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Vi & Vi's wife P90x (update)90'ish day review

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I've been posting my P90x progress in another thread but thought I'd make my own to strip out my thoughts and results a little more.

A bit of background on me & my wife.

I'm 34, she's 32. We've got a 4 year old and a 6 month old at the time of starting the program. We both work full time, my wife working close to 50 hours a week.

She never entirely got the baby weight off from the first baby, but wasn't in too bad of shape. The 2nd baby really put a hurt on her though. Had to have an emergent C-section 6 weeks early and was never able to nurse due to bleeding and extreme pain. Her body was never able to naturally recover from child birth and work off that weight and she was about 30 pounds heavier than she wanted. She's naturally...err...sturdy? framed. But she used to be in very good shape. All-state cross country runner and before kids would routinely place in her age group in 5k road races.

She started the program at 5'6 and and 156 pounds.

I'm fairly lean naturally, and was doing some basketball weekly to keep me honest. But I wasn't in great shape (squishy) but not carrying a lot of extra weight. I started the program at 6' and 178 pounds.

Both of our diets were kinda crappy. Having 2 kids, one of which that can't even walk yet is a huge time sink. Working full time+ hurts. And my 4 year old is a picky eater so we do a lot of really terrible meals just so that she eats something. Lots of individual things that add up to excuses to let ourselves slip.

My wife was really getting upset with how her body was looking and tried going to the gym after work but with trying to get out of work on time and juggling kids it just wasn't working out (bad pun).

We had heard of a lot of people that had bought P90x. Had talked to a lot of people that tried it for a day or two and gave up. Talked to even more that gave it a month and quit. And even a few that did two months and quit.

Being the stubborn, and competitive people we are, we got our hands on a copy from a relative and decided to give it a shot.

Once we get the kids tucked into bed at 8:30, we get changed, head to the basement, and hit play. 😎

We are now into our 2nd recovery week. We aren't following the plan exactly, but it's about 80% of the concept.

Here's how our week plays out:
Monday: I do 2+ hours of full court basketball, my wife runs
Tuesday: Back/Chest, wife does ab ripper, I usually don't
Wed: Plyo
Thur: Arms/shoulders: wife does ab ripper, I usually don't
Friday: Kenpo/Cardio X for me, run for my wife
Saturday: Legs: we're usually both too gassed to do abs
Sunday: rest

Diet wise we aren't following the diet plan, I don't count calories, but we have cleaned it up considerably. I usually make up some berry heavy, spinach, almond milk and whey protein shakes for us for breakfast. They are nutrient rich and satiating for a quite a while. Lunches for my wife are much better - she usally packs a salad. Then dinner wise we are usally a lot worse for quality, but we have greatly cut back on quantity consumed because we will be working out later in the evening. Plus now at nights, our alcohol consumption has been cut back probably 75% of what it orginally was so there's a natural calorie restriction there.

So far the results have been very impressive. There's nothing magical or revolutionary about the program. It's just a well constructed, well coached, and easily modified program to follow. It includes a huge variety of exercises and makes sure that all areas of your body are included. For me personally, the leg and plyo days have been a godsend for my lower body strength and endurance. My basketball playing has been hugely improved. I can run a full night and not feel weak or gassed. I still have lift in my shot at the end of the night. My box outs and ability to defend are vastly improved. I'm just a completely different player on the defensive side of the court. And the next day following ball instead of passing on the stairs and opting for the elevator because of achy knees I can almost bound up steps like I did nothing the night before. Truely incredible difference in my fitness than what I was 60 days ago.

I've kind of bounced all over for weight. Changing almost 10 pounds on a given week. I've kind of settled in a bit at 178 now. My pants are fitting a full size bigger than they were at the start of the program. So definitely trimmed a bit from the waist. And my shirts are fitting a lot more snug in the shoulders and arms. Definitely put on a bit more mass in my upper body.

