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What do you do when you want to date some one but...

Philippine Mango

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What would you do if you knew a girl fairly well and was interested in but the problem is, you've heard from a few people that she isn't exactly 'clean' while when you're talking to her you get the impression that it's the complete opposite and if anything IS squeaky clean...

Hint, she got a "Promise Ring" from her dad..

Promise ring from dad basically outlined that she 'wouldn't get laid'.

Update: Shes prolly gay, literally speaking.. Found myspace of both chicks I know, while I'm decent friends with them, I don't know them *that* well... The first chick (mentioned in post) says orientation not specified and the other chick, well she had the 'straight' orientation selection but then changed it to lesbian. I know myspace is a craphole that shouldn't necessarily be taken seriously but nonetheless it's what I know and to be honest, I would be surprised. Also with the first chick, for the 'abbreviation' for the URL to her site, lets just say it has the word "gay" in it, multiple times.

(Both of them have been seen making out with other womenz unsecretively so basically everything is up in the air (could be jokingly))
Competely side the point, so if the rumors are lies, with the information i've provided, would you guys pursue any one of them?
 

Yossarian

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Originally posted by: Philippine Mango
Hint, she got a "Promise Ring" from her dad..

that part really has me scratching my head

Originally posted by: Philippine Mango
Promise ring from dad basically outlined that she 'wouldn't get laid'.

that isn't what promise rings are for.
 

Ronstang

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If she isn't "exactly clean" then just take her outside and hose her off first.....worked great with you mom.
 

Nik

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I'd grow the hell up, stop wasting time, and stop playing highschool-level emo-drama games. I don't care what people say about other people because I don't trust people; I'll find out for myself.
 

iamaelephant

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Originally posted by: Philippine Mango
Originally posted by: moshquerade
are you suggesting incest?

Moshquerade, taking drugs while posting on internet forums is looked down upon, you should know this...

In all fairness that's the impression I got too :confused:
 

Nik

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Originally posted by: Goku
Originally posted by: moshquerade
are you suggesting incest?

Moshquerade, taking drugs while posting on internet forums is looked down upon, you should know this...

Unfunny.

I thought the same thing Mosh did.
 

crumpet19

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Originally posted by: GuideBot
I'd grow the hell up, stop wasting time, and stop playing highschool-level emo-drama games. I don't care what people say about other people because I don't trust people; I'll find out for myself.


:Q
 

rockyct

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Well, the wiki link does have this, " certain religious groups, where the concept of premarital sex is shunned, a promise ring can be worn by a person to indicate that they have made a vow to put off having sex until they are married. These rings are then replaced by a true promise ring (given by the partner in the relationship), engagement ring, or wedding ring."

Maybe that's what he's talking about.
 

sixone

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Originally posted by: Philippine Mango
What would you do if you knew a girl fairly well and was interested in but the problem is, you've heard from a few people that she isn't exactly 'clean' while when you're talking to her you get the impression that it's the complete opposite and if anything IS squeaky clean...

Hint, she got a "Promise Ring" from her dad..

Promise ring from dad basically outlined that she 'wouldn't get laid'.

If you're the kind of guy that believes rumors without any shred of evidence to support them, then break it off now.

If you have the stones, talk to her about it. DO NOT under any circumstances tell her about the rumors or who's spreading them, but you can fish for info without doing that. Then go with your gut instinct.

If you don't have the stones to do that, then break it off now. The inability to deal with problems directly will poison any relationship you try to have with anyone.