what age is the best and suitable to have first sex?

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Isla

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good girl, hzl!

Don't just give it away. You are very special and should be with someone who appreciates that fact.

 

Varborta

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Ok, let me rephrase the question I just want to know whats the age that most people would assume majority of the people say 70% who reach that age should have had one sex in his or her life. I want the general age please thank you.
 

Dameon

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18-20... I'm thinking...
if you ain't lost it by then.... you're one of the holy rollers waiting for marriage.
 

Viper GTS

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you're one of the holy rollers waiting for marriage

That's not the only reason for waiting, & it's not mine.

Viper GTS
 

DirkBelig

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I recommend waiting until the girl LOOKS old enough to make, "She said she was [insert state's age of consent]!!!", sound plausable!!:D
 

PCAddict

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I'd say around 18-19 assuming both parties are mature enough to handle it, at least that was my experience.
 

Sephiroth_IX

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My (ex)girlfriend tried to make me at 13, but i backed out... I wasn't ready.

At about 15 you become emotionally ready.
 

kduncan5

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I'd like to say "when you're mentally and emotionally ready" as well, but when you're a teenager, oftentimes hormones override common sense.:Q -kd5-
 

beer

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Whether or not it is morally correct I have read surveys that say some 60% of teenagers have sex in high school. However only 3% of men and 6% of women are virgins when they marry.

Whether or not that't true...but it sounds about right.

I lost mine at 16.
 

Adul

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Longer you can hold out the better. I have only been with one girl in my life, and My next one will have to be my (future)wife. Can't wait to marry my girlfriend
 
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hzl, your not the only one here you hasnt done it. Neither have my girl friend and I. We talked about it, but I am not ready.

So regarding the question.. when both of you are ready to take on the responsiblity that comes with the deed. Responsiblity doesnt mean putting on a condom, the emotional, physical, mental, biological things that go into the act called "sex".

If you want to beat the pipe, just go rent a porno.
 

Varborta

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What makes people want to hold off and think they are not ready? Whats holding them? And thank you guys for making my posts one of the most HOT topic.
 

starlitt

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When you are mature enough to handle the consequences of having sex.






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Shuxclams

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it's all up to the individual, if peeps think its worth waiting for marrige thats fine, for them, sex before marriage is fine in my eyes if its responsible and respectfull. But thats just my opinion. I think if your looking to get married then living on your own is better than having a virgin for a wife, as a matter of fact why the hell would I want a virgin for a wife? Boring! :D











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atomicbomberman

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I'll say by the time you're legal to drink, you shoul've done it by then

Too many girls did it too soon in HS though.. how stupid can that be? I mean.. HS! It's such a stupid place where all the guys are thinking sex every 30 seconds anyway. U would think that the girls are gonna be smart enough to know that!

Men is having sex at a very very young age because girls are too stupid to not let them.
 

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I'll put in a vote for age 18. At that age, you are no longer a minor, you are entrusted with the privilege of driving, you can be drafted, and you have the right to vote. If you can do all that, why not throw having sex into that mix of fun!?!?
 

Isla

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<< Men is having sex at a very very young age because girls are too stupid to not let them. >>



Extremely good point, and I'm glad you made it for me.

Males have a tendency not to value or appreciate it when women are willing. Oh, they dig it for about 5 minutes, and then they think of us as nothing more than used tissues.

For the females reading this:

I don't care if you wait until marriage or not. I'm not a moralist. But don't let yourself be used by someone who just sees you as a 'lay'.

Don't give it away to someone who doesn't appreciate what it is that you are giving. Be sure he truly cares about you first.

edit: LOL Red Dawn, you know what I mean! :D
 

ratkil

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<<Don't give it away to someone who doesn't appreciate what it is that you are giving. Be sure he truly cares about you first. >> The funny/sad thing is, this is so easy to find out and very few women ever try to. They are too worried about the guy bolting, which is even more ironic because if he does bolt that proved the point that he was only interested in one thing........the tangled webs we weave......