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UPDATE: Just had a revelation!! It was never meant to be with my girlfriend.

K

keystroker

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Oh my god everything seems in order now, I want to break up with her. I feel so good. Like it wont hurt, she will see it the way I see it. I don't find her as my model GF (shes not near perfect on my list) and she wants some other guy that I could care less. WOW. HAPPY. Anyone get what I am saying or am I crazy?

BYE GF!

She called tonight and told me to come over. I did, took her sister to her BF's and her friend. Came back to her house went into her bed, I said "We should breakup and I don't feel your the right person and you have like the other guy. I don't see the same look in her eyes and I'm not feeling it. So its over" Breakup sex was fun, i said bye. The leash is off. So this means I don't talk to her anymore or what? What do I do if she calls? I mean it was a rather pleasant break up, no grief. I'm not going to call her thats for shure, i have a feeling she will though?
 
The book of revelations was written by crazies!

J/K I think I know what you mean. It?s the moment of clarity. Go with it!

No pics? 😉
 
well the words i want to use are "see we weren't meant to be, its all my fault. you are not my ideal girl (you aren't perfect or good in any way possible) and I'm obiviously not your ideal man. you have your guy and i want to find the best person to fit my criteria. i love you but i don't love you. its nothing personal or anything we did, its just i see it clearly" 🙂
 
Just make sure that when you dump her, you act totally calm and collected.

That's how girls dump guys, which is the way relationships usually end.
 
Dear baby,


Welcome to dumpville. Population: you.


Me

PS: I am gay.


(a la Homer Simpson in case you missed that)
 
It's the one where bart writes love letters to Ms. Krabapple pretending to be a guy named Woodrow from a dating service. He strings her along, then stands her up, sees she's upset and then asks his family for help. They decide to write her a nice breakup/goodbye letter, and that was Homer's suggestion.
 
she wants some other guy and i don't want to be with her anymore (there are some girls i'm interested in but those wont work out) but she doesn't want to break up. Its complicated.
 


<< well the words i want to use are "see we weren't meant to be, its all my fault. you are not my ideal girl (you aren't perfect or good in any way possible) and I'm obiviously not your ideal man. you have your guy and i want to find the best person to fit my criteria. i love you but i don't love you. its nothing personal or anything we did, its just i see it clearly" 🙂 >>


How is telling this person she is "not your ideal girl and not perfect or good in any way possible" nothing personal and all your fault? I can relate to the revelation of clarity you are experiencing but you are sending far too many mixed messages in the words you want to use.
😕
 
So keystroker is now going to become er, well.. a different type of stroker? 😉

Anyways, you're obviously highschool age so it's not a huge deal. Don't go into melodramatics over something like this.

Just do something like "Hey, we're really not meant to be together, so why don't we just stop wasting our time" or whatnot. Telling her she's not perfect is asinine, and stupid unless you're trying to be an a$$hole to her.

-Phil
 
Keystroker, seems that its time to move on for you, and the good thing is that you saw it. 🙂 Some people will just prefer to stay in the security of a relationship, and end up hurting each other more. Good for you 🙂 Good luck 🙂
 
she wants some other guy and i don't want to be with her anymore (there are some girls i'm interested in but those wont work out) but she doesn't want to break up. Its complicated.

What the hell?? She wants some other guy but she doesn't want to break up and you realized that? One word, rationalization.
 
She called tonight and told me to come over. I did, took her sister to her BF's and her friend. Came back to her house went into her bed, I said "We should breakup and I don't feel your the right person and you have like the other guy. I don't see the same look in her eyes and I'm not feeling it. So its over" Breakup sex was fun, i said bye. The leash is off. So this means I don't talk to her anymore or what? What do I do if she calls? I mean it was a rather pleasant break up, no grief. I'm not going to call her thats for shure, i have a feeling she will though? What do i do if she just wants to have sex, I really can't say no!
 
ouch I miss her already, I saw her taking a left today on a street by our house. Didn't honk or anything though. its almost two days no communication, i miss her a lot. Love hurts 🙁 .
 
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