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Using IP-Relay to alert spouse of cheating husband...

Red

Diamond Member
I haven't done it yet, but I am planning on doing an ip-relay this afternoon to alert a wife about her cheating husband.

I do not personally know the people and it's about 1,000 miles away so I don't mind doing it. I received a phone call from an extended family member who is aware that I've pulled some pretty good IP-Relay pranks so I was the first person they thought of to help. This person said they have been having a difficult time sleeping because they are 100% sure her friend is getting cheated on by her husband.

My contact and the accused both work at the same company in a small town. The unknowing wife doesn't live far from the office either. The accused husband was caught cheating a few years ago and the wife tells my contact (through casual conversation) that the affair is over and their marriage is doing great now that he is faithful again.

However, the accused has been working a lot of "overtime" the last 3 or 4 months and my contact has spotted his car at new mistresses house for about an hour after work on certain days of the week (it's obvious, as my contact can see his car during the drive home... again, this is a smaller town).

The homeowner is a single woman at the company and the two have a very flirty relationship in the office. This is a small company that does not have any projects outside of the office but the accused tells his wife that his overtime is spent visiting customers/business partners.

Although my contact has not witnessed these two slamming skins, here are the facts:

1. Accused has a prior history of cheating in the marriage
2. He is lying to his wife about his whereabouts after work
3. While his wife thinks he is visiting customers/business partners, he is at a flirty coworkers house

So.... I have been asked to call the wife and give her the name, address, days and times where her husband can be found using IP-Relay to remain annonymous.

I'll let you know how it goes!

EDIT: Typos, clarification

Update 1: No answer at house, will try again in a bit
 
Wouldn't you guys/girls want to know if this was going on with your SO? I posted an update as well... no answer on the first attempt.
 
I don't really care one way or the other if you let this guy's wife know that he appears to be cheating, but couldn't you do it without abusing a service that is intended for handicapped people?
 
Originally posted by: mugs
I don't really care one way or the other if you let this guy's wife know that he appears to be cheating, but couldn't you do it without abusing a service that is intended for handicapped people?

Good point. I might use 711 instead.
 
Why don't you just mail a bunch of anonymous letters? Drop them off at some distant post office and use a fake return address.
 
Originally posted by: Whoozyerdaddy
This is none of your business... this is none of your relative's business...

This is terrible, this idea... /samir

It doesn't matter whose business it is. You have a whole bunch of wrongdoing in this situation.

1. Guy shouldn't be cheating on his wife
2. Friend shouldn't be meddling in coworker's affairs
3. Friend shouldn't have got OP involved.
4. OP shouldn't be getting involved
5. You shouldn't be telling OP what to do
5. I shouldn't be telling you what to think


It all amounts to one big free for all. OP, go for it!
 
Originally posted by: 91TTZ
Originally posted by: Whoozyerdaddy
This is none of your business... this is none of your relative's business...

This is terrible, this idea... /samir

It doesn't matter whose business it is. You have a whole bunch of wrongdoing in this situation.

1. Guy shouldn't be cheating on his wife
2. Friend shouldn't be meddling in coworker's affairs
3. Friend shouldn't have got OP involved.
4. OP shouldn't be getting involved
5. You shouldn't be telling OP what to do
5. I shouldn't be telling you what to think
9. OP shouldn't abuse IP relay
37. 91TTZ should learn to count

It all amounts to one big free for all. OP, go for it!

😛
 
Originally posted by: mugs
Originally posted by: 91TTZ
Originally posted by: Whoozyerdaddy
This is none of your business... this is none of your relative's business...

This is terrible, this idea... /samir

It doesn't matter whose business it is. You have a whole bunch of wrongdoing in this situation.

1. Guy shouldn't be cheating on his wife
2. Friend shouldn't be meddling in coworker's affairs
3. Friend shouldn't have got OP involved.
4. OP shouldn't be getting involved
5. You shouldn't be telling OP what to do
5. I shouldn't be telling you what to think
9. OP shouldn't abuse IP relay
37. 91TTZ should learn to count

It all amounts to one big free for all. OP, go for it!

😛

Doh!
 
Originally posted by: 91TTZ
Originally posted by: Whoozyerdaddy
This is none of your business... this is none of your relative's business...

This is terrible, this idea... /samir

It doesn't matter whose business it is. You have a whole bunch of wrongdoing in this situation.

1. Guy shouldn't be cheating on his wife
2. Friend shouldn't be meddling in coworker's affairs
3. Friend shouldn't have got OP involved.
4. OP shouldn't be getting involved
5. You shouldn't be telling OP what to do
5. I shouldn't be telling you what to think


It all amounts to one big free for all. OP, go for it!

7. ...?
8. Profit!
 
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