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UPDATED: RESOLVED I FU#*$&*%&ING HATE EBAY BONEHEADS!! SITUATION RESOLVED

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Originally posted by: Stumps
I have used Ebay for over 4 years and haven't had one single problem..I guess i'm just lucky!

I haven't had any real problems either... I screwed up once shipping a couple items... accidently got the addresses mixed up when I was getting rid of some engine parts... luckily both parties were understanding, sent the items back to me (at my expense) and I shipped them to the correct addresses.
I did have one annoying lady who wouldn't answer my e-mails about an Xbox game that I bought... I even got her contact info from eBay and called, and she never replied. She NEVER contacted me... the game just showed up in the mail one day, and she had put cash in the box with the game to refund the shipping cost. Not even a note saying "sorry it took so long, here's a shipping refund."

What pisses me off is people who never contact you about anything... either they never tell you they've paid and after a few days the funds just show up in my PayPal account... so I ship, but never hear back if they ever got it... never receive any feedback. Or I pay, they never aknowledge that they received payment or that they've shipped the item... it just shows up at my door some day.

Couple rules I have... anyone with feedback rating of 5 or below, or has a recent negative, if I can't get in touch with them before the auction ends, I either cancel their bid, or don't bid on it. I also never bid on an item that doesn't have an actual picture of the item listed for sale.
 



Originally posted by: DainBrammage
:|
BONEHEADS = F/\G5

Wow, who's the bonehead?

[WTF is up with the godDA&%ED ferrengi AT EBAY?? Every punk in the world posts crap there and charges way to much for shipping and handling

Read the fine prints before you bid.

I just paid some dude over there 350 bones for an x800pro from non cc payapl funds from a confirmed user account with a confirmed shipping address. and the mother fuc&&$%$ER sends me an email saying he cant ship until after he transfers the funds to his BANK ACCOUNT WTF !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Whew. feel a little better now

Did you pay for this as eCheck from your bank account or from your PayPal account balance? It's normal for eCheck to take a few days to clear, but if the latter where your money is already in his account and he's making you wait until the funds have been transferred to his bank account, you need to watch out. He might be trying to con you out, but is waiting until the funds have moved to bank account in order to prevent PayPal chargeback.
 
Complete transcript.

Date: Feb 12, 2005 7:55 PM
Hi,

I just purchased your video card on Ebay and per your listing you stated the following:

SHIPPING

Shipping will go through UPS ground. S&H is $15 and free when you BUY IT now.
I accept money orders and paypal. No credit cards. Read payment instructions below
for more information.

Happy Bidding and don't miss out on this opportunity at a great value and quality.
Enjoy!


I selected the buy it now option per your instructions and I was still charged the
$15 S&H. Please contact me so we may resolve this billing error.

Cordially,

P. Jackson

Date: Feb 12, 2005 8:27 PM
no problem, I will refaund the S&H.

Then a few minutes later I got this:


Date: Feb 12, 2005 9:46 PM
I apologize but your item will be delayed with shipping until the
transfer from paypal to my bank account is complete. This will be on
wednesday. Your item will be shipped on wednesday.


sent this
Date: Feb 12, 2005 10:36 PM
This is not mentioned in your terms at all.... Why must I wait for you to transfer
money to your bank account? The money came from a confirmed Paypal Account and an
account thats been open for over 5 years.

I dont like this entire situation. If you want trading references check on me
at www.anandtech.com
my handle there is dainbrammage and I have heatware reference to boot www.heatware.com
trader name dainbrammage. You can look my profile up at Anandtech.

Call me number removed or if you dont want to call long distance send me your phone
number I'll call you.


later
Date: Feb 13, 2005 10:22 AM
Look this is driving me nuts.... I want an explanation. I have contacted E-Bay
to get your persoanl information. I will be calling you on Sunday.


his reply

What is you problem? I was trying to be polite and tell you so you know
it will take a while ahead. And you going nuts calling me requesting
information. I suggest you calm down. I got 30 dollars in my checking
account, have some respect.

a few moments later
Ok forget my last mail. I don't want you to be another person to damage
my reputation on ebay. I was selling another item this weekend, and
described in my payment options that I do not accept credit cards. This
person bought the item and tried paying me with a credit card, I had to
deny the payment and as result she posted a negative feedback saying I
refused her payment. That really got to me. I contacted ebay to have
this fixed, people like that don't care they just post negative feedback
like it doesn't matter. So anyway I will send the item on moday but I
want you to give me positive feedback. You are right that I did not say
that in my description and I understand you. But believe me I realized
this problem the moment I saw the transfer will take about 3 days to
complete. Like I said I will send the item on monday. Please let me know
if you ok with this.


Looks like reverything is squared away. thanks to the users who trade here and understand a deals a deal.and to those that dont and just wanted trader hate.... go post on ebay.







 
Did you pay for this as eCheck from your bank account or from your PayPal account balance? It's normal for eCheck to take a few days to clear, but if the latter where your money is already in his account and he's making you wait until the funds have been transferred to his bank account, you need to watch out. He might be trying to con you out, but is waiting until the funds have moved to bank account in order to prevent PayPal chargeback.

That why i was sooooooooooooooooooooooo pissed last nght,,, ive been doing the online trading thing for a long time and I have never been burned. It was looking like this was going to be the first. I completely flipped my lid last. I guees the RedBUll and Grey Goose didnt help to much either 😀

I paid with paypal funds not echeck. Hell i would'nt ship until an echeck cleared either.
 
Originally posted by: DainBrammage
Me ....i dont rape anyone on S&H....

