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you posted 2 pics so I gave you a 10. Now turn off your rating before someone screwes it up. Since you posted a pic I'm obligated to give you real advice.

You gotta ask her out on a date. When you ask though you have to say the word "date" or else she might not consoder it a date. so say something like "what are you doing tomorrow" followed with "Do you want to go out on a date with me?" from there you are on your own. but if she says "NO" then see sig for more advice.
 
Originally posted by: yayo
If a guy had to ask me what we were, I'd totaly be like WFT? you dont know... RETARD!

If you have to ask and expect an answer from her to a question like that, if she's has any bit of brains she'd look for better then you.

How bout just asking her right out. Why beat around the bush? IMO that more mature then asking "what are we."

What's wrong with kids these day?
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I completely agree...here's some advice from a girl...we don't like it when we have to tell YOU were the relationship is going or "where we are"...if there's something there, she'll know it just as much as you do. Be straight forward, but sweet. The only way to get a completely honest answer from her is to be completely honest yourself. Besides, we dig the whole "vulnerable" thing...makes us feel like you like us enough to put yourself out there at the risk of being hurt, and that means a lot coming from a guy.

p.s. she is a hottie
 
Originally posted by: YayiFury
Originally posted by: yayo
If a guy had to ask me what we were, I'd totaly be like WFT? you dont know... RETARD!

If you have to ask and expect an answer from her to a question like that, if she's has any bit of brains she'd look for better then you.

How bout just asking her right out. Why beat around the bush? IMO that more mature then asking "what are we."

What's wrong with kids these day?
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I completely agree...here's some advice from a girl...we don't like it when we have to tell YOU were the relationship is going or "where we are"...if there's something there, she'll know it just as much as you do. Be straight forward, but sweet. The only way to get a completely honest answer from her is to be completely honest yourself. Besides, we dig the whole "vulnerable" thing...makes us feel like you like us enough to put yourself out there at the risk of being hurt, and that means a lot coming from a guy.

p.s. she is a hottie
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This is how I got my present gf. I asked her out around 7 times and then one day I asked if she would like to be my girlfriend. She said yes and we kissed.
 
Guys think they have it bad. Trying to find a girl that's right and with all the perks. It's hard for girls too. Having to tell the guy you dig where you are is like asking for sex on the first date.

If she feels the same way as you in not knowing where your relationship stands then she will feel put on the spot if you ask her that. No girl wants that. That's their worst nightmare.
 
Whatever you do, respect the mother's rules. It won't be too long before the girl turns 18 anyway. If you don't respect her mum's rules, I'll be sure to personally help kick your behind.

Really though, you make it sound like the mum is holding hostage an innocent girl. I don't think the mum came up with rules out of no where. And until you become a single mum trying to raise children by yourself, you better not shoot that mouth.

Take it easy. She's almost 18. And frankly, I doubt the mum is an issue. Your heart could easily be broken if the mum didn't have rules anyway. You should post your pic so we know if she really would be interested in you. If you're a geek, then you're flattering yourself.

Best of luck. 😀
 
Well if it doesn't work out the way you want it just play a little Bon Jovi!


"Shot through the heart and you're to blame, you give love a bad name!"
 
Originally posted by: luvly
Whatever you do, respect the mother's rules. It won't be too long before the girl turns 18 anyway. If you don't respect her mum's rules, I'll be sure to personally help kick your behind.

Really though, you make it sound like the mum is holding hostage an innocent girl. I don't think the mum came up with rules out of no where. And until you become a single mum trying to raise children by yourself, you better not shoot that mouth.

Take it easy. She's almost 18. And frankly, I doubt the mum is an issue. Your heart could easily be broken if the mum didn't have rules anyway. You should post your pic so we know if she really would be interested in you. If you're a geek, then you're flattering yourself.

Best of luck. 😀
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When I first starting dating I had the same 'mom's rules' problem. My mom pratically raised my by herself and its very hard. I'll tell you this much, if all goes well and she's into you as much as you're into her...make sure you get on the mom's good side. Be nice and respect her and her rules, don't bad mouth her or keep the girl out late or anything that might make you look bad, at least not in the beginning. If the mom feels she can trust you w/ her daughter, you're set.

When I started dating my I had to be home by midnight, this went on till I met my current b/f. My mom really just loved him and my curfew went from midnight, to anytime i wanted to come home as long as she knew where I was and she ha a way of getting in touch w/ me. It was great.
 
Oh, by the way, don't try to spoil her with things. I'm not trying to raise an alarm here. I mean, just be careful that you aren't spoiling her 'cuz trust me, I know some chicks who will take a man they're not interested in just 'cuz he's got the money to spend on them. You sound like someone whose parents have money or you have money. Don't subconsciously think buying someone stuff and the person enjoying means they like or love you. It may be the material things that keeps her interested. Just a mild warning.
 
well.. just finished talking to her, I guess she's dropping her plans for today for us to "hang out". So, I'm going to her house tonight... and well, be pretty straighforward about how I feel about her.
And no... I havent given her any gifts or anything like that, so I'm not trying to buy her love.

the dude that wanted to know if I was geek.. well, I am, but a confident one 😉 I've had girlfriends before... so no worries about that.
She's a nerdy one too lol.

here's my pic: me
 
Yeah, I'm in a somewhat-similar situation of wondering where I stand with a girl. Of course I want more than anything to find out, to just ask her, but I'm not gonna do that. After all, maybe she doesn't really know either, and is just trying to figure things out. I don't blame her if doesn't want to share her deep thoughts or emotions with me at this point, it makes sense, we haven't known each other incredibly long, and sharing things like that only comes with trust I guess. So, in the meantime I'm just going out with her from time to time and hoping someday in the not-too-terribly-distant future that things will blossom. 😉
 
I didn't read the thread..

But I say go for it. You never know.. If you meet her parents, they might like you. And if they don't, I'm sure she will be 18 soon. 🙂
 
Aaaaaaaaaargh! You called me a dude? How dare you! :Q :| Seriously though, I'm not a dude; and I don't like to be called a dude. 🙂

You look like really young for age 19! 😱 😱

Anyway, I have to be honest here . . . in all likelihood and having seen your pic, she likes the spoils that she gets from you. You have the money or the luxuries she can enjoy. I'm being honest here . . . she probably really doesn't like you in that sense, but as long as you spoil her she'll stay until she finds someone who spoils her more or she's content. Enjoy if that's what you want or like, for some guys don't mind. That's just my view. I could be so wrong.
 
Having to tell the guy you dig where you are is like asking for sex on the first date.



Wait...there's something wrong with that? Sh!t.


See also: Twiztid - Fsck on the 1st Date
 
Originally posted by: luvly
Aaaaaaaaaargh! You called me a dude? How dare you! :Q :| Seriously though, I'm not a dude; and I don't like to be called a dude. 🙂

You look like really young for age 19! 😱 😱

Anyway, I have to be honest here . . . in all likelihood and having seen your pic, she likes the spoils that she gets from you. You have the money or the luxuries she can enjoy. I'm being honest here . . . she probably really doesn't like you in that sense, but as long as you spoil her she'll stay until she finds someone who spoils her more or she's content. Enjoy if that's what you want or like, for some guys don't mind. That's just my view. I could be so wrong.
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lol, what spoils? i haven't given her anything... not even a rose.

btw, I meant dudette 😉
 
I don't like the way she looks in the first pic.

In the second pic you can see she is pretty hot! Good luck dude. Hope things go your way.
 
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