Anyway, if these incels want sex so badly, why don't they just go hire a prostitute? What is with all the killing and murder fantasies? I don't get it.
Nobody can get it if they don’t see the problem in themselves. The more successful we are at hiding our self hate from ourselves, either because we were not completely and royally fucked as children or because we compensate with capacity or the plain dumb luck of having better circumstance growing up, the more intact our defenses and capacity not to feel our pain, our ego armor, stays in place. The fact remains, however, that the one sure way to cause males to open those hidden feelings of self worth is the denial of love and sex in the present.
The murderous rage we were forced to internalize as children from punishment for our demands for love and attention that caused our parents also to feel unbearably emotionally drained and the most easily called out of unconscious repression by rejection today.
There are people around so close to those feelings and willing to act them out they can try to kill you just by Looking at them. They see their own self hatred in you via projection.
Everybody in the world unconsciously conspires to keep this from being known as a fact. Nobody knows that our inner truth is what we feel and do not know we feel, that we were made to believe in lies. We even can’t believe we believe such lies, the pain of knowing is so great.
I remember the utter disbelief I experienced the first time it happened to me and, for reasons beyond my understanding, I had already been told those feelings were hidden in there. I must have said to myself a hundred times, I had no idea how much I hurt. I had no idea and then the wound closed again for years until I started to touch the rage.