So I have a question. Who gave a 20-something with $15k in cash a loan for $850k.
IMO they should be on the hook for the $350k. They vouched for him being able to handle the asset.
When I bought my houses (2) in my 20s, I didn't just take whatever the bank offered me.
Why? Because I'm not a fucking idiot.
(Well, at least not for this...
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I actually planned my purchase based on my affordability, within a larger financial plan. (Mandatory savings, 401k contributions, savings for maintenance costs, protections in case of job loss.)
Made +50% on owning my first place, but I too had to buy the second house during same period (by selling first) and knew it was bubble money. How? Following the news and being educated, and not greedy.
So I put the bubble money we made into the 2nd house down payment (not remodels, vacations, toys), but did not even buy up to what we could afford, instead a bought a reasonable townhome (low maint costs) because we knew prices were running up and did not want to sink ourselves in an expensive house/boat anchor, as we were planning for kids.
Only years later did we move into a an affordable house of reasonable size and ability to maintain.
Once child care was over and kids were in elem school.
Once we built up careers and savings further.
We still lost a bit on the second place bought at height of the bubble, but loses were low, and more than paid for by the original bubble money.
We still have never dropped big or even med money on a remodel. Mostly diy stuff.
Is my kitchen outdated? F yes, but we need to save the money for college and retirement.
Priorities.