What do you consider cheating?

[sixone]

Originally posted by: Mike
How is flirting without any physical contact cheating by anyones standard? Grow the F up.

I think flirting was the wrong word to use there, as well. But if you're spending a lot of time with someone, saying things you wouldn't say in front of your SO, then it's definitely cheating.

 

[Zolty]

Where is the option for "Sex, with emotional attachment"

 

[Mxylplyx]

Originally posted by: Conky
This poll is flawed. Cheating is doing something with someone else your SO would not approve of.

/thread

Cheating isnt some arbitrary set of rules everyone can follow. If your SO thinks it's cheating, it's cheating.

 

[JRich]

Originally posted by: SSSnail
When I get caught.

Give that man a cigar!

 

[meltdown75]

as long as you don't start making out, you're good to go.

 

[markgm]

If you have to ask if something you're doing is cheating, then just be an adult and end the relationship. There are few things worse you can do to a person than to cheat on them.

 

[moshquerade]

anything you wouldn't want your sig other to do.

 

[JEDIYoda]

cheating is when it comes out of your pants for any reason other than doing the wild thang with your wife!!

 

[KoolDrew]

Originally posted by: Fullmetal Chocobo
anything with the intent to cheat.... Doesn't matter what it was.

 

[doze]

Originally posted by: Astaroth33
Whatever it happens to be, if you would be pissed after learning that your g/f was doing it with some guy, then it's cheating.

yep

 

[eits]

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: lupi
Once the nipple has made its apperance.

but what if it was a wardrobe malfunction?

stored in the spank bank

 

[fleshconsumed]

The poll is a little inconsistent. A SO may flirt with someone else, but it may be just for fun without any serious intention (that I'm fine with), fantasizing about someone else is more serious IMHO because it means SO is not satisfied with a regular partner and is more likely to cheat.

 

[Ilikepiedoyou]

good point

 

[KK]

Originally posted by: fleshconsumed
The poll is a little inconsistent. A SO may flirt with someone else, but it may be just for fun without any serious intention (that I'm fine with), fantasizing about someone else is more serious IMHO because it means SO is not satisfied with a regular partner and is more likely to cheat.

So what do you consider cheating? When you say someone is more likely to cheat fantasizing about someone else, I take it you mean cheating is sex.

On a side note, where did the term cheating come from, cheating usually gives you an upper hand.

 

[sixone]

Originally posted by: fleshconsumed
The poll is a little inconsistent. A SO may flirt with someone else, but it may be just for fun without any serious intention (that I'm fine with), fantasizing about someone else is more serious IMHO because it means SO is not satisfied with a regular partner and is more likely to cheat.

How is fantasizing about someone any different than looking at porn?

 

[angminas]

If you're married, all. Marriage vows usually include things like "forsaking all others", "love, honor, and cherish", and "till death do us part". If you promise to do these things and then don't do them, you're cheating.

If you're not married...too complex to get into right now. The short answer is probably any of them if you're in a committed relationship.