I won't use the word theft because implies illegitimacy, but every dollar the government gets is taken involuntarily from someone. Its certainly a good idea to keep that in mind when discussing spending.
So, what's your solution, have all taxes be voluntary, so few pay anything and the society becomes Mad Max in months? Let the people vote on represenatives?
I'd like to hear your version of a practical system that doesn't have anyone who has to pay a dollar in taxes for anything they'd rather not.
You don't know what abuse is until you get what you want - a corporatocracy in which you are are screwed 1000 times worse than now, and you don't get a vote.
Move to the Latin American model, where 15 families own 98% of the recources, and the government and the police and the media, and you hope to get to pick their food.
Freedom, the definition of the right wing.