Originally posted by: coldmeat
Eating nothing but peanut butter sandwiches for weeks.
That has been the staple of my lunches for years.
Best thing i've found is i only use credit card for online purchases, otherwise we are using cash for everything. psychologically or whatever it's been working well. we have no cc debt and our savings account has grown at a very surprising clip. really, though, you need cheap tastes. so not going out for lunch or buying expensive clothing or anything. ignore the arguments about points, they are rubbish and minutiae. only when you are paying for your life with cash (or debit) can you clearly grasp how much you make and how much you can spend.
btw your husband doesn't need all that done on his car. the struts, forget it. the clutch, only if it's slipping. 5k for a car should get you a completely replaced powertrain.
We really need to start doing that. I need to find a good spreadsheet that can help us keep track of literally every penny we spend
piece of paper will do.
ditch silly habits like starbucks every day, collecting dvds (a bullsh*t term anyway, they are not collections, they will be worthless in a decade, completely worthless), requiring new cars, don't buy cds, rarely eat out. in time whatever "pain" you have from cutting back takes a back seat to the comfort that your finances are completely sorted out.
debt makes sense for a house and education and little more, barely cars. definitely not anything like furniture or electronics, not now not ever. ignore the noise about 0% intro rates on a new love seat or whatever else in the same vein.