What if a Girl tells you this "........."

freemanteo

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I need to know what you people think when a girl tells you: " You are better off with another girl" or "I'm not good enough for you"


what exactly does the girl is trying to say to me? Both of us a friends and our parents too. She is a nice girl, i'm a nice man, but we have alot of differences in thoughts and food.

Her parents think i'm a good man, but she is'nt attracted to me at all, so she told me that above! :(

1 good thing is i leave a good impression on her and that we are still friends, i should'nt ask for more.

I'm a traditional young man, i always thought i'm good enough for any girl cos i have the almost package!


Pros:
I'm 5'10 (not too short)
Athletic body
Good in sports
Drives a nice convertible
Works as a Car Mechanic
Gentleman, Kind, Romantic, Unique, Sensual, Good looking, Cute, Street Smart, Wise, honest, Good manners in any occasion
Adjust to my Environment easily
Virgin
Love my future wife till death do us part principel (Love is something we have to work to keep it alive, especially 5yrs of marriage and i have no problem in that cos Divorce is not in my Vocabulary and not an option for me)

Cons:
Stubborn
Smart mouth when necessary
Thinks too much
Over-sensitive
Procrastination
Hot-tempered
mild Acne-scar face on some area of face
No wealth
Not an American Citizen
 

Zim Hosein

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Move on freemanteo, she's not for you; keep the friendship though.
 

Ladies Man

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it means she's trying to put nicely that she wants to break up ... and if you aren't going out that she doesn't want to go out
 

freemanteo

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We are not a couple, so we are not going to break-up! :)

I plan to move on but just wanna know what it means! Was it a Sarcastic remark or a sweet genuine comment that she does'nt think we are right for each other.

 

dolph

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it means she doesn't like you like that, so don't waste your time on her.
 

bigrash

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Originally posted by: freemanteo
We are not a couple, so we are not going to break-up! :)

I plan to move on but just wanna know what it means! Was it a Sarcastic remark or a sweet genuine comment that she does'nt think we are right for each other.

she's telling you that you're a geek and she needs someone more challenging...in other words, you're not right for her.
 
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I need to know what you people think when a girl tells you: " You are better off with another girl" or "I'm not good enough for you"
It means she doesn't want to see you anymore, the reason is pretty much irrelevent because whatever it is you probably can't do anything about it.
 

Shelly21

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If you're not an US citizen, how can she marry you if she wants a green card? :)

Seriously thou...

"You are better off with another girl" = "I'm better off with another guy"

"I'm not good enough for you" = "You're not good enough for me"
 

Kev

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she means exactly this:

"i am not interested in you whatsoever and you have no chance with me, but i still want to be your friend and don't want to hurt your feelings."
 
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If you really want a good zinger and try to hurt her feelings do this:

1. Kinda look up and furrow your brow like you are thinking.

2. Ponder for a moment.

3. Then say something like:

Yeah you're right, you aren't (if she said she isn't good enough) or Yeah, I would be wouldn't I (if she says you'd be better off with someone else)

4. Cover balls
 

Yzzim

Lifer
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Originally posted by: BrunoPuntzJones
If you really want a good zinger and try to hurt her feelings do this:

1. Kinda look up and furrow your brow like you are thinking.

2. Ponder for a moment.

3. Then say something like:

Yeah you're right, you aren't (if she said she isn't good enough) or Yeah, I would be wouldn't I (if she says you'd be better off with someone else)

4. Cover balls


haha, you never know, it just might work. Women like assholes.
 

gotsmack

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atleast you meet women who don't give you the run around.

I haven't me a chick who would say straight out "Thank you for asking, but I'm not interested" or something like that. All I get is "How about next Wednesday" and I usually don't give it any follow up.
 

Rainsford

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Since this girl is being open with you, I'll assume that she's a nice person who is telling the relative truth. In that case, I think she truly means what she says. Sometimes relationships just don't work out between two "perfect" people, and I wish more people would realize this before they start a relationship. A lot of girls don't want to date someone they see as smarter or "better" than they are, so she might be telling the truth with that comment.

But it doesn't really matter. For whatever reason, she doesn't think it would work out between you two. So just keep being friends, and move on.
 

cressida

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means ...
"You are better with another girl" = leave me alone
"I'm not good enough for you" = I not interested
 

CrazyDe1

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Well...I told a girl this...even though I knew we were right for each other and we should be together...I dind't want to hold her back because shes really hot and I knew she could get better....
That and shes kind of a playa so that was just my way of kinda tleling her taht by bein such a playa I didn't think I would ever be good enough for her....
 

CrazyDe1

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The other thing is maybe she truly thinks shes not good enough for you...but she really likes you but shes scared that you don't feel the same way...and by saying that shes looking for you to say she really is good enough for you...but she wants confirmation from you
 

Siddhartha

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Originally posted by: freemanteo
I need to know what you people think when a girl tells you: " You are better off with another girl" or "I'm not good enough for you"


what exactly does the girl is trying to say to me? Both of us a friends and our parents too. She is a nice girl, i'm a nice man, but we have alot of differences in thoughts and food.

Her parents think i'm a good man, but she is'nt attracted to me at all, so she told me that above! :(

1 good thing is i leave a good impression on her and that we are still friends, i should'nt ask for more.

I'm a traditional young man, i always thought i'm good enough for any girl cos i have the almost package!


Pros:
I'm 5'10 (not too short)
Athletic body
Good in sports
Drives a nice convertible
Works as a Car Mechanic
Gentleman, Kind, Romantic, Unique, Sensual, Good looking, Cute, Street Smart, Wise, honest, Good manners in any occasion
Adjust to my Environment easily
Virgin
Love my future wife till death do us part principel (Love is something we have to work to keep it alive, especially 5yrs of marriage and i have no problem in that cos Divorce is not in my Vocabulary and not an option for me)

Cons:
Stubborn
Smart mouth when necessary
Thinks too much
Over-sensitive
Procrastination
Hot-tempered
mild Acne-scar face on some area of face
No wealth
Not an American Citizen

Believe her and move on.