This girl pissed me off, what else is new

[UDT89]

Originally posted by: TNTrulez

Originally posted by: UDT89
she just called me..............


and she told me there is no other guy, she was trying to make me jealous. she was crying....etc. now i feel bad, and i have no idea why. i guess i should stop by her house tomorrow after class??

Man she got the hots for you. Why don't you treat her a bit meaner? You're just hurting her by treating her all nice and showing her what she wants but can not have.

Doesnt treating girls like garbage make them like you more? i saw it all through college, girls go after the guys that treat them like crap

 

[Skyclad1uhm1]

Go to her, and be there as a friend. Be careful not to be more than that, but don't try to rub it in either.

 

[Sealy]

Originally posted by: TNTrulez

Originally posted by: UDT89
she just called me..............



Man she got the hots for you. Why don't you treat her a bit meaner? You're just hurting her by treating her all nice and showing her what she wants but can not have.

Ah no. How about sit her down and tell her "I have only always wanted to be your friend, but it's obvious you want more then that for me. So I think the only thing we can do is not be friends anymore. I'm sorry it has to be this way, but I'm not sure how else to get you to understand that I don't want anything more between us other than friends."

 

[TNTrulez]

Originally posted by: UDT89

Originally posted by: TNTrulez

Originally posted by: UDT89
she just called me..............


and she told me there is no other guy, she was trying to make me jealous. she was crying....etc. now i feel bad, and i have no idea why. i guess i should stop by her house tomorrow after class??

Man she got the hots for you. Why don't you treat her a bit meaner? You're just hurting her by treating her all nice and showing her what she wants but can not have.

Doesnt treating girls like garbage make them like you more? i saw it all through college, girls go after the guys that treat them like crap

You got it wrong. Certain types of girls go for guys like that, while most girls detests guys that treat them like garbage. Anyways, I am not telling you to treat her really bad. Just be a little bit mean to her and stop treating her like she's your half-girlfriend. I mean, asking her to go shopping with you and to the movies every two weeks? That's just a bit excessive don't you think? I mean she's practically considering you as a bf while you are not seeing her as your gf. A girl just don't call a guy up and cry to him just because he's her friend.

 

[habib89]

i dunno.. sounds like jealously to me.. i would put money on a bet that you like her.. even if it's way deep down..

but oh well.. what happens happens.. can't dwell on it.. if she's just a friend, then just treat her like a friend.. don't get mad cause she wants to spend time with her newly acquired boy toy.. i know if i had a new girlfriend, i'd spend lots of time with her.. actually you knwo.. now that i think about it, one of my friends is like you.. cept it's guy to guy.. one guy got a girlfriend, and spends basically all his time with her.. and the other guy is all jealous of the time that he spends with her, and not with him.. sounds like the same thing to me

 

[UDT89]

i think im gonna go down the "we need to see less of each other" road. i dont need someone thats gonna toy with my mind anyway.

as for liking her deep down, i'll be glad to take your money.

 

[Sealy]

Originally posted by: UDT89
i think im gonna go down the "we need to see less of each other" road. i dont need someone thats gonna toy with my mind anyway.

as for liking her deep down, i'll be glad to take your money.

Good man! It will hurt her in the short term, but it will be better for her in the long term. No mixed messages. Good luck!

 

[habib89]

Originally posted by: UDT89
i think im gonna go down the "we need to see less of each other" road. i dont need someone thats gonna toy with my mind anyway.

as for liking her deep down, i'll be glad to take your money.

well it's deep down, so you dont' really knwo it.. besides, even if that's not true, i'm still right about you being jealous of the time she spends with someone else, and not you... i'm not saying i blame you.. i'd probably be pissed off too.. i say just ignore it.. maybe just call her once in a while to make sure she's still alive.. ask her out like once a month or something.. just leave her be.. let her decide to either hang out with you sometimes, or just not hang out with you.. it sounds like you dont' care either way..

 

[MonkOnXanax]

i'll make this brief:

1) if she was male, you would not be posting this. if she was a guy friend, would you be coming here and posting "my male friend has a girlfriend and won't hang out with me anymore?" i think not.

2) if you do not give her a chance, you will lose her.

that said, go out with her a few times. DON'T try to be an ass and don't try to purposely not have a good time and sabotage the date. try to have fun and see if you enjoy being with her. if there's a connection and you enjoy being with her, take it from there.

 

[UDT89]

Originally posted by: MonkOnXanax
i'll make this brief:

1) if she was male, you would not be posting this. if she was a guy friend, would you be coming here and posting "my male friend has a girlfriend and won't hang out with me anymore?" i think not.

2) if you do not give her a chance, you will lose her.

that said, go out with her a few times. DON'T try to be an ass and don't try to purposely not have a good time and sabotage the date. try to have fun and see if you enjoy being with her. if there's a connection and you enjoy being with her, take it from there.

can you make it as breif as in how brief you read the thread?

shes not a male, so i dont see the reason to mention that senerio.

and two
hang out with her and see what happens? i guess 2 years of hanging out wasnt enough..........