Here's a couple before/afters of my pasty white ass 😀
https://hb5apw.bay.livefilestore.co...ToyxcisTpR7gCs/2012-08-20T14-26-37.jpg?psid=1

https://whmcqq.bay.livefilestore.co...ZNpPiUaNa5F4x5/2012-08-20T14-14-50.jpg?psid=1

Can definitely tell an increase in definition in my back. Waist has trimmed down, lats & delts are getting more defined, just a more athletic look.

My wife is a trooper. She's powered through this thing and actually probably even working harder at it than I am. She does the ab ripper routine after most lifting days while I wimp out. She's battled through a massive migraine that left her in the fetal position in a dark room for a few days and some other aches and pains from the c-section, doing high impact with extra weight, and just generally not being in great shape before starting.

After the first two weeks, she has continued to drop a pound a week. Her belly has shrunk down quite a bit, even to the point where she has a lot of people asking her what she's been doing and that she's looking great. Her face is slimming down, and she just feels a lot better physically and mentally.

Here's a profile of where she was at the start, and where she is now. Be nice...child birth, c-sections, and just being a working Mom are not good on the body. She's turned the corner on weight loss and really starting to make strides now. Instead of dreading working out now she's really looking forward to it. Plus her cleaned up diet has also helped with portion sizes and choices of food she makes. She's just a lot more conscious about what she eats, and how much of it.

Here's her day 1/day 60 profile:
https://whmcqq.bay.livefilestore.co...ZAIc4RIZIMqjCM/2012-08-20T14-24-26.jpg?psid=1

She's almost able to fit into clothes she hasn't worn in years. And while she knows she has a ways to go before she's where she wants to be, the results in just 60 days have been very helpful to motivation. Her body takes a long time to react to exercise and start getting into fat burning mode. I've lived with her for almost 12 years and just know how her body works. I pulled her through the first 6 weeks with not a ton of progress to show, but in the last 2 weeks things have really started to pay off. The next 30 days should be quite a ride for her as the muscle tone improved diet of the last 60 days starts kicking in and really burning calories for the home stretch.

We're really looking forward to "bringing it" the last 30 days and being the only people we personally know out of more than a dozen others that have tried but never completed it.

Once the program is done, we'll probably take a few weeks off and recover/enjoy some nights off or go for really long walks with the kids while the weather is still good. Then once winter starts kicking back in we'll probably look into the P90xPlus and work in some of those workouts along with the originals at night again.

And for the married guys/those living with significant others...let me throw this out there....if your love life was getting a little stagnant..working out at night with your S/O and then hitting the showers together afterwards has been quite the boost to that aspect of the relationship. She feels better about her body, she feels better after working out, and I'm in some of the best shape I've been in during my adult life. That's a good combination for a healthy relationship.

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Very nice 🙂 It's definitely easy to get stuck in a bad routine - I'm glad you were able to change it for the better. p90x works well because it's organized well and mostly people just need to know what to expect and move. Kudos to you and your wife for changing things. You both look much fitter.
 
Yeh my wife in particular was a cardio junkie (running mostly) prior to child birth. She ran alot. 40+ miles a week. But she almost never did any sort of weight/resistance training.

That's what I really like about P90x is the variety of attention to all major muscle groups. There's an excessive number of pullups & pushups in the chest and backs day and most normal humans are not able to keep up with that. But everything else is mostly doable by anyone in reasonable shape.

The attention to the legs in the plyo and and legs days are something that a lot of cardio junkies miss out on. Running isn't a replacement for lifting. It's not like you are squating a couple hundred pounds or leg pressing half a ton in the routine, but you are working muscles and ranges of motion that running and biking won't.

Upper body wise, if you've got a pull up bar and dumbells then you have access to a full routine in your house. No need for spotters or huge pieces of equipment. You probably will never wind up with a body like the more beefy people on the show doing the stuff they are doing, but at least it's *something* you are doing for resistance that is approachable and able to be modified for increased difficulty.

I've just been very pleased with the structure (even though we're not 100% honest to the schedule) and layout of the program.
 
