Nora, 12
My mother was charged with child pornography for taking pictures of me in the bathtub when I was 8 years old. She has not been allowed to photograph me naked since then. The prosacuter said she had committed a crime, but the only crime I saw was committed by him when he refused to agknoledge her right as mother to document her daughters development.
Sometimes during the case I was so scared and worried that I could barely get through the day. Other kids tormented me in the playground,
Did you know her Momma took pictures of her buck-naked?!
Some who I barely knew, just being mean and not even stopping to think. There were hard times at home, too. My worst memory of the case was one morning when I was eating breakfast and we got a phone call, and my mother answered, hung up, and started sobbing.
I cant take it anymore, was what she said.
I have a friend my age whose mother has been in jail for most of her (my friends) life. My friend has a lot of trouble expressing herself and has a lot of anger inside her. She lives with grandparents who are not really aquipped to take care of her and she lacks a lot of true friends. I was afraid if my family lost our case that I would end up like my friend, angry and alone. But our case didnt turn out like that.
Our friends and community were extremely supportive. They held a candlelight vigle, a demonstration on the courthouse steps, and gave us a huge amount of money for our defence fund. My friends were really wonderful, as well. They were brave and strong and really helped me through a lot of rough times.
I didnt realize until I saw Century that I had been wanting to get this story out into the world since I was 8 years old. I wanted to be in this project not because I want people to pitty me, but because I want people to see how stupid it was for my mother and many others to be prosecuted. Look at my picture. Do I look abused to you? Or do I look like a happy child with wonderful parents whose only abuse has come from those who have tried to take away our right to live the way we do.
For me, my naked bodie is normal; for me, my naked body is wild and free; for me, my naked bodie is being proud for who and what I am.
Nora