Waitress told me she wasnt happy with tip!

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DrPizza

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That's funny... Corporate Thug isn't living up to his name... He's avoided responding to all the accusations of "shens." He's been online... must not have time to look at this thread any more.
 

moshquerade

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Originally posted by: DrPizza
That's funny... Corporate Thug isn't living up to his name... He's avoided responding to all the accusations of "shens." He's been online... must not have time to look at this thread any more.
i smell a rat.
 

CTrain

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I hate to bring it up again but I would have to declare this as OWNAGE !!!!

Need him to admit to ownage cause he trying to make the service people look bad.
 

GnomeCop

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hahah when I finished reading the OP's post, my 1st thought was:

"here's a tip... learn to f%^&%$ type!"

-mr. pink, reservoir dogs
 

Pocahontas

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My a$$ wouldn't been out of my job if I had ever attempted to confront a customer over a tip, period. Not ethical in any circumstance. You will have at least one crappy tip a night (if indeed it was crappy by her standards) the night will even out for her somehow. It is never acceptable to run after anyone over a tip..now if you skipped a tab, look out I'd come after you..thats the only reason. The only things that happen to bad tippers if the are "regulars" is that are black listed as such, no one wants to wait on them and we won't bend over for them.
 

daveymark

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Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: DrPizza
That's funny... Corporate Thug isn't living up to his name... He's avoided responding to all the accusations of "shens." He's been online... must not have time to look at this thread any more.
i smell a rat.

bingo. 'specially when the OP has been posting willy nilly in other threads.

Shens on this whole thread

here's what really happened:

OP shafted the waitress by giving her $2 on a $50 bill. Waitress politely asked "Was there anything I could've done to improve the service? I'm really sorry if you were unsatisfied. Let me offer you a free meal on your next return." OP was startled by this, as the service was the best he ever had, and he thought $2 on $50 is a reasonable tip.

Cliff's: OP is cheap.
 

gordo282

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Originally posted by: waggy
heh crappy service demands a crappy tip. but you are going to be flamed from people on the board.

15% is on the low end? I use 15% as the standard - middle of the road. Things go ok, they get 15%; great service, friendly etc they get more (maybe)...things go poorly, they get 10%....

I have a friend who says that when he sits down at a table he pulls out a stack of $1 bills - maybe 10 or 20...

When the waiter/waitress introduces themselves he explains that this pile of $1 bills is their tip. Everytime they do something good, they get more added to the stack, when they do poorly they get some taken away.

i never saw him do this and I insist that any help would walk away from such an a$$hole..but just thought I would add that to this thread...
 

alkemyst

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Originally posted by: gordo282
Originally posted by: waggy
heh crappy service demands a crappy tip. but you are going to be flamed from people on the board.

15% is on the low end? I use 15% as the standard - middle of the road. Things go ok, they get 15%; great service, friendly etc they get more (maybe)...things go poorly, they get 10%....

I have a friend who says that when he sits down at a table he pulls out a stack of $1 bills - maybe 10 or 20...

When the waiter/waitress introduces themselves he explains that this pile of $1 bills is their tip. Everytime they do something good, they get more added to the stack, when they do poorly they get some taken away.

i never saw him do this and I insist that any help would walk away from such an a$$hole..but just thought I would add that to this thread...


Everyone has 'this story' somewhere...however; you are guaranteed to leave a cheap tip at the expense of your food.


 

spaceman

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Originally posted by: Fmr12B
"Next time you want more than $7, show me your tits"

are comments like this neccesary?
contrary to what you may think there are females on this board.
 

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Originally posted by: ncircle
Originally posted by: Fmr12B
"Next time you want more than $7, show me your tits"

are comments like this neccesary?
contrary to what you may think there are females on this board.

I'm sure he'd pay them $7 to show him their tits.
 

spaceman

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15% is minimum around here.
while she was way outta line, its not what i would consider a "good" tip
 

alkemyst

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Originally posted by: ncircle
Originally posted by: Fmr12B
"Next time you want more than $7, show me your tits"

are comments like this neccesary?
contrary to what you may think there are females on this board.

do all of them need to be sheltered by your big manhood?

The guy is cheap, but still many women would do that and not feel bad about it in the right context.
 

spaceman

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Originally posted by: alkemyst
Originally posted by: ncircle
Originally posted by: Fmr12B
"Next time you want more than $7, show me your tits"

are comments like this neccesary?
contrary to what you may think there are females on this board.

do all of them need to be sheltered by your big manhood?

The guy is cheap, but still many women would do that and not feel bad about it in the right context.

its called decency.

 

CTrain

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Please people, stop replying to the thread like it actually happenned.
The OP needs to fess up his OWNAGE !!
 

Kelnoen

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I think the whole tipping system in the US is crazy, people expect it now which defeats the purpose of a tip.

If I'm eating out I will pay the same price all the time, if the service is particularly good I might tip a small amount (like 5%), if the service is bad I refuse to pay.
 

loic2003

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Originally posted by: SolMiester
All of this is why tipping sucks. I like to know how much I am spending/ how much the food costs etc, without worring about what percent I have to pay somebody for doing their job.
The Amercia's is the only place in the world where people EXPECT to be paid tips. Everywhere else, people are paid by their employer, tips are just that, for extra special service, not expected service!

