This girl pissed me off, what else is new

[Bimmer318i]

A large number of you guys in this thread are tools...

Don't start with the you don't have a gf and don't have close guy friends...
stop...right there..

Had a girlfriend for 2 1/2 years...and maintained perfect relationships with my close guy buddies...there was not one time where I ditched on one or the other for one or the other...
Obviously she was makin you jealous..
my ex did it too...I don't talk to her anymore...she doesn't really talk to me...it works better for both of us that way..

But when people say you can't maintain good buddies with a girlfriend...you guys are nuts...and ask anyone...I treated my gf unbelievably well along with my friends..
and guess what...all my good friends are still here even if they are 16 hours away from me..

so I can understand UDT89 being irritated by the fact that this girl (who he see's as a friend and it does not matter what she views him as) would be frustrated by the fact that she was ignoring him...and it's also BS if you think people can't just be friends...hell, I got a girl (space) friend here that has slept in my bed a couple nights and NOTHING has happened, we are friends..and that is it...nothing more..

some of you guys got to get out and experience the real world...and don't try and tell me I haven't (cause I had a hell of a good night @ the local bar on campus)...

 

[kherman]

Jesus Christ!

She's in a new relationship. That's the most fun time in a relationship. Let her have her fun. Are you stalking her? What's your deal?

Ever think that she wants to spend time with her bf over her friend?

Are you the only one of her friends that she's blowing off?

 

[Jfur]

I believe what you said about your feelings for her and the loss of friendship. If she can't see you as more than a potential lover, you have to gently let go. Some people just cannot deal with members of the opposite sex without seeing them as possible mates. Or maybe she just fell hard for you. No matter why, she is now trying to make you feel bad about not wanting her and she is playing games. The only kind thing to do is to see less of her so she won't torture herself so much. At this stage of her life, and perhaps at any, you will never be a "friend".

 

[Red Dawn]

JAPFVOAEG=Just Another Pimple Farming Victim Of An Evil Girl

 

[Geekbabe]

Originally posted by: Red Dawn
JAPFVOAEG=Just Another Pimple Farming Victim Of An Evil Girl

OMFG!!! Buwhahaha, you belong on a stage somewhere,it's like the beginning of a new language you've starting here Dweebonics or something.. hahahahaha !!!

 

[lRageATMl]

Originally posted by: Bimmer318i
A large number of you guys in this thread are tools...

Don't start with the you don't have a gf and don't have close guy friends...
stop...right there..

Had a girlfriend for 2 1/2 years...and maintained perfect relationships with my close guy buddies...there was not one time where I ditched on one or the other for one or the other...
Obviously she was makin you jealous..
my ex did it too...I don't talk to her anymore...she doesn't really talk to me...it works better for both of us that way..

But when people say you can't maintain good buddies with a girlfriend...you guys are nuts...and ask anyone...I treated my gf unbelievably well along with my friends..
and guess what...all my good friends are still here even if they are 16 hours away from me..

so I can understand UDT89 being irritated by the fact that this girl (who he see's as a friend and it does not matter what she views him as) would be frustrated by the fact that she was ignoring him...and it's also BS if you think people can't just be friends...hell, I got a girl (space) friend here that has slept in my bed a couple nights and NOTHING has happened, we are friends..and that is it...nothing more..

some of you guys got to get out and experience the real world...and don't try and tell me I haven't (cause I had a hell of a good night @ the local bar on campus)...

After reading all the posts unlike many of you, I think Bimmer318i has hit the nail in teh coffin. I couldn't say it better myself. Whoever said you can;t have a male female realtionship where your just friends you must be smoking something casue it happens everyday...hell some of my best and closest friends are girls, yet I still maintain a perfect relationship with all my guy friends and those other ... special friends

 

[Stark]

there comes a time in a man's life when he stops hanging out with "girls who are just friends" and finds one girl to focus his attention and love on. You may be approaching that stage of life.

The first thing you need to do is stop hanging out with girls you think are ugly. This girl sounds like she's in love with you, so forget about being friends and move on to other relationships. This relationship cannot be salvaged.

 

[UDT89]

Originally posted by: kherman
Jesus Christ!

She's in a new relationship. That's the most fun time in a relationship. Let her have her fun. Are you stalking her? What's your deal?

Ever think that she wants to spend time with her bf over her friend?

Are you the only one of her friends that she's blowing off?

I just awarded you "Tool of the Thread"

whenever you want you can come collect your prize................

stalking her, you are an idiot.

 

[lilFajita]

well, UDT, I think that you have a serious problem here. She obviously likes you ALOT, esp to make up all that stuff. That's not just once, but several times. I think that you have to just say that unless she can except that you guys will only ever be friends, then you need to end that too. You can't send a person who is into you in any way mixed signals at all, cause there is just too much of a chance to misunderstand, too much of an opportunity to make it into something it is not. As much as it sucks, that is just the way it is

If she takes it too hard, just say that maybe you guys need time apart where she can start looking around. Then, maybe after a while, you can begin your friendship again.

This is a sucky situation I know, and I know that it frustrates you to have to lose a friend. I'm sorry.

Remember tho...with someone that into you, you can't do anything you would misconstrue.

keep us updated!

 

[MiniGolfIsFun]

Ya know, I've been in this kind of situation before (though not where the girl makes up a bf) but I do remember clearly (now) that it was partially my fault because I did lead her on a bit. This girl, she wasn't all that great. Not my type at all. But i'm pretty sure she liked me.

And so what did I do? I told her a lie to get out. Yeah, i know. But this was when I was about 17 so I had no idea what to do. Did I ever talk to her again after that? Nope. Is it better this way now? Damn right it is.

So you should think about this, aren't you leading her on a bit? If you are, back off. It's your mistake if you reciprocate or initiate.

 

[Shelly21]

People are different... some people craves attention ... some couldn't care if they get any.

It's rare that we see this happening when it's usually the other way around.

 

[oLLie]

flaggin this thread for later

 

[gopunk]

of course you can be friends with a girl, but i GUARANTEE you that at some point, one of you will start to look at the other and go "hmm.... what if...."

this may take *years* to happen, but it WILL happen. sometimes nothing comes out of it, sometimes the friendship is lost, sometimes they live happily ever after. but there will be a point in time at which at least one of the people entertains the notion of doing something as more than just friends with the other. even if it is just a fleeting thought, it will happen.

 

[gotsmack]

Originally posted by: TranceNation

Originally posted by: UDT89
you see you're looking at it as a male female thing. it wasnt like that at all. she coexisted with my male friends. so to me its like losing a good buddy of mine, and relationships have nothing to do with it.

its just like losing a friend, not an opportunity.

lol, there's never been a case where a guy only wants to be friends with a girl.

how about when girls are friends with gay men

 

[Stark]

how about when girls are are friends with gay men... this happens

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[fyleow]

Of course, everything on the onion is 100% true

 

[oLLie]

Originally posted by: fyleow
Of course, everything on the onion is 100% true

How old are you and why didn't you understand his post?