very little while NOT gaming. In fact now that I resurrected my desktop (xeon 1231v3, so haswell gen) I looked into some heat savings and found that under default settings even %5 of cpu use would cause the cpu to fully clock up. By turning cooling method to passive in the power plan section I was able to have a much more lax speed step and thus reduce temps even more while just web browsing and youtubing. In fact while I was playing with the asus cooler manager, I was able to keep temps low enough that case fans were not needed, just the cpu fan (The top of the case has a large ventilation spot so the heat was able to radiate out naturally). So it gave me hope that i could achieve the same temps as my laptop does during normal use.