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Send him away to an institution that has an anger management program. There are definitely some underlying reasons for his rage, and maybe under professional care he can resolve them. If he won't go, beat him. Knock that demon nonsense out of him (but don't beat him in anger, but out of necessity). As a last resort, get him sent to jail; find some way to get people to testify against him.

 
Originally posted by: Braznor
Wait, there is more. He also accuses my grandfather of trying to abuse his little sister. His sister herself has denied these accusations and it is pretty impossible for that to happen. My grandpa is 83 and stays with us most of time. He stayed over at their home a week or so and ever since then this jerk has been trying to spread these rumors.

Everybody knows that this jerk tried to blackmail grandpa out of money and is using these allegations to pressurize him. His mom knows so, his sister knows so, we knows and even he knows so. Yet he will not stop.

What a fvcked up loser!!!!
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Tell me about it. See previous posts. And BTW Krav Maga
 
Originally posted by: Braznor
Originally posted by: hungfarover
Originally posted by: Braznor
Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
Sounds like a sociopath. Alot of serial killers are sociopaths.
Does he have any conscience?
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No, he does not show any remorse. I thinks he actually likes the feeling of power during his demonic rages. He has never expressed any remorse. He did not visit his mom in hospital after he broke her thighs.
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Don't enable him in any way, and pray he gets tossed in jail before someone else gets hurt or killed.

The funny and/or tragic thing about guys like this is there's always someone meaner, bigger, tougher and more violent. I've seen a guy like your cousin get the living sh!t beat out of him by a mixed martial arts expert who looks like he couldn't hurt a fly (~140 lbs).

How old is your cousin, OP?
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24
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Wow. That's older than I would have suspected.

If he's unwilling to admit to his problem, show any remorse, or seek treatment, I'd say watch him like a hawk and at the first sign of him doing anything illegal, get the police involved. Do NOT cover for him under any circumstance.

I lost a dear friend to a murder-suicide by someone who grew up with this sociopathic type of behavior. These are sick people who need help, or just need to be locked up outright.
 
Originally posted by: scottish144
Originally posted by: Braznor
Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
Sounds like a sociopath. Alot of serial killers are sociopaths.
Does he have any conscience?
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No, he does not show any remorse. I thinks he actually likes the feeling of power during his demonic rages. He has never expressed any remorse. He did not visit his mom in hospital after he broke her thighs.
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Hmmm. If he blames his parents/family for his problems, then I can see that. I'm no psychiatrist, but try to convince him that he needs help. Just suggest it. No force, no authority, just a suggestion. Of course, you know him better than me, so I don't know how he would react if someone suggested he had a problem. In any case, the guy needs some professional help. Do what you can to get him there. Remeber though, it he doesn't admit he has a problem (and mean it) he's not going to get cured.

If all else fails, see if you can get him to move out on his own. If he hates his family so much, why not let him go? No one deserves to live with a guy like that. Still, breaking his own mom's thighs and getting a rush out of it borders on insanity.

Also, tell his mom/sister to get some spine. No offense to your beliefs, but that sounds like Ancient Indian classist/sexist crap to me. See if she can learn some self defense or something. I'd reccomend Krav Maga if you can find it (Israeli Defense Forces Technique. I've seen a girl take down 5 huge guys with this technique). If someone breaks your bones and enjoys it, family or not, that person must be treated as a potential enemy.
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No, it is not a sexist thing, his mom was strong enough to kick her arsehole husband out in the streets. She puts up with this crap because she still loves him inspite of the fact that he is a monster.

I wish I could stop his nature, but I have realized that it is impossible tio reform him.
 
Hmmm. . .sometimes people just need killin'
If you can't reason with them, sometimes you have to just give them a taste of their own medicine.
At the very least, maybe he needs to suffer an "accident" in which he looses both his hands. Would be pretty hard for him to beat anybody up with his nubs.
 
Originally posted by: gigapet
tie him to a tree and drive nails through his testes into the tree with a hammer.

EDIT: ooops I almost forgot the best part. Once you have him nailed to the tree by his testes you can taunt him to get him angry. Then untie him and stand there laughing as he decides wether to come after you and risk ripping his sack off or remain calm until help arrives. Should be interesting either way. make sure to take vids!
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Heh, wish I could do that. But I do not want to spend my life in jail for this loser.
 
Originally posted by: Braznor
Originally posted by: gigapet
tie him to a tree and drive nails through his testes into the tree with a hammer.

EDIT: ooops I almost forgot the best part. Once you have him nailed to the tree by his testes you can taunt him to get him angry. Then untie him and stand there laughing as he decides wether to come after you and risk ripping his sack off or remain calm until help arrives. Should be interesting either way. make sure to take vids!
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Heh, wish I could do that. But I do not want to spend my life in jail for this loser.
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You don't actually do it yourself. . .There are plenty of people of his ilk in this world who'd be happy to see the job done...for a price.
 
