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What could cause a person to due this? Just curious, mainly need female advice

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dxkj

Lifer
Ok, so im mainly just putting off studying, but I am kinda really confused about this one situation with a girl.



We were friends for 4 years in highschool, good friends, but she had a boyfriend during that time

When we went away to college a few months later she broke up with him, and eventually we started dating

That lasted for about 4 months, then she called me one morning and told me she cheated on me, after being a little pissed I ended the relationship, but still wanted to be friends (she was cool as hell, and damn fine)

We were friends for a while, and then when summer came around we started dating again (mainly because she was damn fine and fun to be around)

After we were back at college she cheated on me again (LDR suck when people like to get physical i guess)

I was really pissed, but after getting over that i decided we should at least remain friends and never try that again

I called her up during christmas break and asked her if she wanted to get coffee and hang out, she said she wasnt feeling well

20 mins later i got an email saying "I never want to see you, hear from you, or talk to you again etc etc,

2 years later i send her an email and ask her how she is doing etc, and she still feels the same way


Now I am completely putting this behind me, but WTH? What could cause this, Im a nice guy, and I never did anything wrong


Some chicas are just loco man 🙁
 
You should have tossed the bitch to the curb the first time she cheated on you.

Continuing to hang out with the girl afterwards just because she was "fun to be with" and "damn fine" just emphasize the fact that you were a p**sy whipped fool. Hopefully you've learned your lesson.
 
we had a physical relationship, just not when she was in another state


yei had known her for a while and never thought she was like that so i wanted to keep her around as a friend, I havent always been this pessimistic
 
HAHAHAHA

Sorry, but I know the EXACT type of girl you are talking about. Just forget about it. You were not the problem, she was.
 
Weird. Did you ever ask her what made her never want to speak to you again? I'm curious what the "etc etc" part of the email was.
 
Weird. Did you ever ask her what made her never want to speak to you again? I'm curious what the "etc etc" part of the email was.
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I asked her why, never got a response


nm the etc etc, that was pretty much the email, i just dont remember the exact wording
 
just forget about it... you don't need friends that treat you like that.. esp since she's a cheater..
 
my problem is I never understood why and that always bothered me, I've put it behind me now, just curious if anyone could guess why she was like that?
 
See what happened is she had another guy over at her place. You called her and he was wondering who it was. She told him and I am sure he got mad. She took that out on you! I can promise you this is exactly what happened.
 
Originally posted by: dxkj
my problem is I never understood why and that always bothered me, I've put it behind me now, just curious if anyone could guess why she was like that?
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Probably she thought you weren't good enough for her. Or maybe she wasn't getting what she wanted in bed.

 
Originally posted by: amnesiac 2.0
You should have tossed the bitch to the curb the first time she cheated on you.

Continuing to hang out with the girl afterwards just because she was "fun to be with" and "damn fine" just emphasize the fact that you were a p**sy whipped fool. Hopefully you've learned your lesson.
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Originally posted by: Gobadgrs
Originally posted by: amnesiac 2.0
You should have tossed the bitch to the curb the first time she cheated on you.

Continuing to hang out with the girl afterwards just because she was "fun to be with" and "damn fine" just emphasize the fact that you were a p**sy whipped fool. Hopefully you've learned your lesson.
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BTW get yourself tested for STDs too
 
Probably she thought you weren't good enough for her. Or maybe she wasn't getting what she wanted in bed.
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she was a virgin and wanted to stay one(until she got married), so i never pushed the sex thing
 
Originally posted by: dxkj
Probably she thought you weren't good enough for her. Or maybe she wasn't getting what she wanted in bed.
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she was a virgin and wanted to stay one(until she got married), so i never pushed the sex thing
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So you are saying you never banged her box? I thought you said she was hot...

 
Originally posted by: dxkj
So you are saying you never banged her box? I thought you said she was hot...
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I also said she was a virgin and wanted to wait... in other words no sex
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No sex = later beotch. When she said no sex you should have dumped her right there, in my opinion.

 
You should have tossed the bitch to the curb the first time she cheated on you.

Continuing to hang out with the girl afterwards just because she was "fun to be with" and "damn fine" just emphasize the fact that you were a p**sy whipped fool. Hopefully you've learned your lesson.
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:Q

yei had known her for a while and never thought she was like that so i wanted to keep her around as a friend, I havent always been this pessimistic
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Do you mean optimistic?

If she asked you not to contact her then don't. You may not have done anything, but she has a right to socialize with whomever she chooses. Since I don't know her I cannot tell you anything about her bad or good. She doesn't seem to be trying to use you or harm you in anyway, so just move on. If there is something that you are to know about the request, it will eventually be told to you if and when she desires.
 
No sex = later beotch. When she said no sex you should have dumped her right there, in my opinion.
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yeah, thats what you call a meaningful relationship =)




If she asked you not to contact her then don't.
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I didnt, for 2 years, then curiosity got the better of me, now I will just leave her alone permanently, whats wrong with me, always giving people another chance
 
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