What if a Girl tells you this "........."

[Muadib]

Originally posted by: freemanteo
I need to know what you people think when a girl tells you: " You are better off with another girl" or "I'm not good enough for you"


what exactly does the girl is trying to say to me? Both of us a friends and our parents too. She is a nice girl, i'm a nice man, but we have alot of differences in thoughts and food.

Her parents think i'm a good man, but she is'nt attracted to me at all, so she told me that above!

So let me get this straight, you asked her parents, but not her?!? :Q Sounds like you already have your answer, you just don't want to accept it. She's trying to let you down easy man. There's no need to be hurtful or mean. Move on, find another girl, and let her see what she missed out on.

 

[spp]

maybe she doesn't like the fact that you're a virgin??

 

[bmacd]

out of curiosity, how old are you freemanteo???

-=bmacd=-

 

[Geekbabe]

Here's an idea,(sit down while reading this as it's a revolutionary concept)

If you aren't sure of what somebody means when they make a statement to you, turn around and say "I'm not sure what you meant by that exactly could you please clarify?"


Asking here is about as effective as calling Miss Cleo

 

[bmacd]

Originally posted by: baffled2
Here's an idea,(sit down while reading this as it's a revolutionary concept)

If you aren't sure of what somebody means when they make a statement to you, turn around and say "I'm not sure what you meant by that exactly could you please clarify?"


Asking here is about as effective as calling Miss Cleo

ack baff...you suck! Having a girl ask you that is almost as bad as her saying, "where is this relationship going?"

-=bmacd=-

 

[Geekbabe]

Originally posted by: bmacd

Originally posted by: baffled2
Here's an idea,(sit down while reading this as it's a revolutionary concept)

If you aren't sure of what somebody means when they make a statement to you, turn around and say "I'm not sure what you meant by that exactly could you please clarify?"


Asking here is about as effective as calling Miss Cleo

ack baff...you suck! Having a girl ask you that is almost as bad as her saying, "where is this relationship going?"

-=bmacd=-

I "suck" ? l, Since I'm not the one wondering if I should or shouldn't mack on my co-workers I tend to doubt that very much


My advice still stands,if you aren't sure what somebody means when they say something to you,asking them to clarify will get you soo much further so much faster than posting here will

 

[bmacd]

Originally posted by: baffled2

Originally posted by: bmacd

Originally posted by: baffled2
Here's an idea,(sit down while reading this as it's a revolutionary concept)

If you aren't sure of what somebody means when they make a statement to you, turn around and say "I'm not sure what you meant by that exactly could you please clarify?"


Asking here is about as effective as calling Miss Cleo

ack baff...you suck! Having a girl ask you that is almost as bad as her saying, "where is this relationship going?"

-=bmacd=-

I "suck" ? l, Since I'm not the one wondering if I should or shouldn't mack on my co-workers I tend to doubt that very much

-=bmacd=-

 

[Geekbabe]

Originally posted by: bmacd

Originally posted by: baffled2

Originally posted by: bmacd

Originally posted by: baffled2
Here's an idea,(sit down while reading this as it's a revolutionary concept)

If you aren't sure of what somebody means when they make a statement to you, turn around and say "I'm not sure what you meant by that exactly could you please clarify?"


Asking here is about as effective as calling Miss Cleo

ack baff...you suck! Having a girl ask you that is almost as bad as her saying, "where is this relationship going?"

-=bmacd=-

I "suck" ? l, Since I'm not the one wondering if I should or shouldn't mack on my co-workers I tend to doubt that very much

-=bmacd=-

LOL,you so asked for that,I could practically hear you begging

 

[bmacd]

*goes in the corner now to cry*

-=bmacd=-

 

[Geekbabe]

Originally posted by: bmacd
*goes in the corner now to cry*

-=bmacd=-

Rotflmao !!! want some kleenex ? ...insert evil grin here

 

[jjones]

Originally posted by: freemanteo
We are not a couple, so we are not going to break-up!

I plan to move on but just wanna know what it means! Was it a Sarcastic remark or a sweet genuine comment that she does'nt think we are right for each other.

You should add "Dense" to the list of cons.

 

[SagaLore]

means she does not like you.

 

[bmacd]

Originally posted by: SagaLore
means she does not like you.

not necessarily...she just can't invision herself being with you.

-=bmacd=-

 

[ElFenix]

she isn't going to jump your bones any time soon.

or take baff's advice.

