This may be the worst place to ask this but...

[zerocool84]

if you have to ask this question, you are already on the undesirable side.

This

Ladies don't want guys with low self confidence so OP has already lost.

 

[bommy261]

You can't be that keen on picking things up. I don't even remember what color pants I'm wearing half the time. I don't remember eye colors until I've spoken with a person extensively... I reallly mean extensively here.

women are much more communicative than men are. its how they select their mates, they are hard wired to notice all your body language right off the bat.

 

[davmat787]

You can't be that keen on picking things up. I don't even remember what color pants I'm wearing half the time. I don't remember eye colors until I've spoken with a person extensively... I reallly mean extensively here.

One of the few females here is kind enough to give you her opinion, and you tell her she can't be that keen? 🙄

Maybe what you need to do is worry less what others are thinking of you or trying to project what you think they want to see, and instead just learn to be comfortable and confident with yourself first.

 

[Lean L]

One of the few females here is kind enough to give you her opinion, and you tell her she can't be that keen? 🙄

Maybe what you need to do is worry less what others are thinking of you or trying to project what you think they want to see, and instead just learn to be comfortable and confident with yourself first.

It's meant as awe as opposed to disbelief. See my anecdote.

 

[Ichinisan]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vNqd4hW98sQ

 

[bfdd]

said "douche bags" are usually brimming with confidence and the women can tell because they notice the eye fucking the dbags are doing from across the club. I mean why else do people even go to clubs if not to just fuck? Start giving the vibe out that you're down to fuck and know what you're doing, you'll get attention.

 

[davmat787]

It's meant as awe as opposed to disbelief. See my anecdote.

Okay, sorry for reading it the wrong way, I misunderstood.

 

[mrkun]

Your mentality is all wrong. Men that get laid are confident and don't give a shit what others think of them. If you're not a douchebag, then don't worry about being perceived as one; women can tell instantly (and are often attracted to them.)

 

[Alone]

My question is how can a girl tell when a guy is such? I mean is it based on looks, clothes, how he moves, how much he's had to drink, mannerisms?

Yes.

 

[Lean L]

Your mentality is all wrong. Men that get laid are confident and don't give a shit what others think of them. If you're not a douchebag, then don't worry about being perceived as one; women can tell instantly (and are often attracted to them.)

Okay this has come up a few times. The way I see it at the end of the night is when the beta and omega males try to score using sleezy tactics. I thought that that's what women tried to avoid. I guess some women like that too?

 

[Dr. Zaus]

Okay this has come up a few times. The way I see it at the end of the night is when the beta and omega males try to score using sleezy tactics. I thought that that's what women tried to avoid. I guess some women like that too?

Secret:

Women like sex.

 

[Nik]

http://forums.anandtech.com/forumdisplay.php?f=32

 

[moshquerade]

Okay part two of clubbing questions.

There's this kinda general knowledge that there are always dbag guys at parties or clubs who are undesirable (others may refer to them as sleezebags). My question is how can a girl tell when a guy is such? I mean is it based on looks, clothes, how he moves, how much he's had to drink, mannerisms?

Yes.