I was the exact same up until 3 weeks ago. I always thought they looked too preppy, kinda a bit too "fancy man". Then I saw some metrosexual people in the subway wearing them, and liked it. Then 3 days after 3 weeks ago, I bought one at Banana Republic on sale. Looks gorgeous.
Go to a local BR, they may have some on clearance. My local BRs have been having major winter clothes sales for the past 3 weeks, so there may be slim pickings.
http://bananarepublic.gapcanada.ca/browse/product.do?cid=14845&vid=1&pid=774661&scid=774661003
http://bananarepublic.gapcanada.ca/browse/product.do?cid=14845&vid=1&pid=768341
Black is a staple, but grey is gorgeous. I got a black one, will probably add a grey one to my wardrobe next year. The BR one is no longer 100% wool, probably cost cutting. It's still majority wool, and looks fine. Otherwise, check out Jcrew.
http://www.jcrew.com/mens_category/outerwear/wool/PRDOVR~87195/87195.jsp