 

[bmacd]

Originally posted by: ElFenix
she isn't going to jump your bones any time soon.

or take baff's advice.

lol

-=bmacd=-

 

[Jeffwo]

Originally posted by: SoloKid
means ...
"You are better with another girl" = leave me alone
"I'm not good enough for you" = I not interested

Exactumondo!

 

[ndee]

It means in a nice way: Look for another girl, cuz I'm not interessted in a relationship with you.

 

[MaxDepth]

You know that skeezy (some parts of the country call him "sketchy" instead) dude that always seems to lurk about her presence whenever she's out, away from home? The guy with the greasy hair, tattoos, no job, and manic depressive behavior?












She's playing optometrist to his ol' one-eye.








Unless you can out-badass or be more of a loser than he is, I'd say go look elsewhere.

 

[MercenaryForHire]

Announcer: "And now, it's time for "LoveLine" with everyone's least favourite host, MercenaryForHire!"
M4H: "Yeah, yeah, least favourite, really funny. Shut up, Bob. God, it's way too early in the morning for this crap."
M4H: "Anyhow, on to our first caller."
Caller: "Hi Merc, I love your show and I listen eve-"
M4H: "Blah, blah, blah. Bob, where's my coffee? You got a question or what?"
Caller: "Um ... this close friend of mine said that I'm better off with another girl, and that she's not good enough for me. What's that mean?"
M4H: *sprays coffee* "Heh. Well buddy, that's a two-part question and a two-part answer. Firstly, 'You're better off with another girl' means 'I'm currently getting bucked wild by another guy, and can't believe you didn't pick up on it yet.' Secondly, 'I'm not good enough for you' means 'I don't want you. Give up. But stick around so that I have someone to bitch to about my boyfriend.' Harsh, but true, I'm afraid."
Caller: "You mean I ... she doesn't ... but ..."
M4H: "Hey, don't feel too bad. If you stick around and be her shoulder to cry on, you'll make the perfect rebound guy if or when she breaks up with her current boyfriend."
Caller: "Really?"
M4H: "Oh yeah. Thanks for calling." *click*
M4H: "Damn, I need a drink. Well, let's move on to our - What? What the $#@! do you mean we're out of airtime? I just got on here - the FCC wants to talk to me? Hey! Get out of my broadcast booth you sons of -"

*breaking furniture, profanity, sounds of brawling ensue*

- M4H

 

[Turbo55]

haha, you never know, it just might work. Women like assholes.

Hahahahaa... *pause* How true.

 

[Turbo55]

Originally posted by: Rainsford
Since this girl is being open with you, I'll assume that she's a nice person who is telling the relative truth. In that case, I think she truly means what she says. Sometimes relationships just don't work out between two "perfect" people, and I wish more people would realize this before they start a relationship. A lot of girls don't want to date someone they see as smarter or "better" than they are, so she might be telling the truth with that comment.

But it doesn't really matter. For whatever reason, she doesn't think it would work out between you two. So just keep being friends, and move on.

I agree. Sometimes positive and positive just doesn't mix.

 

[Karsten]

I heard that one 2 or 3 times. Made me mad every time.... just tell me if you don't think it's a good thing and we move on. Girls... tststs

 

[Geekbabe]

Originally posted by: Turbo55

haha, you never know, it just might work. Women like assholes.

Hahahahaa... *pause* How true.

Oh please,if we liked "assholes" some of you would never have an evening free you'd be so booked up

 

[bmacd]

Originally posted by: baffled2

Originally posted by: Turbo55

haha, you never know, it just might work. Women like assholes.

Hahahahaa... *pause* How true.

Oh please,if we liked "assholes" some of you would never have an evening free you'd be so booked up

you crack me up baff

-=bmacd=-

 

[freemanteo]

Now, we were chatting on Messenger and she told me her Mom hinted to her that she wants us to hook up, and the she did'nt like the idea, i know we can be the "Perfect" couple, but then maybe positive + positive is not good at times. From her ex-BF, i can see her choice of man are assholes or jerks if you would like to call.

I did not have much hope of us being together, so i'm not overly disappointed! But pressure from her Sis, my church members, people around me thinks we will hook-up! But i kept telling them we are impossible!

So my research of majority of girls liking assholes or jerks still stands!! Ask any girl about their past relationships and if they lie to you all their ex-BFs' have been the best guys in the world, ask them this: "Why are'nt you still with him/them?"

Girls tend to prefer to learn the "hard way", they know about the STDs, premarital-pregnancy, single-Mumhood etc.... But Noooooo, they say i'll learn to be better through diff relationships!! Why can't they learn from others mistakes who have fallen prey to Jerks?? This question will remain in my head forever!