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Preface : Not looking for a diagnosis, that's more appropriate for doctors or trained therapists; Simply looking to try and identify the issue, and take appropriate steps afterwards, if it happens to be possible.
I look at attempting to do right by everyone else, though I realize I'm not perfect. I look at attempting to be humble and realize that plenty would not consider me anything special by any means.
Being a cancer, (where it applies at least) I'm more quiet and reserved. I look at giving my all with regards to work and other activities, though I'll admit I'm pretty boring compared to most people...I've been a workaholic in that regard. Perhaps made more friends with those I've worked with, which I've found might not be the greatest idea in every occasion. Proverbial wallflower in a lot of cases socially.
I get the impression that after a point of time, I tend to get forgotten fairly often, by a lot of people. Perhaps I'm not being proactive because I don't want to bother folks with things I might need advice with, or even help; I do realize that everyone has their own life to live however....I try to be conscious of people's space.
I do have a small group of friends, or at least colleagues that I feel comfortable with.
I'm realizing how much I'm going to need to continue to do with networking as I move into a different field (IT) after 20+ years in advertising, it is still rather daunting to me. (Not that this is stopping me by any means!)
This has made getting a better job more challenging, quite aware that lots of places don't want to touch me being over 40, it gets a bit frustrating as I continue to look for work. Not looking for a resume review or coaching so far as this particular post, though I constantly wonder what I'm doing wrong. Maybe working for bad places has put blinders on me, I'm not sure.
Anyway, before this post turns into a novel, I guess the point would be to ask,
Aside from being human, anything that might appear to be wrong from what I've written so far, or am I simply overthinking what goes on in daily life?
Thank you.
I look at attempting to do right by everyone else, though I realize I'm not perfect. I look at attempting to be humble and realize that plenty would not consider me anything special by any means.
Being a cancer, (where it applies at least) I'm more quiet and reserved. I look at giving my all with regards to work and other activities, though I'll admit I'm pretty boring compared to most people...I've been a workaholic in that regard. Perhaps made more friends with those I've worked with, which I've found might not be the greatest idea in every occasion. Proverbial wallflower in a lot of cases socially.
I get the impression that after a point of time, I tend to get forgotten fairly often, by a lot of people. Perhaps I'm not being proactive because I don't want to bother folks with things I might need advice with, or even help; I do realize that everyone has their own life to live however....I try to be conscious of people's space.
I do have a small group of friends, or at least colleagues that I feel comfortable with.
I'm realizing how much I'm going to need to continue to do with networking as I move into a different field (IT) after 20+ years in advertising, it is still rather daunting to me. (Not that this is stopping me by any means!)
This has made getting a better job more challenging, quite aware that lots of places don't want to touch me being over 40, it gets a bit frustrating as I continue to look for work. Not looking for a resume review or coaching so far as this particular post, though I constantly wonder what I'm doing wrong. Maybe working for bad places has put blinders on me, I'm not sure.
Anyway, before this post turns into a novel, I guess the point would be to ask,
Aside from being human, anything that might appear to be wrong from what I've written so far, or am I simply overthinking what goes on in daily life?
Thank you.