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Topic: Females

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9 relationships and you still don't get it?

I've been in 2, and I started not knowing a thing about women, and now I know enough to keep a relationship going for longer than a year.

Poor bad attitude teens... treating women like objects refer to not getting any isn't going to get you much past 1st base my needee friend.
 
I'm not an asshole that just wants sex like most of you people think. I am currently in high school, I'm not in my 20's! I'm not some pimp. I am extremely nice to females. I like this forum becuase i'm interested alot in comps and heard its a good way to make money in the future 🙂

All that and i still cant keep a girl. I just dont understand them. I talked to my ex today and told her what she ment by me not listening and she said. "You wouldn't understand" and then she left, i walked toward her and told her that we can work things out and i'll listen to her more and she just looked at me and told me she needs some time alone. Now that i really think about it the last couple of times i talked to her through the phone i wasnt really paying attention but probably becaues she was talking about how much she hated her classes and wouldnt stop talking and i was browsing the net 🙂 But i doubt someone will dump someone cause of a couple of incidents in the phone!

In my previouse highschool relationships i broke up with 2 girls because they were flirts and the other one just dumped me because her best friend saw me dancing with some girl i didnt konw in a club and she told her i was flirting with her and feeling on her!!!!! What a Biach. when i tried to tell her that there was nothing going on she slamed the phone on me and never spoke to me again.

When i said "I'm pissed i didnt get any" I was actually joking becuase i thought mostly guys talk in computer forums but my hormones made me say that!

I aksed in a computer forum because mostly wise old guys talk here that can give some tips to a teen 🙂

For you teenage nerds out there that have low self esteem i got something to say. Dont be shy! how do you expect to get a girl when you dont talk to them? They are defenitly not gonna talk to you. Girls like people with sense of humor alot. I get girls because i am a very funny guy at school not becuase i'm an "asshole" who gets what he wants.

It really bothers me though that I can get them but I cant keep them once i get them, like they get bored of me or something. Thats why i posted this topic, i just dont get them. I think it should be edited to "How to keep girls?"

Another thing i want to bring up is that some girls are EXTREMLY stupid, seriously....... I know girls that have been played by guys several times. Alot of girls in my school in Miami FLorida like the "Thug guys" That are badasses and not bright at all. I know guys that play with girls and sweet talk them to get them to bed. Its suprising how some girls buy all this junk they tell them.

And if your wondering ive only had sex twice with condoms.

Peace
 
Wow.. the truth comes out..

hehe.. btw.. this is one long a$$ thread man! U go!

Hehe, I'm from California, and I guess Maimi is kinda like hear except hoter and wetter, people think Silicon Valley is bad a$$ and all, its' not, there are some really really stupid people here too.

I just finished high school. And if you're around my age u know what I mean when I say that there are just some girls when u look at them u know they're dumb b!tches, but some are actually smart. I'm by no mean shy, hell, I was in like 4 student leadership position my senior year, and most people in school do like me, and I'm funny too. I can talk to girls, just can't stand how they keep talking and talking about something very uninteresting, I always listen, but common guys, you probably have the same feeling too. Don't ya feel bad when your girl is talking about something and you jsut don't know what to say (or know but because you know that girls don't want to hear SOLUTIONS), and so u just keep nodding? It feels so.. "one way" a lot of times.

Now that I'm in college, I meet this girl from my history class that seems really cool, I think I'll try my luck this time.

How do u ask them out anyway? I have no trouble starting a conversation, but I always have trouble asking someone out. It seems like.. one moment you're talking.. just being friendly, the next is like I have this other intention... =P Again, common.. don't u feel guilty sometimes? It's like u're betraying her trust or somethin...

Augh! I can't deal w/ them!

KORN RULZ! LOL (This is completely random but I felt like it!)

 
I feel you man......

How do i ask them out?

I wait for the right moment to do it. For example.

This is the 3rd day of me talking a girl in math.