Yeah, it definitely lays out a full-body program. It's really frustrating when I hear people say, "No, I don't do legs anymore because I run." Programs like p90x get some good resistance training into all areas (although they definitely overdo core, lol). It's a nice, mostly body weight circuit. If you want to get huge and massively strong, is this the program to use? No, but if you want more functional fitness, body awareness, and gymnastics strength then it's pretty good. I could probably stand to do more p90x, but I'm terrible at doing video workouts. Instead, I just squat as much as I can lol.
 
And my 4 year old is a picky eater so we do a lot of really terrible meals just so that she eats something.

Sorry to take the thread off topic a bit, but I've always wondered why parents can't just say 'oh, you don't want roasted chicken, mashed potatoes and spinach right now? That's okay, you don't have to have them, your plate will be in the fridge whenever you get hungry.'

I'm sure I'm being naiive here, is it just a function of the parents being too worn down by the end of the day to deal with the whining and caving in? Is it just too hard to prevent the kids form going into the cabinets on their own and grabbing a sandwich?

Just to add some on topic thoughts... Nice job, it must take a lot of discipline to go down there every night after getting the kids to bed. I'm especially intrigued by the impact it's had on your soreness. I play soccer twice a week, and I'm incredibly sore the next morning... like, can barely walk sore.
 
Sorry to take the thread off topic a bit, but I've always wondered why parents can't just say 'oh, you don't want roasted chicken, mashed potatoes and spinach right now? That's okay, you don't have to have them, your plate will be in the fridge whenever you get hungry.'

You don't understand how absolutely stubborn kids can be. Stubborn to a point where it's actually a detriment to their health. My daughter is in the like the 50th percentile for height and the 15th for weight. She's literally a twig and bruised head to toe because she has absolutely no meat on her bones. It's a fine line between being a disciplined parent and being charged with failure to thrive. I'm *trying* to get calories into her. She needs more. But the little turd is so damn stubborn in her eating (it's the one thing she really can control in her life) she'll essentially hunger strike out of protest.

If my son who's like 99th percentile for height and 95th for weight missed a meal it's no big deal. But with her she's almost an unhealhty weight. It's not a fun situation and there is no "winning" in this game.
 
You don't understand how absolutely stubborn kids can be. Stubborn to a point where it's actually a detriment to their health. My daughter is in the like the 50th percentile for height and the 15th for weight. She's literally a twig and bruised head to toe because she has absolutely no meat on her bones. It's a fine line between being a disciplined parent and being charged with failure to thrive. I'm *trying* to get calories into her. She needs more. But the little turd is so damn stubborn in her eating (it's the one thing she really can control in her life) she'll essentially hunger strike out of protest.

If my son who's like 99th percentile for height and 95th for weight missed a meal it's no big deal. But with her she's almost an unhealhty weight. It's not a fun situation and there is no "winning" in this game.

Wow. 😱

I would not have thought kids would go to that length unless they had a legitimate eating disorder.
 
my 9 year old daughter weighs about 40 lbs and is about 46 inches tall.

she hasn't been on any measurable height/weight growth charts since about 2 years old. she is following her own growth curve; it's just at like the -50th percentile. she eats pretty well though, strangely.
 
I wonder what they did back in the 1800s when there wasn't any instant macaroni and cheese and chicken strips? I guess the kids died.
 
especially your wife has made a lot of progress!!!! Congrats

Keep doing what you are doing and you both will be in great shape in 6 months
 
Great work on P90X. It is truly inspiring. My wife and I gave it an insincere try a while back, but gave up. I know how hard it is – specifically at 8:30pm every night after a long day.

I don’t want to sidetrack this tread, so I’m going to open up a new thread on kids’ diet.
 
I commend you guys for getting through p90x. Its a very tough program, I made the mistake years ago of trying it without being in reasonable shape and somehow I screwed up my back during one of the yoga portions. But up until that point I thought it was really great. I'm in a similar situation as you guys, baby number two is on the way however, and my son is almost three. It is very easy to fall into the bad eating habit trap with young kids. I've been able to turn it around the past 4 months though. going to run a tough mudder race in Oct.
 
