See, in this thread I see a lot of mythical, anecdotal, hypothetical example, assumptions, and so on.
As one seeks to quantify any abuses, generational dependency, scams and outrages, you could only raise the level of abstraction with statistical survey design, records review, and other means of getting data. Anecdotes and myths aren't data. News articles of an anecdotal nature may be "useful" in pointing out needed reform, but ancillary to a really scientific approach for getting at the truth.
I also don't understand so much why people dwell on welfare subsidies. So we look for summaries online. If there are tables easily had from Bureau of Census, HHS, Agriculture etc., they are meticulously compiled and checked for accuracy, but they don't address any particular research agenda. Yet the annual compilations would offer many opportunities for some analysis and conclusions.
Then there are other sources, with either a research agenda, or conclusions to support some view of it, whether tainted with ideology, or simply attempting to get at the truth.
I can't be 100% sure, for instance, about this article.
http://federalsafetynet.com/poverty-and-spending-over-the-years.html
But if the statistical table is honest and accurate, $662 M per capita-citizen would be in the order of maybe $2/American or taxpaying resident. That also translates to $X / family or household, or $Y / Tax-filer. Among tax-filers, you have corporations, and you have retirees, day-wage-earners, and so on.
Churches, dioceses, parishes aren't taxed, with the expectation that they do good work of a similar nature. That opens up a new can of worms, just including the church-state separation issue.
It seems there are all sorts of options coordinating with organizations like Red Cross etc.
What would begin to bother you? A $10-per-year slice of your annual federal (and don't forget state) tax payment? $20? $100? $1000?
It would all depend on your income, your annual tax payment. Your marginal propensity to spend or save. Or whether or not you choose to trade in your Sexus-Lexus every year or two. You might have a completely different outcome on that scale for some different qualified public good as opposed to these transfer payments.