No such thing as handling anyway

The point is if you dont say it in you posts there then its not part of the deal..

He is making this sh|t up as he goes along....

i would not have bid on an item that had such idiotic terms he is saying this now that he has my cash. thats why i am pissed

No such thing as "Handling"?
try telling that to Jegs,or Summitracing!

DO you do so many trades you get boxes,tape and bubble wrap for free?
Is the post office or Fedex next door?

WHen I sold an intake manifold last year on ebay I charged a $5. packing/handling charge and Double boxed the item,and charged the real USPS postal charges.

I might have made $1.00 after having bubble wrapped the thing.I had used "peanuts"
here but no bubble wrap.
 
If you are making money on the packaging even if its a dollar i think it is unsat. If its to much of a hassle for you to sell it and ship dont sell it in the first place or at least have since enough to figure it out before hand. Why should anyone pay for ou to go to the post office. If you are that broke sell you computer and lose the internet connection you obviusly cant afford it.

I personally think that a handling fee is BULL5H!T. If you cant package it up and send it then you shouldnt be selling it.

and yes i keep every box, piece of bubblewrap, airbags, and peanuts that is ever shipped to me and use them.

You can get boxes at the post office for free with express mail for most items anyway.

Some of you guys, not all but some are C-H-E-A-P A 5 pack of corrugated 12x12x12 boxes is less than 10 bucks at Staples.
 
Originally posted by: DainBrammage
If you are making money on the packaging even if its a dollar i think it is unsat. If its to much of a hassle for you to sell it and ship dont sell it in the first place or at least have since enough to figure it out before hand. Why should anyone pay for ou to go to the post office. If you are that broke sell you computer and lose the internet connection you obviusly cant afford it.

I personally think that a handling fee is BULL5H!T. If you cant package it up and send it then you shouldnt be selling it.

and yes i keep every box, piece of bubblewrap, airbags, and peanuts that is ever shipped to me and use them.

You can get boxes at the post office for free with express mail for most items anyway.

Some of you guys, not all but some are C-H-E-A-P A 5 pack of corrugated 12x12x12 boxes is less than 10 bucks at Staples.


Kool;buy stuff from most REAL places of late?

Almost all charge a boxing/handling fee,
Jegs and Summit charge like an $8.00 fee per order,
I bought some stuff {Sheets} from Boscov's about a month ago,and got charged a
packing fee.

"Free" shipping does Not mean "free" all the time,
I found this out from Summit.

I do agree that way too many ebayers do not put a charge upfront on the auctions,
and have learned the hard way to Ask,how much for shipping/handling/insurance.

Glad I save the stryrofoam peanuts,LOL.


Summit racing info
Question
What is your handling fee?

Answer
Summit charges a one time handling fee per order. Summit?s handling fee is one of the lowest in the industry and is not pro rated based on the dollar value of your order. We have established an average handling fee based on the wide variety of products we handle. This allows you to order as much as you like at the same low fee. Summit Racing provides and pays for the ground shipping on orders within the continental United States.

Domestic orders will be charged $8.95
Overseas orders will be charged $23.95


http://www.summitracing.com/customerservice/
 
my got the OP is a idiot.

the guy you baught it from has the right to wait to make sure you are not scamming him. he was polite and told you why. but you went nuts and blew up.

amazing. just amazing.

people like you are what make Ebay so crappy.
 
In over 500 eBay transactions, many of them BIN... this is the first I have heard that money is automatically taken from your paypal account. What if you wanted to pay by money order? I did not even know it was legal for PayPal to take money from your account automatically from an eBay auction. I thought you have to use the PAY NOW option.

 
Originally posted by: DainBrammage
If you are making money on the packaging even if its a dollar i think it is unsat. If its to much of a hassle for you to sell it and ship dont sell it in the first place or at least have since enough to figure it out before hand. Why should anyone pay for ou to go to the post office. If you are that broke sell you computer and lose the internet connection you obviusly cant afford it.

I personally think that a handling fee is BULL5H!T. If you cant package it up and send it then you shouldnt be selling it.

and yes i keep every box, piece of bubblewrap, airbags, and peanuts that is ever shipped to me and use them.

You can get boxes at the post office for free with express mail for most items anyway.

Some of you guys, not all but some are C-H-E-A-P A 5 pack of corrugated 12x12x12 boxes is less than 10 bucks at Staples.

Do you work for free? Next time I need to wrap something up and ship it off, can you come over and do this for me for free? You don't mind waiting at the UPS place for me right? It's only a 20 minutes wait on a Monday morning. Why are you attacking people for being cheap because staples sells new boxes 5 for $10 but you admit to reusing boxes and packing material? Why can't I reuse packing material?
BTW, Express mail starts at $14 (envelop) and this implies that you want sellers to deliver it the very next day. This isn't B&M. If you want your item right away, you should pick it up locally. Moot point also since he is using UPS ground which can take 5-7 days or 2 days depending on where he and you are at.

Yes, he was wrong to bill you $15 s/h when you used BIN and he refunded your money. But at least the guy was in contact with you. What if he didn't say anything and just waited until Wednesday to ship instead of Monday?

Lastly, I hate to mention this since you sound like such a reasonable buyer but this seller has a personal paypal account (hence the no cc). He has no protection against buyer remorse or compliants. He could have the pope rise for the dead and personally deliver the item to you on a silver platter with your signature signed in blood and if the buyer complains through paypal, paypal will take the money out of his account and return it to you. That is why he is transferring it to his bank account.
 
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