Well, I had an interesting evening...

BigToque

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I was invited last minute to a pub crawl this evening and I accepted. While we were at the 2nd of 4 stops, I met a girl and it was her b-day. She said she was having an after party at some place downtown. At the end of the night, after I had already lost all of my friends, I decided to go to this place by myself.

I ended up staying from 2-7:00 am, at an underground rave party with people I don't know while they did coke, eccstacy and pot and drank all night in a huge old loft in the middle of downtown.

To say it was a little different was an understatement.

This girl I met (who is pretty cute and did all of the above mentioned), I still want to see her again. My gut instinct says it's not worth going for, but something want's me to call her again sometime and hang out again...

 

allisolm

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The way I see it - delibrately seeking out a relationship with someone you already know does coke and ecstasy ranks right up there in the top 10 Stupidest Things I Can Do Today. Unless, of course, you also do coke and ecstasy, in which case may you two be happy together.
 

Lonyo

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People who do coke and ecstacy aren't necessarily bad people, unless they have an addiction.
I know people who do them both (and other things) occasionally, and do not have a problem due to it, nor do they feel a need to take them every day/week etc.
 

BrownTown

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Just FYI, not everyone who does drugs is a loser, or ends up getting addicted. I don't know the exact statistics, but the majority of people smoke pot at least once in their life, and a decent % do other drugs. If this person is an addict then you are asking for trouble, if they have a handle on their use of drugs then it can be fine. You might as well go for it, if it turns out that they are nto what you expected/wanted then you can just break it off.
 
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Originally posted by: allisolm
The way I see it - delibrately seeking out a relationship with someone you already know does coke and ecstasy ranks right up there in the top 10 Stupidest Things I Can Do Today. Unless, of course, you also do coke and ecstasy, in which case may you two be happy together.

qft
 

Fenixgoon

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Originally posted by: Mike
Originally posted by: allisolm
The way I see it - delibrately seeking out a relationship with someone you already know does coke and ecstasy ranks right up there in the top 10 Stupidest Things I Can Do Today. Unless, of course, you also do coke and ecstasy, in which case may you two be happy together.

qfmft

fixed. OP, if you want to get with a coke addict... you're a friggin moron, there's nothing worthwhile to gain.
 

Modular

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What happened to the Italian mob girl you were touting before?

Do a line off this one's a-crack for me. Kthnx
 

doze

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Nothing wrong with a little bit of excessive partying every now and then, especially on yoru birthday. If you call her tonight and she is doing the same thing then don't waste your time.
 

BrokenVisage

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Expect a call to bail her ass out of jail when she gets picked up on drug possession some day soon. Do NOT push your luck here.
 

BobDaMenkey

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It's possible for it to turn out alright if she's not an addict. Although chances are pretty good that she is, and that it'll only lead toan incredibly bad time down the line for you. I probably wouldn't bother.
 

DeadByDawn

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Maybe if you could shag her without giving her your address, phone #, or place of employment you might make it out ok. Otherwise it's probably just megadrama waiting to happen.
 

monk3y

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As long as you don't approach it as a relationship thing it should be fine... Just consider it a possible future booty call or something.
 

BigToque

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Just FYI, the only substance I consume on a semi-regular basis is alcohol.

From what I saw and learned about this girl (who's a "former" crystal meth addict in her own words), is that she likes to party all the time and does a lot of other drugs as well.

Not to judge the people I met last night, but they seemed to be pretty much who you'd expect to find at a hole in the ground party that lasted from 2am to well past 7am in a dirty old warehouse downtown.

I would have no interest in persuing a relationship with this girl, but she's very cute :)
 

doze

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You could have a couple of fun evenings with her, just dont let her know where you live and use protection.
 

MidasKnight

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Originally posted by: allisolm
The way I see it - delibrately seeking out a relationship with someone you already know does coke and ecstasy ranks right up there in the top 10 Stupidest Things I Can Do Today. Unless, of course, you also do coke and ecstasy, in which case may you two be happy together.

:thumbsup:
 

Shawn

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hit it and quit it. oh and double wrap it, unless you want a crack baby.