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[UPDATE] (I spoke to her)..YAGT: screwed up...

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SubZeroX

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I told a really good friend I like her and now it seems like she won't talk to me for a loooong time...sob:brokenheart:

oh well, i have held it in for a looong time, and told her coz I just couldn't stand it anymore.

life sucks.
 
Originally posted by: TheEvil1
how did she reach when you told here

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she said, "you better not like me!"

and when i revealed that I did, she said something like I can't talk to you until this phase passes.

I guess if its long enough it will pass.
 
ouch. im sorry dude that always sucks

ive never has a girl say "you better not like me!" but i can imagin how much that must suck
 
Originally posted by: SubZeroX
Originally posted by: TheEvil1
how did she reach when you told here

and add YAGT to the title
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she said, "you better not like me!"

and when i revealed that I did, she said something like I can't talk to you until this phase passes.

I guess if its long enough it will pass.
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She's not your friend if she can't understand how you feel.
 
Originally posted by: SubZeroX
I told a really good friend I like her and now it seems like she won't talk to me for a loooong time...sob:brokenheart:

oh well, i have held it in for a looong time, and told her coz I just couldn't stand it anymore.

life sucks.
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Hey, at least you said something about it. That's more than most people ever do.
 
Originally posted by: SubZeroX
Originally posted by: TheEvil1
how did she reach when you told here

and add YAGT to the title
Click to expand...

she said, "you better not like me!"

and when i revealed that I did, she said something like I can't talk to you until this phase passes.

I guess if its long enough it will pass.
Click to expand...

Seriously? Ouch.

I just went through the same thing with a very good friend. We're still not together, but we're better friends because of it. Were you two really close friends, or just friends?
 
when did you reveal it to her..

If you get a chance to see her.. buy her fav. color flowers and say to her that your not going to take an NO for an answer. You know this is right for you and that is why you revealed your feelings about her. If she still feels that she is going to risk that relationship with you, tell her risking it means we will never know what it means to be together..

Needless to say that's what got me and vanessa together.. 🙂

though the flowers worked its magic by making her feel nice and warm.. it was something else that told the words that she was going to tell me and what i was going to tell her..

Needless to say IM happy.

Dont take NO for an answer.
 
Originally posted by: The_good_guy
when did you reveal it to her..

If you get a chance to see her.. buy her fav. color flowers and say to her that your not going to take an NO for an answer. You know this is right for you and that is why you revealed your feelings about her. If she still feels that she is going to risk that relationship with you, tell her risking it means we will never know what it means to be together..

Needless to say that's what got me and vanessa together.. 🙂

though the flowers worked its magic by making her feel nice and warm.. it was something else that told the words that she was going to tell me and what i was going to tell her..

Needless to say IM happy.

Dont take NO for an answer.
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I find it unnerving and am somewhat flabbergasted that you would presume to offer any YAGT advice.😕
 
Originally posted by: Feldenak
Originally posted by: The_good_guy
when did you reveal it to her..

If you get a chance to see her.. buy her fav. color flowers and say to her that your not going to take an NO for an answer. You know this is right for you and that is why you revealed your feelings about her. If she still feels that she is going to risk that relationship with you, tell her risking it means we will never know what it means to be together..

Needless to say that's what got me and vanessa together.. 🙂

though the flowers worked its magic by making her feel nice and warm.. it was something else that told the words that she was going to tell me and what i was going to tell her..

Needless to say IM happy.

Dont take NO for an answer.
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I find it unnerving and am somewhat flabbergasted that you would presume to offer any YAGT advice.😕
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Ahahaha....LMAO.

I was gonna say something to that extent, feldenak

TGG is so lame.
 
Originally posted by: SubZeroX
I told a really good friend I like her and now it seems like she won't talk to me for a loooong time...sob:brokenheart:

oh well, i have held it in for a looong time, and told her coz I just couldn't stand it anymore.

life sucks.
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BTW - You live and learn man. Think of this as a growing experience that will be one of many lessons on the way to being the Alpha-geek. 🙂
 
Do's and Don'ts of Cultivating and Maintaining a Platonic Friendship with a Woman You Would Otherwise Want To Have a Relationship With and Quite Possibly Marry.

DO play and replay scenarios in your mind where you come out and declare your true feelings to her, whereupon you proceed directly to frenzied yet sensitive, passionate, and completely fulfilling love-making.
DO NOT actually attempt this.

DO rehearse elaborate and impassioned declarations of your love
DO NOT ever let anyone hear you doing this.
DO NOT ever actually give her the speech. (Instead, drop little, enigmatic, self-deprecating hints to her, and then agonize over why she does not pick up on them.)
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when are people going to learn the rules?
 
Originally posted by: Gooberlx2
Originally posted by: SubZeroX
Originally posted by: TheEvil1
how did she reach when you told here

and add YAGT to the title
Click to expand...

she said, "you better not like me!"

and when i revealed that I did, she said something like I can't talk to you until this phase passes.

I guess if its long enough it will pass.
Click to expand...

Seriously? Ouch.

I just went through the same thing with a very good friend. We're still not together, but we're better friends because of it. Were you two really close friends, or just friends?
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I seriously don't see how you can become better friends after something like this. It would be way too awkard. But I'm glad your friend is so understanding.

Well, when I worked with her in the same place like 6 or 7 months ago she said I was her best guy friend. I liked her back then already but I was too scared by my "best friend" status and didn't say anything. But I've been away for the last 4 months so I was probably demoted to just a friend. I kept in constant touch with her while I was gone I constantly said things like I missed her a lot and yearn to see her and things like I think of her everyday, etc. Basically a lot of stuff to suggest that I liked her to give her some clue. She seemed ok with it. But now this happened...

Thanks for the advice, good guy, but I won't be doing what you suggest. She has told me she can be quite cold hearted to guys she rejects and I believe her, so I'll just let it be...
 
Originally posted by: MachFive
Originally posted by: SubZeroX
I told a really good friend I like her and now it seems like she won't talk to me for a loooong time...sob:brokenheart:

oh well, i have held it in for a looong time, and told her coz I just couldn't stand it anymore.

life sucks.
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BTW - You live and learn man. Think of this as a growing experience that will be one of many lessons on the way to being the Alpha-geek. 🙂
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this is the 3rd time I've experienced this lesson :brokenheart: oh well, at least I won't take it as bad as the 1st 2.
 
How did you approach her with this? If i were you, i would have done it subtlely at first... for example, if you go swimming... take out the lining of the trunks, so that you have a little more 'bulge' to show. Or if she's coming over, sleep naked with a morning hardon ontop fo the sheets, so when she comes in, she sees you in all your glory. These will instill in her a sense that you're more than a friend... that you're a sexual person taht she can bone. THEN after some of these instances, then you can jump on her.
 
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