Me: Damn girl you be looking nice and tanned today did you go to the beach?
She: Yeah me and my girlfriends went to SouthBeach this weekend and i got some pictures of us.
Me: Can you make my day and show them to me?
She: Hehe, yeah ok but dont look at this one(Grabs one of the pictures) Because i look ugly in it.
Me: The picture must of developed bad then because you look so damn good in person.
She: (Looks at me smiling) Thanks
Me: I wish i was at the beach with you that day.
She: So you can hit on my friends?
Me: Nah they are ugly
She: Oh shut up, alot of guys like them
Me: Yeah but you so damn fine you make them look bad when your around them.
She: Hehe, Ok stop it
Me: Do you know where i'm going at here? (smiles)
She: (Giggles)
Me: So how bout me and you go out this friday night?
She: You know i got a boyfriend dont you?
Me: Whats he got to do with us?
She: (writes down her number in a piece of paper and gives it to me) Call me today and we'll talk.
Me: (Taking a chance i give her the paper and say) You can have it now i memorized it and i'll never forget it.
She: Oh come on now your going to far (smiles)
Me: (I look at her straight in the face and get closer and we kiss)

It goes on from there 🙂

 
lol... here is prove that Vapor IS indeed a pimp! =)

But really, anyone have any sugestion? I mean, casual talking to girls is not hard.. but to.. shift gear from... casual talking to asking someone out is kinda... weird? Any ideas? All my bright comrades on anand!

Hehe, I'll have my history class in about an hour, she seems cool and sincere, and very pretty also, what kinda conversation should it be? I mean.. Vapor's way sounds... a little too out there man.. I'm not into girls that are that stupid and have that kinda moral values. But really dude, it seems so.. rude to like keep commenting on how good she looks. =P

Common!
 
Well, first I'd say find out about her interests. Casually ask her what she's up to this weekend. Find out what she likes or what she is like first. Get to know her. And if she is "cool and sincere", as you said, don't bullsh!t around with her. Be honest and sincere.
 
Doh! I was all worked up today to talk to her more.. but NO!!! she didn't show up to class.. needless to say I'm very dispointed.. since the next time the class meet again in next tuesday.

Boo me.

Why do I always have bad luck like this?

 
Vapor: That girl really sounds intelligent. I mean, a guy says that stuff to me, how could I ever resist? Did you ever think about asking a girl out based on her inner worth, not her looks or your chances of getting some? And with lines like that, no wonder your not getting any. The girls are probably laughing too hard at you to get in the mood! 😛
 
All right guys, this is not the try your best line thread... 😉

Pretender: Is that a hint to go back to my old avatar? 🙂
 


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You've quite a few more heartaches ahead of you... 🙂
 
I'd like to quote a Maxim article

&quot;What I know about women-
Soft
Smell good&quot;

And as far as girls go, slutty ones are kinda one-dimensional, and so are amusing for only so long... Of course, when you find a Mormon one, you gotta keep that going for a while just to confuse your friends......
 
you might be trying to hard. And if you approach a girl with a definite goal in mind, unless it's a long-term thing, you'll probably go home alone.

Just treat them like an equal, have fun, make certain she has fun also, and don't expect anything in return. Sharing hobbies or interests really helps; having the same classes can give you some common ground too.

If all else fails, the world can always use another priest. 😀
 
THIS IS HIGH SCHOOL I'M TLAKING ABOUT PEOPLE!

The girl actually had a 3.7 GPA and she wasn't slutty. Girls like it when you compliment them on their looks so i do it often. If she woulda looked annoyed at teh start i woulda stoped and tried a more nicer approuch. You gotta be ready for anything.
 
Oh, thanks a lot Vapor. I just got the crap beaten out of me in the parking lot. Why didn't you say not to use that exact conversation when the boyfriend is actually standing there??? Don't quit your day job buddy, the whole dating coaching thing is flawed. 😉

LMAO at Pretender
 
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