My 2 cents

This man has the right idea. A tip should only be issued if service has been above average. Over here you never tip at a bar or pub, for a start it's patronising passing trinket spare change to the lowly staff. People seem to gave gotten way too greedy in the US, and it seems bar managers have decided to pass to burden of paying their staff onto the consumer which is wrong. I'm not prepared to be put under pressure to decide what to pay the staff. The manager should do this. If I buy a £2 beer, that's what I want. I don't want to pay the same again for someone to pass me the beer, that's just dumb.

At a restaurant (so long as it's not part of the bill), 10% tops is fine for decent service, but I happily walk out without tipping very regularly if the service has been just average (staff being rude, staff not talking or being friendly, staff not being able to speak english in england, etc). If a waiter has been friendly, had a chat, put a bit of effort in, then I happily tip because they've done more than the bare minimum. It's a simple **FAIR** process that needs to be enforced otherwise you get cases of greedy motherfvckers who expect your money despite the service they offer, and even dare to argue the amounts. The US has it very wrong here and needs to fix it.

My 2c (+10% service fee)
 

Kelnoen

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Originally posted by: loic2003
Originally posted by: SolMiester
All of this is why tipping sucks....

My 2 cents

This man has the right idea...

My 2c (+10% service fee)

Very well said.

It's even worse when the Tip is split between the chef/kitchen staff too.
Why should their wage depend on how well the other staff perform?
 

alkemyst

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Originally posted by: Kelnoen
Originally posted by: loic2003
Originally posted by: SolMiester
All of this is why tipping sucks....

My 2 cents

This man has the right idea...

My 2c (+10% service fee)

Very well said.

It's even worse when the Tip is split between the chef/kitchen staff too.
Why should their wage depend on how well the other staff perform?

You are missing the tip concept in food service. the 15% tip is for the service...not as a favor. Kitchen staff arguably can be included since they are part of the service, usually in these circumstances the payscale is better all-around.

If you get crappy service a lesser tip can be expected, but service level goes with establishment....if you want 5 star service you cannot think of Sonny's BBQ as such a place.
 

homestarmy

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Originally posted by: randomlinh
Originally posted by: waggy
Originally posted by: EyeMWing
Originally posted by: hypn0tik
Originally posted by: EyeMWing
As a rule, I will NEVER tip if they mention it, and I will NEVER tip in the case of a pay-up-front scenario, if it's asked for on the receipt. I might leave one on the table if I have cash, but that's rare.

What do you mean by a pay-up-front scenario? When you pay before you eat or when you have to go to the counter in order to pay?

Pay before you eat. It's common at buffets.

never heard of tipping at a buffet.

really? I tip all the time at the buffets. Well, the ones where they come and clean your table every time you get up to get more food.. heh.

and I suppose I'm in the minority of tipping 20% most of the time. I guess I just have too much sympathy because I have quite a few friends who worked the restaurant business.

It's hard to have sympathy. They don't have sympathy for those of us who work fulltime and go to school fulltime to try and make a living.
 

fbrdphreak

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Originally posted by: mwtgg
Should have spoken with her manager.
Seriously. Have your entire meal comp'd for her bitch attitude. She'd be licking marinara sauce off my nuts, give her a taste of home.

(C'mon, what movie is it from?)
 

Nerva

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Originally posted by: Corporate Thug
so me and a group of friends go to a bar. My tab comes out to $46 or so and i leave a $7 tip because there was another tab open for the table and he buddy was gonna tip himself to.

The waitress comes back and tells me that if anything is wrong with the service because she isnt happy with the tip. Anyway, i tell her my friend cut his lip because the glass you brought was chipped, she screwed up the food order, and the service was slow.

With that said, i thought i was being fair with my tip. And then she says "feel free to leave a cash tip on the table". At the point, i was sure i wasnt going to so I closed the tab and left. The waitress runs outside calling me and my buddies assholes. I throw a business card in her direction and tell her to take it up with the law firm I was for and advise her to go back inside and make earn her $7.50/hr.

Usually, i wouldnt even bother but i thought she was waaaaaaay out of hand. What do you all think? Was she in the right? Was I?

haha, i really enjoyed the last part about you throwing a your card in her direction. it's not a nice gesture, but hey it looks like the situation warranted it. kudos!
 

alkemyst

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Originally posted by: homestarmy

It's hard to have sympathy. They don't have sympathy for those of us who work fulltime and go to school fulltime to try and make a living.

This is by far the most idiotic thing I have seen on ATOT.

There should be no sympathy...for one those going to school fulltime are a minority. Most everyone is working full-time. If you have to do both, why should they feel sorry for your poverty.

Don't eat out.

Also for those claiming they have no idea what the meals would cost them then...it's simple figure in a 15% overhead. If you need to use your TI-89A or any other calc, feel free...this is an open book/open note test.