Threesome *edit...needed better title*

jonmullen

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edit...this title just seems better

Ok well lets see if you can follow:

Friend A we will call sam. Sam had been dating this girl for a few months then this girl and him broke up, that same week he finds out she is "in love" with this other guy.

Friend B we will call her Lindsey. She has spent the last year and a half getting over a very bad break up. She was drugalong for a while buy the last guy, still being his booty call up until about thanksgiving, when she finally realized he was a total jerk.

Sam has a track record of being a player and using alot of girls. Now he says all the right things, and everything and is every charming, but he never really commits to one girl. Now he never really cheats he just keeps his options open. Well after he hears about his girl liking this other guy and that she is going to spend friday with this other guy...he calls up Lindsey and they end up making out pretty heavily friday...the next day he goes and spend it with his old girl.

So today Lindsey and Sam are talking, and Lindsey opens up and voices some of her fears that he may be using her to get back and his old girl, and then Sam just cuts it off and goes I dont want to talk about this anymore.

Now Lindsey and Sam are both some of my best friends and from where I see it Sam is just being a player and I'm affraid he is going to play Lindsey, s
hould I st
ep, if so what should I do? If you need more info just ask.
 

Ronstang

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It is none of your business, if you want to remain freinds with these people stay out of THEIR business. You can't save the world.....now is a good time to learn that little lesson.
 

jonmullen

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Originally posted by: Ronstang
It is none of your business, if you want to remain freinds with these people stay out of THEIR business. You can't save the world.....now is a good time to learn that little lesson.

honestly I could care less about being friends with Sam right now he has been a jerk of lately but linsey is the one I really care about
 

jonmullen

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Originally posted by: Cyberian
Originally posted by: RagingBITCH
Kick Sam's ass and do Lindsey
Or vice versa.

Seriously, I would stay the hell out of that one altogether.

the problem is Linsey can {...} this close to being self destructive in a very bad way...nothing seious just a cry for help thing... I got her help and she is doing great now, but I dont want to see her like that again. there wise I would let her fall flat on her face and learn the lesson
 

Ronstang

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Originally posted by: jonmullen
Originally posted by: Ronstang
It is none of your business, if you want to remain freinds with these people stay out of THEIR business. You can't save the world.....now is a good time to learn that little lesson.

honestly I could care less about being friends with Sam right now he has been a jerk of lately but linsey is the one I really care about
Then I think you already have your answer.

 

hjo3

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Argh, this thread sucks. Why didn't you just label it YAGT so I could've avoided it in the first place?
You, Sam, and Lindsey suck.
Edit: OMG, you're trying to bait them with pics of this Lindsey (who's prolly fugly anyway)? Jesus. Hello, it's the web! Porn is only a click away!
 

Ronstang

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Originally posted by: jonmullen
care to spell it out...you cant be vague if you want pics in the end
I'm not trying to be vague, but you do know the answer. If the girl is the one you care about then you need to talk with her about the incident and fill her in on the fact that "Sam" might be using her......that is about all you can do, but as always with matters of emotions it could eventually backfire on you.

 

jonmullen

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Originally posted by: hjo3
Argh, this thread sucks. Why didn't you just label it YAGT so I could've avoided it in the first place?
You, Sam, and Lindsey suck.
Edit: OMG, you're trying to bait them with pics of this Lindsey (who's prolly fugly anyway)? Jesus. Hello, it's the web! Porn is only a click away!

tell that to the people who always asks for pics anyway
 

Ronstang

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Originally posted by: jonmullen
Originally posted by: hjo3
Argh, this thread sucks. Why didn't you just label it YAGT so I could've avoided it in the first place?
You, Sam, and Lindsey suck.
Edit: OMG, you're trying to bait them with pics of this Lindsey (who's prolly fugly anyway)? Jesus. Hello, it's the web! Porn is only a click away!

tell that to the people who always asks for pics anyway
You should just ignore the anger filled posters around here as they probably have bigger problems than you.....and BTW, I have never asked for pics in any thread.

 

Alchemist99

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tell her he's got a venereal disease and tell him the same, that should keep them apart, make it something really vicious like a raging case of anal warts!
 

NutBucket

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If you really don't care about Sam then just worry about the girl. However, you really can't make out the guy to be a real jerk or anything. Otherwise, Lindsey may think you're trying to sabotage a possible relationship and she'll end up hating you. You have to wait for him to do something and then when she comes crying to you you'll have some good points.
But honestly, the truth of the matter is you can't help people. People need to help themselves. They will find help if they want it. If they don't want your help you're better off not doing anything.