Major kudos to you guys. We have a 3 year old and a 1 year old, and I was never able to get p90x to work for my schedule. Takes a solid commitment with kids/work/pets etc. - you should be proud.
 
Awesome!

My house has a similar story ... we have been cycling (road and mountain for me, spinner for her) since May ... Really seeing results on and off the scale.
 
Wow VI that is great stuff! Keep up the posts as you two progress 😎 I'm liking it!


And a side note --> I know zero about kids and don't have kids, so my ideas are left field and aren't meant to try to say what the right way is.
That said...do you think if she felt like she had more control of others places in her life, that she would relax on eating?
Maybe if you offered several options (maybe slight variants) she would start to eat more because then she feels like it is under her control
(Ie: gotta have a meat and veggies and carbs (maybe she picks the meat for the night, and you two pick the others), and if you can do it 3 nights in a row, you get a 1/2 scoop of icecream, if you can do it 2 weeks in a row, you get a full scoop) stuff like that?
 
Thanks for the encouragement everyone! We are in the home stretch now. Almost through our first week of the final phase. Our recovery week was pretty rough...my wife had her first migraines in her life that left her in the fetal position for a couple days. I came down with a terrible head & chest cold that left me feeling pretty puny. Then my wife spent a couple hours outside and ended up with one of the worst sunburns on her back and shoulders she's ever had..that kept her out of the game for a bit too.

Anyway...we're back on track and hitting our lifting days HARD this week. I crushed my chest and back day and my arm and shoulder days harder than I have before. I am SORE. I'm stoked to see if there's any added muscle/definition to my back after this final round.
 
I commend you guys for getting through p90x. Its a very tough program, I made the mistake years ago of trying it without being in reasonable shape and somehow I screwed up my back during one of the yoga portions. But up until that point I thought it was really great. I'm in a similar situation as you guys, baby number two is on the way however, and my son is almost three. It is very easy to fall into the bad eating habit trap with young kids. I've been able to turn it around the past 4 months though. going to run a tough mudder race in Oct.

kentucky eh? me n the good ol boys are going down there for the yearly mancation trip. if you see some dudes wearing dude..! sweet! team tshirts running about, that'll be us.
the getting back into shape deal has been a slow goer. like many others here, two young kiddies 3 and 1 leave not a lot of time. took an ultimate fitness (circuit training) type class at the local rec center once a week and did some jogging. ramping up with obstacle type training 1x a week, running around a mile to a playground or park to do combos of pushups/burpees/bear crawls/hill runs/etc.. and tossing in some krav maga/crossfit classes from a groupon.

not sure what'll happen when tough mudder is over though, motivation will wane me thinks.
 
Congrats on getting through to Phase 3 Vi!

The wife and I have gone through (and completed) it a couple of times; hardest thing we have ever done. For us, it was an early morning commitment, as we had tried to do it after work prior with sporadic results. Getting through it the first time was a great feeling of accomplishment. We felt much better, both physically and mentally after each series. We attempted to add in P90X+ for variety into our second series and nearly killed ourselves.. what a step up!
 
very nice, i need to get motivated to do it again, the first time i did it a few years ago i lost about 20-30 lbs.
 
nice work, it's very visible on your wife! keep it up. . . i can talk my wife into going to the gym with me, she'll keep it up great for two weeks and then taper off . . .

VI isn't lying when he says kids throw a wrench into EVERYTHING in your life. . . i've got a two year old and it's hard to find time to go out between my wife and I working fulltime+ . . .
 
Hi!

I read your post and saw your TFCC tear pictures.

I have the same injury that you had but the doctors in emergency and the pcp I followed up next day prescribed me tons of antibiotics after diagnosing it as bacterial infection.

I know it wasn't bacterial or anything becuase it was positional and as you said brought tears to my eyes ( and also made me jump of the bed and hit the roof)

I wanted to ask you how did it finally get cured for you? What worked and what didn't. I know I am taking these anti bacterials for nothing

Would really appreciate if you can reply to me.

Thanks & regards
Gem
 
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