Braznor
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I have a cousin who has serious anger management issues. He basically grew from an extremely broken family. Mom and dad divorced, mom stays at home, living off our family handouts (thank god, they stay quite far away from us) Dad is a complete loser who has abandoned her (because she is one hell of a insane bitch)
My cousin thinks the world owes him everything for the things he has missed. While I do not grudge him that, he has severe anger problems. Basically he is unable to control himself once he gets angry. He spent about a week in jail for nearly killing another guy over a girl. He is prone to hitting his sister and his mother. He broke his mother's thighs out of anger becauseshe would not give him any money. They are afraid of complaining about him to the police and pretend to us that everything is alright with him.
I confronted him about this (I'am the only guy he is afraid of) and he laughed and said to me that whenever he gets angry, he gets the strength of a thousand demons. He loses control and smashes up everything nearby. (He has already broken the TV and the old computer we have given to his sister)
He also blames the anger problem on his own family and the unfair circumstances of his childhood. He sits at home, watching TV all day or hangs about with his friends (godknows doing what)
Should I report him to the Police for family abuse, the problem is that If I do so, his mom will not support the allegations against him. So should I get witnesses from his neighbours to accuse him of domestic violence. Another problem is that if he ever gets freed, he is definitely going to try and take revenge upon me!!!!
Or would a better option would be to incarcenate him in a hospital. The problem is that he is sane enough until he gets angered by something.
Also I live in India. I'am not looking for advice on procedures, only on morals, on the ethical course of my actions.
EDIT: He also accuses my grandfather of trying to abuse his little sister. His sister herself has denied these accusations and it is pretty impossible for that to happen. My grandpa is 83 and stays with us most of time. He stayed over at their home a week or so and ever since then this jerk has been trying to spread these rumors.
Everybody knows that this jerk tried to blackmail grandpa out of money and is using these allegations to pressurize him. His mom knows so, his sister knows so, we knows and even he knows so. Yet he will not stop.
UPDATE: Drove over to my cousin's home. The creep was not at home, But his half sister and her mom were. Spoke to the neighbours and they agreed to provide refuge to the sister in case things get ugly in the future. All she has has to do is scream and they would come over and help her and if necessary call the police. Also gave the sister a cellphone to call me in case of any emergency i.e. if he troubles her outside the home and so on. I'am going to speak to the cops to keep an eye on him in the future.
If he hits the sister once again,. I swear I'am going to drive over with a few friends and thrash him until he sees sense or runs away or both. :|
My cousin thinks the world owes him everything for the things he has missed. While I do not grudge him that, he has severe anger problems. Basically he is unable to control himself once he gets angry. He spent about a week in jail for nearly killing another guy over a girl. He is prone to hitting his sister and his mother. He broke his mother's thighs out of anger becauseshe would not give him any money. They are afraid of complaining about him to the police and pretend to us that everything is alright with him.
I confronted him about this (I'am the only guy he is afraid of) and he laughed and said to me that whenever he gets angry, he gets the strength of a thousand demons. He loses control and smashes up everything nearby. (He has already broken the TV and the old computer we have given to his sister)
He also blames the anger problem on his own family and the unfair circumstances of his childhood. He sits at home, watching TV all day or hangs about with his friends (godknows doing what)
Should I report him to the Police for family abuse, the problem is that If I do so, his mom will not support the allegations against him. So should I get witnesses from his neighbours to accuse him of domestic violence. Another problem is that if he ever gets freed, he is definitely going to try and take revenge upon me!!!!
Or would a better option would be to incarcenate him in a hospital. The problem is that he is sane enough until he gets angered by something.
Also I live in India. I'am not looking for advice on procedures, only on morals, on the ethical course of my actions.
EDIT: He also accuses my grandfather of trying to abuse his little sister. His sister herself has denied these accusations and it is pretty impossible for that to happen. My grandpa is 83 and stays with us most of time. He stayed over at their home a week or so and ever since then this jerk has been trying to spread these rumors.
Everybody knows that this jerk tried to blackmail grandpa out of money and is using these allegations to pressurize him. His mom knows so, his sister knows so, we knows and even he knows so. Yet he will not stop.
UPDATE: Drove over to my cousin's home. The creep was not at home, But his half sister and her mom were. Spoke to the neighbours and they agreed to provide refuge to the sister in case things get ugly in the future. All she has has to do is scream and they would come over and help her and if necessary call the police. Also gave the sister a cellphone to call me in case of any emergency i.e. if he troubles her outside the home and so on. I'am going to speak to the cops to keep an eye on him in the future.
If he hits the sister once again,. I swear I'am going to drive over with a few friends and thrash him until he sees sense or runs away or both. :|
