Ugh....YAGT thread...

[Zanix]

Originally posted by: AcidicFury

Originally posted by: Zanix

Originally posted by: cashman

Originally posted by: Zanix

Her asshole ex treated her like SH!T, didn't care about her, always made fun of her, etc. She dated him for about a year and he just didn't care and always wanted to leave her. She begged him to come back,

*KEY Women love alittle abuse. No punching or hitting, but alittle teasing and a tough time. Dated him for about a year? And he treated her like sh!t? Doesn't this tell you something about abuse? I wish it wasn't this way... damned nice guy syndrome never works. (buy her a LovePads(tm))

LOL, I was just looking at those. Yea, sometimes you gotta give that tough guy attitude I guess.

Whatever, I guess she really isn't ready for a relationship; but we will what she says when she calls me.

On a side note, her ex is 5'4" and 130 lbs. I am 6'2" and she is 5'2".....it's really funny because she told him this and he's all scared of me now.

Well hell yeah, you're the "bigger man" literally! Now get angry! Get fired up! I want you to get in there and be the "bigger man" in your head!! This turd has NOTHING on you! Who's got the 12" peice!? NOT this guy! So you gotta go show this woman that YOU are all MAN! And THAT is what THIS woman wants! A MAN! YEAH!

Alright champ, let's have a good game

You sound like you're high. Are you?

Yeah, bout a pot of coffee in me right now.


Coffee, well... caffein is by far my favorite drug.


No sugar, extra dark, just a sprits of cream... heven.

 

[Yossarian]

Originally posted by: ZanixWell hell yeah, you're the "bigger man" literally! Now get angry! Get fired up! I want you to get in there and be the "bigger man" in your head!! This turd has NOTHING on you! Who's got the 12" peice!? NOT this guy! So you gotta go show this woman that YOU are all MAN! And THAT is what THIS woman wants! A MAN! YEAH!

Alright champ, let's have a good game

whoa you even motivated me with that rousing speech!

 

[Danman]

Originally posted by: PanzerIV
This girl is like sooo many others. They love trying to change the "badboy" and feel it's their mission. It doesn't matter that you are the better person she needs to express her nurturing on this loser who she hopes will come around someday. Of course we know he won't but she doesn't see the forest through the trees so she'll continue letting him take advantage of her.

Ultimately, Cashman, you are the loser in this situation because you can't get her to see things your way. Hopefully I am wrong and she will wake up and see the opporunity that lies ahead but how often does that happen?

I just care for her, I've been down that road and so has everyone else. I just want to show her what I can give her, so much more than this douche.

 

[vood0g]

Originally posted by: Shockwave
I say let her go. If she satys, her ex will always be in the back of her mind.. A "what if" kind of scenario. Thats the last thing you want.

i second this. women will always want something that is on their mind. they wont be satisfied until that have what they want. and plus, why stop her if she wants to go back. dump the ho. she likes to go back to her loser ex, that just tells you what her standards are.

 

[txxxx]

Originally posted by: Zanix

Her asshole ex treated her like SH!T, didn't care about her, always made fun of her, etc. She dated him for about a year and he just didn't care and always wanted to leave her. She begged him to come back,

*KEY Women love alittle abuse. No punching or hitting, but alittle teasing and a tough time. Dated him for about a year? And he treated her like sh!t? Doesn't this tell you something about abuse? I wish it wasn't this way... damned nice guy syndrome never works. (buy her a LovePads(tm))

DRAMA QUEEN ALERT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!11111

 

[Ladies Man]

well since she's already seen your package, i say hit it repeatedly until she makes up her mind. So even if she goes back it'll suck for that guy cus he'll be tossing a hotdog down a hallway.

 

[Zanix]

Originally posted by: cashman

Originally posted by: Zanix

Originally posted by: cashman

Originally posted by: Zanix

Her asshole ex treated her like SH!T, didn't care about her, always made fun of her, etc. She dated him for about a year and he just didn't care and always wanted to leave her. She begged him to come back,

*KEY Women love alittle abuse. No punching or hitting, but alittle teasing and a tough time. Dated him for about a year? And he treated her like sh!t? Doesn't this tell you something about abuse? I wish it wasn't this way... damned nice guy syndrome never works. (buy her a LovePads(tm))

LOL, I was just looking at those. Yea, sometimes you gotta give that tough guy attitude I guess.

Whatever, I guess she really isn't ready for a relationship; but we will what she says when she calls me.

On a side note, her ex is 5'4" and 130 lbs. I am 6'2" and she is 5'2".....it's really funny because she told him this and he's all scared of me now.

Well hell yeah, you're the "bigger man" literally! Now get angry! Get fired up! I want you to get in there and be the "bigger man" in your head!! This turd has NOTHING on you! Who's got the 12" peice!? NOT this guy! So you gotta go show this woman that YOU are all MAN! And THAT is what THIS woman wants! A MAN! YEAH!

Alright champ, let's have a good game

Riiight....

I'm not angry, I kind of feel for the guy since I've been there and it sucks. I know how it is, so I can sympathize with the guy.

Of course man, I was goofing ya. But seriously, Don't buy the first offer. This girl sounds like alot of trouble. The hard breakup is a b!tch. Keep it light though man, date around. Don't want to lance open the new scar. I made the mistake of getting into another serious relationship after getting myself together after the hard breakup. I don't recommend it. YMMV though, I guess.

