themusgrat
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Originally posted by: Mursilis
Dependence, and how the mind rationalizes it, is a tricky thing. Yes, few people are going to actually admit (even to themselves) that they're leeches, but many are going to cling to some small personal issue as an excuse to call themselves disabled, and convince themselves they cannot work, and thus deserve a handout. I work with people seeking various forms of federal disability, and very few of the people I see are out and out liars, from what I can tell; they seem to actually believe that they're disabled for life, even if the original issue was minor and years ago. But they're not. We're born dependent, and many people refuse to give that up. The more the gov't creates incentives for dependency, the more dependent people we'll get.
This is very true, and it touches on what another poster recently referred to as the "pussification" of America. We're creating all these ways for us to pass the blame for ourselves onto anything other than ourselves.
We say that because a pedophile has problems liking little kids, he's got behavioral problems, or he had problems with his childhood, or maybe he's got a mental illness; anything other than that he's a flaming lovely human that needs to sort his shit out or go to jail till he does. Or when people who are having problems with their marriage go to shrinks and somehow feel better afterwards. They will tell you that they needed that, they needed someone else to tell them what they knew already, or what any of their family or friends could have told them. Anything other than admitting that they messed up.
The above is completely right. We've made our society dependent upon feeling good, and we find anyway we can to rationalize it. It won't be long before we have clinics for rapists and murderers to help them get over their mental "problems." This is going a little offtopic, but I really liked what Ted Nugent had to say about the matter of repeat offenders. He said "Repeat offenders? I'd rather see a dead offender." It's a shame we keep getting laxer and laxer on responsibility and punishment, while the world goes to shit all around us.
