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What do you talk to girls about? (girls you like)

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Originally posted by: mEarles
stuff we do in our free time
or just "what's something cool i don't know about you?"

Uhm, I can't really talk about something I do in my freetime:

(Tues-Thurs-Sun)

girl: What did you do yesterday?

me: Well, yesterday in Kung Fu Class, my Si-Fu taught me this new technique called Tan-sau and showed me the applications and theories, and also showed me what happenes when you don't quite do it right. He grabbed my throat and chocked me while repeatedly elbowing my head in.

girl: 😕

(Mon-Wed-Sat)

girl: What did you do yesterday?

me: Well, I taught kids TaeKwonDo yesterday, and one of the kids started to really really misbehave, putting other kids in danger, so I had to walk over and make him do push-ups on his knuckles while I was standing over him yelling at him like a drill sergeant until he cried like the little kid that he is.

girl: :Q

(About class)

girl: What did you do yesterday?

well: Well, in class, we learned about Spinoza and Liebniz - the rationalists - and how their rationalist view on life has a profound effect on our conception towards current philosophy.

girl:
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(this all happened by the way - even the kid-push-up incident :| )
 
Originally posted by: her209
Originally posted by: chiwawa626
Originally posted by: her209
why they suck
yup, nice guys always finish last!...btw, whats ur excuse 😉
my excuse for what?

The implication is that you've finished last and are not nice, therefore he's asking your excuse for finishing last.

Witty banter rarely translates to text well.
 
If I'm interested in her, I ask her about herself mostly. I want to know as much as I can, and I never know how long I'll be able to talk to her..
 
Most women are like an engine. They need only a starter sentence to get the mouth running. And as long as you have patience and a general interest, you can talk to any woman by simply saying:

Hi Hon, How was your day?
or
How was work?

How was your drive home?

Whats been going on with (insert your girls friends names here)?

Hows your parents doing?

Etc Etc Etc, the list can go on and on. The trick here is patience. If you can listen to her go on and on for more than fifteen minutes then your a great listener.

~wnied~
 
Originally posted by: Jehovah
I'd do that too, ask about her, but usually the kinds of girls I'm interested in are the quiet kinds . . ..

IMHO life is about sharing the few moments you have with someone... so even the quiet ones have parts of their life to share!

Skel
 
Originally posted by: Skel
Originally posted by: Jehovah
I'd do that too, ask about her, but usually the kinds of girls I'm interested in are the quiet kinds . . ..

IMHO life is about sharing the few moments you have with someone... so even the quiet ones have parts of their life to share!

Skel

Correction: the quiet, awkward-since I'm not yet comfortable with them moments
 
depends on the girl.. it's not really a question you can answer easily... talk about whatever comes to mind.. i think being open is good... i blab about whatever... it's all good... 😀
 
Originally posted by: fyleow
Well I just finished talking to a friend of mine, only a 30 min phone convo (my brother does like 2 hours with his GF :Q). Just about her day and what she does etc....they talk ALOT though. Ended with "Hey want to do something next week?" 😀

Uhmm I usually go "Yea", "uh huh", "Yea", and oh did I say "Yea". Dunno it's a lot of listening but I guess it's natural. Don't get much in but once in awhile I'll relate to a personal experience or tell her about something that happened.

I do that alot too. Most girls like to talk, lol.

I remembered something that someone famous said.

She loved talking to one certain man because she thought he was the most interesting man in the world. However, even though she thought he was the most interesting man, there was one man she prefered over him. It was because when she talked to this other man made HER feel like the most interesting women in the world. He just took in an interest in what she said.
 
I talk about nothing. If I try to force the conversation, it just sounds forced. So talk about nothing and everything and you'll be fine.

ZV
 
Originally posted by: Skel
Originally posted by: Jehovah
I'd do that too, ask about her, but usually the kinds of girls I'm interested in are the quiet kinds . . ..

IMHO life is about sharing the few moments you have with someone... so even the quiet ones have parts of their life to share!

Skel

Well said. Me too
 
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