Originally posted by: jer0608
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It seems the major difficulty you have is that not being a Christian means a one-way ticket to Hell. I don't believe this personally, and I know that the Church has condemned this attitude. I think it's very possible for people from other religions to be saved. The key, however, is not "living a good life", as everybody likes to say, because there is no such thing as "a good life". So, as I posted earlier, people have to realize:
1) They do bad things
2) They can't fix themselves
3) Therefore, something else has to help them
At this point, a Christian has already been given the answer, while a pagan might not see any solution but try anyway. Same difference. The Christian just has an easier time of it. Now the people who go to Hell are those who don't think there is anything wrong, and choose to set something else up as God to serve. As the Bible says, nobody can serve two masters, so somebody who loves only themselves, for example, will invariably end up hating God.
One other point in your response was when you said "imposing eternal retribution on doubters [would be classified] as 'spiteful and immature' rather than 'all loving'". I guess my answer wasn't clear enough. God doesn't "impose" any sort of retribution. It's the lost souls who refuse to be near God that causes the seperation.