what does it mean when your gf asks if she is fat or is sexy?

[frankierx]

friend of mine is being asked if his gf is fat or sexy by her. he says she is fine, but she has gained a little of extra weight since they first met. they need to sign up at the same gym nearby inorder to work out or swim at least once a week to establish some sort of excercise program.

eating and sleeping alone is not helping matters when it comes to overall health and fitness.

 

[imported_LoKe]

What does it mean? I think it just means she wants some attention. She's sexy, no questions asked. But... a gym program can't hurt.

 

[Red Dawn]

what does it mean when your gf asks if she is fat or is sexy?

That she wants to know if she is fat or sexy.

 

[gar3555]

pics?

 

[Juno]

Originally posted by: gar3555
pics?

 

[Brutuskend]

It's a trick question!
Run away screaming!

 

[Kadarin]

Originally posted by: Red Dawn

what does it mean when your gf asks if she is fat or is sexy?

That she wants to know if she is fat or sexy.

:thumbsup:

But if she IS fat, and he tells her so...

 

[Descartes]

I didn't know they were mutually exclusive?

 

[MobiusPizza]

Best answer:
"No matter how or what you've become, *coughs*, I still love you *more coughs"

 

[bradruth]

Have him say "both" and see what the reaction is.

 

[MobiusPizza]

Well if a girl ask that it does imply the following
a) she wants more attention
And depend her mood of asking, either
b) she's anxious about some weight change
c) she's over-confident with her looks/fitness

 

[MobiusPizza]

Originally posted by: bradruth
Have him say "both" and see what the reaction is.

I'd like to say you are sexy my love but you really isn't

 

[Descartes]

Originally posted by: AnnihilatorX

Originally posted by: bradruth
Have him say "both" and see what the reaction is.

I'd like to say you are sexy my love but you really isn't

wow.

 

[MobiusPizza]

Originally posted by: Descartes

Originally posted by: AnnihilatorX

Originally posted by: bradruth
Have him say "both" and see what the reaction is.

I'd like to say you are sexy my love but you really isn't

wow.

Okay correction: I'd like to say you are sexy my love but you really aren't

 

[her209]

I had a thread on this before. My suggested response, "Baby, our love isn't based on looks."

 

[tweakmm]

It means that the girl wants to be told that she is sexy.

 

[mercanucaribe]

Your friend should simply say "Looks aren't important. It's what's inside that counts."

 

[HaxorNubcake]

Originally posted by: mercanucaribe
Your friend should simply say "Looks aren't important. It's what's inside that counts."

the implications there would be bad enough. Okay gg i'm ass ugly and you can't say it to my face

 

[moshquerade]

Originally posted by: frankierx
friend of mine is being asked if his gf is fat or sexy by her. he says she is fine, but she has gained a little of extra weight since they first met. they need to sign up at the same gym nearby inorder to work out or swim at least once a week to establish some sort of excercise program.

eating and sleeping alone is not helping matters when it comes to overall health and fitness.

he knows what it means, and you know what it means. :roll:

 

[BobDaMenkey]

She's feeling insecure. Either response is not going to make her feel better about her self. Run away screaming in fear because she's going to start wigging.

 

[HaxorNubcake]

unless you're prepared to not give completely honest answers stay away from those questions.
actually, she might see through a dishonest answer, so yep just run away and hide.

 

[edi sucks]

i hate these questions...i fvcked up a few weeks ago, went out to dunkin donuts with a coworker, we grabbed coffee and she wanted to split a donut, so we did, then she said she wanted another donut, i was like "nah, you shouldn't, beach season is coming up......"

...got myself into a huge mess with that one

 

[cavemanmoron]

Originally posted by: Red Dawn

what does it mean when your gf asks if she is fat or is sexy?

That she wants to know if she is fat or sexy.

Oh,man only too choices,I would say Your Sexxxxyyy honey!!

 

[MmmSkyscraper]

Footsteps down stairs, slam door, tyres screech!

 

[thomsbrain]

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: frankierx
friend of mine is being asked if his gf is fat or sexy by her. he says she is fine, but she has gained a little of extra weight since they first met. they need to sign up at the same gym nearby inorder to work out or swim at least once a week to establish some sort of excercise program.

eating and sleeping alone is not helping matters when it comes to overall health and fitness.

he knows what it means, and you know what it means. :roll:

never underestimate the power of guys to have no idea what the fvck girls are talking about. if girls would just SAY WHAT THEY MEAN ONCE IN A WHILE it wouldn't be a problem. but they veil eveything and still expect guys to magically know their innermost thoughts.

granted, this is such a glaring and culturally-overexposed example that I can't believe these kids don't know what it means, but if this girl had just said, "I'm concerned that I'm gaining weight. Do you still find me attractive?" then there wouldn't be any question.

of course it's complicated by the fact that she doesn't care what the FACTS are, she only wants to hear the white lie to make herself feel better. but that's another rant for another day.