nakedfrog
No Lifer
- Apr 3, 2001
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I think you've explained the root of your issue, then.It's more "complicated" than that, I am afraid.
What do you think is the impression I HAVE of a person who's first and only information they share (here in this case in the form of an avatar) is the fact that they own/have/like hand-guns? In a forum that is MAINLY tech/software etc. focused? What is the relevancy?
I am "distraught" in a sense that I am obviously well aware that people are/can be gun enthusiasts/hunters etc. (which we obviously can assume in a forum like this since it's not a "I am a gang member, YO!" forum - but it doesn't change the fact that a hand-gun, FOR ME, has more negative associations than positive associations. Even if someone, say, is a "gun-enthusiast" who proudly owns a gun for potential self-defense (a totally legit use which I don't say anything against), it isn't a "positive" association by any means. (the idea that you get robbed, burglered at home or any other situation where you'd use the gun) IN NO WAY invokes a "positive" feeling...and it makes me wonder why that person sees his gun-ownership as so essential and important that they need to show it in their avatar HERE IN THIS FORUM, which is not a sports forum, hunter forum or whatever. I am not really "offended", depends on how you interpret "strangely offended" when I wrote this...but it simply "doesn't sit right" here in this forum and in this place and it makes you look like a "weird" person, TO ME. Otherwise I could care less.
To me, a gun as an avatar is no different than a knife, or hammer. It's perceived as neutral to me, a tool, even though knives are certainly a popular option for stabbing/mugging/injuring. Hammers too, but probably less so overall.
I know plenty of folks in the nerd/geek community that are also firearms enthusiasts (I don't own one myself).
