What do you talk about when talking to a girl?

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WA261

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talk about all the chix you have waxed, and how huge your jimmy is ....(i have heard they love that kind of crap)
 

kami

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Come on man...i hate posts like this. The way you talk it's like girls are another damn species. Talk to them like you would anyone else. GOD!!!
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Kenny0829

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I have tried that and it don't always work...

Please God, let me be Lucky Tonight....

Sorry couldn't resist...:)
 

mAdD INDIAN

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<< You can talk about anything you want with girls, however, most gilrs will not apprecaite conversations on:
1) Electronics
2) Cars
3) BUilding things


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mine does! =) u'd be surprised..i explained to her how a VLSD works and she was actually interested.
 

The_Dude8

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talk about gossips, grrl just luv to gossips. maybe talk about smallville, friends, survivor, alias, 24 or any tv shows that she likes.
 

A5

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<< Don't mention your interest in beastiality. Don't!! :Q >>


Bahahaha :D
 
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Just tell her stupid stories. Like the time you got suspended for 5 days for hacking into the school's computer system, the time you bit your sunday school teacher's arm. Funny original stories are the way to go.
 

Geekbabe

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<< I have tried that and it don't always work...

Please God, let me be Lucky Tonight....

Sorry couldn't resist...:)
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me thinks your kneeling at the wrong altar :)
 

Argo

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<< The problem is that if you start saying to yourself that you are shy and dont know what to talk about you will become self doubting and introspective and self judging so that you will essentially step on your own tongue. Just forget about it. You will either talk or you won't. but focusing on it will only make it worce. Who the hell knows what to talk about with girls. Maybe she will be wondering the same thing. All you have is who you are and what you've experienced and digested and formulated as what you think about life. But you are not going to be a book to be read from beginning to end. You don't have to rehearse. If you can relax and just be, conversation will happen spontaneously as a process of the flow of associations. It may die and start again elsewhere, but the more uptight and self critical you become the less spontaneous you will be able to be. Go to the prom, relax and have fun. Ask your date about herself and be sure to listen. You don't want to let associations happen in such a way that everything she says becomes a chance to talk about you. Nothing wrong with talking about you, just make room for the other person. Now forget everything I said and have fun. >>



This is the best response I have ever heard. No seriously, I couldn't agree more.
 

yllus

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Talk about the big three if you're really stumped: School, work, mutual friends. As cliched as it sounds, you really can't go wrong by asking her these things about herself.

Equally, tell her about yourself. What school/work/interesting friends do you have? Were you a crazy kid or a quiet kid when you were young? Do you believe in Communism?

Don't run on a script. You can START by asking how her day went and include school/work/etc. in it, but just naturally branch from there.

You'll only be shy if you think you suck/aren't as kewl as she is. Just remember that she's just a chick, therefore meaning she can't possibly be as l33t as you. ;) WTF do you have to be afraid of?
 

dionx

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<< Read the kama sutra. It's full of interesting topics. :D Just kidding

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heh my gf and i recently just read through some of it. some of the stuff in there can be considered domestic violence.