From the information from Anandtech and other Tech sites + the forums, I decided on the EPoX 8KHA+ for my system and they persuaded me to part with an extra £30 for Crucial DDR (damn persuasive ppl, better be worth it)
But I will be buying the rest of my system on Monday and I will add my "2 cents worth" (shudders saying something American) when my system is up and running.