His entire family is fvcked up. Dad (now divorced) jailed numerous times for petty fraud. His mom requiring constant medical and psychiatric attention and her son, a very violent individual.

The person caught in between is his sister who is around 14 years of age.


I think the girl would be better off staying away from him, her mom's love or not. Unless her mom objects, we do not need any legal dealings to make her stay at our place.
But I know she will object. Her mom is my father's sister and is a crazed bitch in her own special way.

In my early childhood, I was unlucky enough to spend a week alone with her and was subject to indiscriminate beatings and abuse. I think he is following his mother insanity in his own unique way and I suspect that she may have abused him in a similar manner, turning him into the monster he is. His mom divorced her husband (with whom she had this monster) became jealous of my another aunt's new born child (jealous of the attention the child and her mom were getting), went ahead and had an affair with another guy whom she separated after becoming pregnant (the little sister)

His mom used to come to our place and destroy anything which provoked her jealously. Of course she used to do so without we knowing it. We stopped inviting her to our house after this and now my cousin took over from her.
 
Save the one you can. Remove the daughter from the situation. She will feel quilty about leaving her mother and brother. But convince her, she can save herself with your help, and she is not responsible for saving her mother and brother.
 
Originally posted by: WHAMPOM
Save the one you can. Remove the daughter from the situation. She will feel quilty about leaving her mother and brother. But convince her, she can save herself with your help, and she is not responsible for saving her mother and brother.
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Agreed. The world would be better off without this jerkoff roaming the streets, but his mom doesn't sound like she's worth your time, either. Don't let the little girl turn out the same way, get her the F out of there.
 
OP are you confident you can handle this guy in a fight? If so, pay this guy a visit and leave him with a few knots on his head, and tell him there is a more serious beating coming if he ever lays a hand on them again.

I know this sounds crude, but sometimes thats the only way to communicate with guys like this.
 
Originally posted by: WHAMPOM
Save the one you can. Remove the daughter from the situation. She will feel quilty about leaving her mother and brother. But convince her, she can save herself with your help, and she is not responsible for saving her mother and brother.
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I agree...

and I WOULD report him to the authorities for the physical/mental abuse that he is inflicting upon his family.
 
Originally posted by: WHAMPOM
Save the one you can. Remove the daughter from the situation. She will feel quilty about leaving her mother and brother. But convince her, she can save herself with your help, and she is not responsible for saving her mother and brother.
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We tried to get the sister to stay in our home, but thanks to phone calls from her bitch of a mom, she went back to stay with them.

We now plan to send her away to a boarding school, far away from her crazed mom and bro. She is a very sweet kid, always trying to please her mom and us by getting good grades in school even under the worst of circumstances. She hates her half brother even more than I do.

Her mom genuinely loves her, but there is no choice in this matter, either the bro goes to jail or somewhere far away forever or the girl leaves the house (either to stay with us or for a boarding school) My cousin and his mom deserve one another. Maybe we can get a package deal for both of them from the local psychiatric ward. 😀

 
UPDATE: Drove over to my cousin's home. The creep was not at home, But his half sister and her mom were. Spoke to the neighbours and they agreed to provide refuge to the sister in case things get ugly in the future. All she has has to do is shout and they would come over and help her and if necessary call the police. Also gave the sister a cellphone to call me in case of any emergency i.e. if he troubles her outside the home and so on. I'am going to speak to the cops to keep an eye on him in the future.

If he hits the sister once again,. I swear I'am going to drive over with a few friends and thrash him until he sees sense or runs away or both. :|
 
Originally posted by: gigapet
tie him to a tree and drive nails through his testes into the tree with a hammer.

EDIT: ooops I almost forgot the best part. Once you have him nailed to the tree by his testes you can taunt him to get him angry. Then untie him and stand there laughing as he decides wether to come after you and risk ripping his sack off or remain calm until help arrives. Should be interesting either way. make sure to take vids!
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Winnar
 
As a serious solution, maybe you should have the Mom & Sis come live with you. Leave the cousin to fend for himself and that way there is always someone there to protect the girls. And if that fvck tard wants to mess with you, beat his ass or call the police.
 
Originally posted by: gigapet
tie him to a tree and drive nails through his testes into the tree with a hammer.

EDIT: ooops I almost forgot the best part. Once you have him nailed to the tree by his testes you can taunt him to get him angry. Then untie him and stand there laughing as he decides wether to come after you and risk ripping his sack off or remain calm until help arrives. Should be interesting either way. make sure to take vids!
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FTW :thumbsup:
 
Originally posted by: Braznor
If he hits the sister once again,. I swear I'am going to drive over with a few friends and thrash him until he sees sense or runs away or both. :|
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Sounds like you should do that anyways. He should either be incarcerated or thrown out of the house. People like this who refuse to believe they are the ones with the problems and believe everyone owes them something, will almost never changed becasue they don't want to. Best thing to do is convince the mother, he is no good for the family and get him thrown out, or try to get him hospitalized (if you have $$).
 
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