Maybe you're right, maybe you're not. I work in the industry of developing better user experiences, so it's also part of my job to be critical and analytical of how things are designed. For me, it's not about "how it used to be", but more about what they could have done to make it better for the user or be smarter about it. I spend equal amount of time on both Macs and Windows based computers and I can say without doubt that, in most aspects, Windows tend to be better than Mac OS's when it comes to the user experience.
Here's just a quick example: iTunes in my opinion is one of the clunkiest and most counter-intuitive music program out there. The UI is pretty poorly designed. I thought Zune was much better designed, but unfortunately as with everything MS's involved with these days, they tend to kill it pretty fast.