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What do u talk about with girls?

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EnragedPC

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alright ive been going out with my girlfriend for a couple weeks now..and well i always run out of things to talk about then theres like ackward silence and i HATE that...so what do u talk about with ur girlfriends or just any girl?...serious answers please
 


<< aYe, if you have awkward silences in conversation, then obviously you and her don't connect... I'd advise you find someone else >>


And send the girl my way while you're at it.
 
I talk to them about the same stuff I talk about with guys for the most part. They are just normal people too. Thats one thing I learned a while ago. Treat them for the most part like your guy friends (but dont fart towards them). Be a little more gentle, but still treat them like everyone else. What do you do when you get into silence with your friends? Just dont hit the woman and everything will be alright.
 


<< I talk to them about the same stuff I talk about with guys for the most part. They are just normal people too. Thats one thing I learned a while ago. Treat them for the most part like your guy friends (but dont fart towards them). Be a little more gentle, but still treat them like everyone else. What do you do when you get into silence with your friends? Just dont hit the woman and everything will be alright. >>



you are right about that..... it took me a long time to figure that out but it is true.
 
sometimes you dont need to talk and the silence is not awkward.. seems like you're just not comfortable with the girl yet
 


<< aYe, if you have awkward silences in conversation, then obviously you and her don't connect... I'd advise you find someone else >>

Way to jump to conclusions there, doc.

Eventually everyone runs out of things to say to someone they've been talking to for a long time, especially if there frankly isn't that much going on in their lives. All relationships thrive on common experiences to work - if you got to a movie together, afterwards and forever you two can flash back to when the guy in front of you spilled his drink all over his girlfriend and she kicked him in the nuts. See what I'm getting at?

Otherwise just be a bit strategic in your settings. Try to sit near enough to her to sling an arm around her without moving from where you're positioned if you sense yourself running out of things to say. It's more about keeping a general air of casualness than anything - if you appear nervous, the nervous air that's created can really be killer on your romantic life...
 


<< How great you did in your last CS game and how they all hail you for your almightyness. >>


my ex used to always tell me how good he was at quake and a friend of mine also claimed to be good at quake. and they always claimed they were the best and could beat eachother

and so i used to be all "oh my bf thinks he can kick your ass at quake" and then to my bf "my friend says he can kick your ass at quake"

then they played.
my bf lost.
we never spoke of quake again.

*kat. <-- just talk to her about stuff, especially her! girls love to talk about themselves, like how their day went.
 
just ignore her, she'll eat it up ... not ! 🙂


seriously, the same stuff you'd talk to anybody else about 🙂
 
Ehhh. sometimes you can talk, sometimes you can't. Like today, i was chillin and i wasn't saying much. You just gotta flow when you talk...like, start with 1 topic and progress from there...
 
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