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halik

Lifer
Oct 10, 2000
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Originally posted by: cashman
Originally posted by: HardcoreRobot
it sounds like you did yourself a favor and didnt get too attached to this girl before she was yours. kudos to that, i think thats a skill most YAGT creators have yet to master.

if you DO keep hanging out with her, I would say you are a shoo-in for the inevitable rebound action. sometimes girls have to make their own mistakes. then again, i do think that some of them never learn...

Hahah, yep. I guess we will see what happens if he goes back to his own self. If he does, then Dan the Man is there to the rescue! :D If not, so be it. Her friends already want to meet me after they found out what happened.........:D:beer:

Plus, she is having a party Thursday night at her place so I'm gonna meet them all and her ex too. It's all good. :)


way to pimp it like a real man! :beer:
Pot smokers hardly change man, he's gonna be a "such a bad person" for about a minute after he hits it again, then he's just be a mellow person for the rest of the night :)

I'm sure you're gonna get some outta the deal one way or another
 

boyRacer

Lifer
Oct 1, 2001
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Originally posted by: cashman
Originally posted by: Yossarian
be sure to nail her with a big I TOLD YOU SO when he slips back into his asshat ways. then just nail her.

I will definitely do that.......both of the statements. :Q :D

No don't do that. Just go for one of her hot friends instead so it hurts more. :)
 

Danman

Lifer
Nov 9, 1999
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Originally posted by: halik
Originally posted by: cashman
Originally posted by: HardcoreRobot
it sounds like you did yourself a favor and didnt get too attached to this girl before she was yours. kudos to that, i think thats a skill most YAGT creators have yet to master.

if you DO keep hanging out with her, I would say you are a shoo-in for the inevitable rebound action. sometimes girls have to make their own mistakes. then again, i do think that some of them never learn...

Hahah, yep. I guess we will see what happens if he goes back to his own self. If he does, then Dan the Man is there to the rescue! :D If not, so be it. Her friends already want to meet me after they found out what happened.........:D:beer:

Plus, she is having a party Thursday night at her place so I'm gonna meet them all and her ex too. It's all good. :)


way to pimp it like a real man! :beer:
Pot smokers hardly change man, he's gonna be a "such a bad person" for about a minute after he hits it again, then he's just be a mellow person for the rest of the night :)

I'm sure you're gonna get some outta the deal one way or another

Hahah, yea......she was talking about how he's cut down and not smoking so much because she didn't like it and I started laughing......she didn't like that, I just apologized right away. You know, I don't mind it at all, she just told me he does it about 5 times a day so he's really dependent of it. Not something I want to do or depend on.
 

JulesMaximus

No Lifer
Jul 3, 2003
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Originally posted by: cashman
UPDATE!
So I just got off the phone with her and yep, she's going for her ex. She really thinks he can change and sh!t, so if she thinks that it's cool with me. I'm pretty easy going and I still want her as a friend since she is really cool and has lots of hawt friends ;). I'd rather it be this way since I don't want her to be having feelings for him still if we were dating. So I guess it all worked out in the end. :)

Ah, the actions of an immature young woman. She'll learn sooner or later and you'll find someone better.
:beer:
 

Danman

Lifer
Nov 9, 1999
13,134
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Originally posted by: JulesMaximus
Originally posted by: cashman
UPDATE!
So I just got off the phone with her and yep, she's going for her ex. She really thinks he can change and sh!t, so if she thinks that it's cool with me. I'm pretty easy going and I still want her as a friend since she is really cool and has lots of hawt friends ;). I'd rather it be this way since I don't want her to be having feelings for him still if we were dating. So I guess it all worked out in the end. :)

Ah, the actions of an immature young woman. She'll learn sooner or later and you'll find someone better.
:beer:

Yep. :)
 

Pliablemoose

Lifer
Oct 11, 1999
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cashman, you're getting there:D

Strong work, sorta sucks, but sometimes you just have to let them go. My problem was getting rid of them;) Although I was so damn ugly during my college years I had very few dates....
 

Danman

Lifer
Nov 9, 1999
13,134
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Originally posted by: Pliablemoose
cashman, you're getting there:D

Strong work, sorta sucks, but sometimes you just have to let them go. My problem was getting rid of them;) Although I was so damn ugly during my college years I had very few dates....

Yea, it sucks. I just want someone I could have and spend time with, I'm not looking to just to get some ass. Ugh, but whatever. I have more important things to do like my job and my degree. I'm basically over it now, I'm kind of looking forward to meeting one of her friends that thinks I'm hot. :D ;)
 

Stark

Diamond Member
Jun 16, 2000
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well, at least you don't have a girlfriend who's a complete and utter dumbass.

hopefully you liked her enough for her to act as the "transition" girl between serious relationships. Now you're ready for someone who is intelligent and mature enough to value a good man.
 

Yax

Platinum Member
Feb 11, 2003
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I wouldn't worry, she's bound to come back crying. In the meantime, be her friend or Uck buddy. Girls like to spend time with their guy friends anyway. ;)
 

Koing

Elite Member <br> Super Moderator<br> Health and F
Oct 11, 2000
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Well at least you worked something out in the end and didn't get too attached.

:beer:

Koing
 

IamElectro

Golden Member
Jul 15, 2003
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Never get involved with someone who just got out of a relationship(less than a month or two). You should have ran the other way and ran fast. Chicks are usually looking for a crutch after a breakup and you just got used a a crutch. They have no problem dumping the crutches as they are only need for a few weeks during thier healing process and dont become very attached to them.
 

Danman

Lifer
Nov 9, 1999
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Originally posted by: IamElectro
Never get involved with someone who just got out of a relationship(less than a month or two). You should have ran the other way and ran fast. Chicks are usually looking for a crutch after a breakup and you just got used a a crutch. They have no problem dumping the crutches as they are only need for a few weeks during thier healing process and dont become very attached to them.

The funny thing is, she was attached to me already. She was sobbing on the phone when we were talking last night again but I told it's all cool and I still want to be her friend. She keeps on telling me she is so sorry, she didn't expect this and thought it was over....oh well. I just want to be her friend now and see how it goes. :)
 

TheBDB

Diamond Member
Jan 26, 2002
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Originally posted by: bR
Originally posted by: cashman
Originally posted by: Yossarian
be sure to nail her with a big I TOLD YOU SO when he slips back into his asshat ways. then just nail her.

I will definitely do that.......both of the statements. :Q :D

No don't do that. Just go for one of her hot friends instead so it hurts more. :)

Great idea. When her ex treats her like sh!t she will see you boinking her friend and be jealous.