 

[jjones]

Originally posted by: Ladies Man
well since she's already seen your package, i say hit it repeatedly until she makes up her mind. So even if she goes back it'll suck for that guy cus he'll be tossing a hotdog down a hallway.

:beer: for the correct answer.

 

[dirtboy]

There's nothing you can do. She's going to be with who she wants and that might mean him.

 

[Ranger X]

Nice guys finish last and in this case, you are the nice guy. Would you rather stay with her with a high probability of her cheating on you or move on? You haven't been with her long so forget it and find another broad. Plus, can you tolerate a relationship where she calls her ex every night?

In regards to the "We have so many things in common" comment ... EVERYONE thinks this when they're developing a relationship with someone. Ever thought about all the differences you two have? Conflict in ideologies, etc? No one thinks about that when they're developing a relationship. That's why the commonalities stand out while the differences do not.

 

[Doboji]

SERIOUSLY... dump her *sorta*....

Tell her "well I don't like this crap... so you call me when you figure it out... and I dont wanna see or hear from you til you do... I am not your f-in doormat and I dont appreciate being compared to a worthless fvck like your ex. bu bye"

Don't be a pansy.. all it will do is make you a lonely pansy.


-Max

 

[Bryophyte]

Tell her that she deserves to be treated better than her ex treated her. Tell her that women should NEVER allow a man to be disrespectful or emotionally abusive. If she's ready to be treated the way she deserves to be treated, with respect and dignity and love, you are there for her, but that you will not sit around and watch her fall to pieces if she decides to go back to a man that treats her that way.

 

[Yax]

Do you both a favor and tell her to go back to him. If she stays with you like this, she'll regret it for the rest of her life. She'll always wonder "what if.." and each time you two get into a disagreement, she'll fantisize about her ex till he's greater than God. Let her finish it up with him first. Then she'll come crying to you and it'll work out much better.

You already know their relationship won't work!

 

[y2kc]

the fact that she's even considering going back to the "loser" is revealing. you my friend are filler. she will keep you around as companionship, sex, free food, etc until she gets what she really wants, her loser boyfriend.

you are a girlfriend with a penis, that's all.

your options:

1. forget about being with her emotionally and bang her till she finally dumps you for the guy.
2. try to prove your worth over his (which you can't because she loves him not you).
3. tell her thanks but no thanks, have a nice life and move on.

 

[Danman]

Originally posted by: Bryophyte
Tell her that she deserves to be treated better than her ex treated her. Tell her that women should NEVER allow a man to be disrespectful or emotionally abusive. If she's ready to be treated the way she deserves to be treated, with respect and dignity and love, you are there for her, but that you will not sit around and watch her fall to pieces if she decides to go back to a man that treats her that way.

Sounds like a good idea.

And for the guys say just use her, I can't do that. I'm just not that kind of person. I'll update this when I get a response from her. Thanks guys.

 

[Danman]

UPDATE!
So I just got off the phone with her and yep, she's going for her ex. She really thinks he can change and sh!t, so if she thinks that it's cool with me. I'm pretty easy going and I still want her as a friend since she is really cool and has lots of hawt friends . I'd rather it be this way since I don't want her to be having feelings for him still if we were dating. So I guess it all worked out in the end.

 

[bobbybe01]

Do her friends. What a be-yotch. Coo coo coo coo.

Edit: And when she comes back crying to you b/c her "ex" treated her like trash, don't listen to it. In effect, say: "I told you so..."

 

[pulse8]

Whip it out in front of her friends, then?

 

[neutralizer]

Originally posted by: cashman
UPDATE!
So I just got off the phone with her and yep, she's going for her ex. She really thinks he can change and sh!t, so if she thinks that it's cool with me. I'm pretty easy going and I still want her as a friend since she is really cool and has lots of hawt friends . I'd rather it be this way since I don't want her to be having feelings for him still if we were dating. So I guess it all worked out in the end.

Well atleast she has hot friends. thats a plus :beer:

still think you should have talked to her about her loser ex. oh well.

 

[Ogg]

sorry bro

hot friends though, hmmmmm

 

[HardcoreRobot]

it sounds like you did yourself a favor and didnt get too attached to this girl before she was yours. kudos to that, i think thats a skill most YAGT creators have yet to master.

if you DO keep hanging out with her, I would say you are a shoo-in for the inevitable rebound action. sometimes girls have to make their own mistakes. then again, i do think that some of them never learn...

 

[Yossarian]

be sure to nail her with a big I TOLD YOU SO when he slips back into his asshat ways. then just nail her.

 

[Danman]

Originally posted by: HardcoreRobot
it sounds like you did yourself a favor and didnt get too attached to this girl before she was yours. kudos to that, i think thats a skill most YAGT creators have yet to master.

if you DO keep hanging out with her, I would say you are a shoo-in for the inevitable rebound action. sometimes girls have to make their own mistakes. then again, i do think that some of them never learn...

Hahah, yep. I guess we will see what happens if he goes back to his own self. If he does, then Dan the Man is there to the rescue! If not, so be it. Her friends already want to meet me after they found out what happened.........:beer:

Plus, she is having a party Thursday night at her place so I'm gonna meet them all and her ex too. It's all good.

 

[Danman]

Originally posted by: Yossarian
be sure to nail her with a big I TOLD YOU SO when he slips back into his asshat ways. then just nail her.

I will definitely do that.......both of the statements. :Q

 

[Bryophyte]

When you go to the party, tell him that she said your penis is bigger than his.