 

[Mill]

Originally posted by: MonkOnXanax
i'll make this brief:

1) if she was male, you would not be posting this. if she was a guy friend, would you be coming here and posting "my male friend has a girlfriend and won't hang out with me anymore?" i think not.

2) if you do not give her a chance, you will lose her.

that said, go out with her a few times. DON'T try to be an ass and don't try to purposely not have a good time and sabotage the date. try to have fun and see if you enjoy being with her. if there's a connection and you enjoy being with her, take it from there.

I would not take advice from someone who brags that they use benzodiazapines illegally.

 

[TNTrulez]

Originally posted by: MonkOnXanax
i'll make this brief:

1) if she was male, you would not be posting this. if she was a guy friend, would you be coming here and posting "my male friend has a girlfriend and won't hang out with me anymore?" i think not.

2) if you do not give her a chance, you will lose her.

that said, go out with her a few times. DON'T try to be an ass and don't try to purposely not have a good time and sabotage the date. try to have fun and see if you enjoy being with her. if there's a connection and you enjoy being with her, take it from there.

If it was a guy friend of mine, I would be pretty pissed off too if he doesn't have time to hang out with me anymore.

Also, he has been going out with her on informal dates for like 2 years now. I would think if he likes her he would have felt something by now. When a girl is not your type, she's not your type no matter how much you want it to happen.

 

[TNTrulez]

Originally posted by: Millenium

Originally posted by: MonkOnXanax
i'll make this brief:

1) if she was male, you would not be posting this. if she was a guy friend, would you be coming here and posting "my male friend has a girlfriend and won't hang out with me anymore?" i think not.

2) if you do not give her a chance, you will lose her.

that said, go out with her a few times. DON'T try to be an ass and don't try to purposely not have a good time and sabotage the date. try to have fun and see if you enjoy being with her. if there's a connection and you enjoy being with her, take it from there.

I would not take advice from someone who brags that they use benzodiazapines illegally.

What is benzodiazapines?

 

[gopunk]

i don't know what everybody else has been saying

but ditch her

dump the baggage, it's over, not worth it, fubared.

 

[Sealy]

Originally posted by: gopunk
i don't know what everybody else has been saying

but ditch her

dump the baggage, it's over, not worth it, fubared.

obviously you don't know what everyone else is saying cause you then would have known that UDT89 is speaking about a "friend" of his, not a girlfriend.

 

[UDT89]

Originally posted by: TNTrulez

Originally posted by: Millenium

Originally posted by: MonkOnXanax
i'll make this brief:

1) if she was male, you would not be posting this. if she was a guy friend, would you be coming here and posting "my male friend has a girlfriend and won't hang out with me anymore?" i think not.

2) if you do not give her a chance, you will lose her.

that said, go out with her a few times. DON'T try to be an ass and don't try to purposely not have a good time and sabotage the date. try to have fun and see if you enjoy being with her. if there's a connection and you enjoy being with her, take it from there.

I would not take advice from someone who brags that they use benzodiazapines illegally.

What is benzodiazapines?

 

[gopunk]

Originally posted by: Sealy

Originally posted by: gopunk
i don't know what everybody else has been saying

but ditch her

dump the baggage, it's over, not worth it, fubared.

obviously you don't know what everyone else is saying cause you then would have known that UDT89 is speaking about a "friend" of his, not a girlfriend.

i know it's a friend (this was in the very first post....)

my advice was for a "friend". this friend is not going to change (retards are retards for life), it's clear there's some weird hostility sh!t going on between them, i say it's not worth the trouble. there are so many other people in the world to be friends with, why would you want to torture yourself with this one.

if anything he's doing her a favor if she likes him, by helping her get over him.

 

[Sealy]

Originally posted by: gopunk

Originally posted by: Sealy

Originally posted by: gopunk

my advice was for a "friend". this friend is not going to change (retards are retards for life), it's clear there's some weird hostility sh!t going on between them, i say it's not worth the trouble. there are so many other people in the world to be friends with, why would you want to torture yourself with this one.

if anything he's doing her a favor if she likes him, by helping her get over him.

Ah now there ya go! Some more constructive advise rather than:
ditch her dump the baggage, it's over, not worth it, fubared.

 

[gopunk]

Originally posted by: Sealy

Originally posted by: gopunk
my advice was for a "friend". this friend is not going to change (retards are retards for life), it's clear there's some weird hostility sh!t going on between them, i say it's not worth the trouble. there are so many other people in the world to be friends with, why would you want to torture yourself with this one.

if anything he's doing her a favor if she likes him, by helping her get over him.

Ah now there ya go! Some more constructive advise rather than:
ditch her dump the baggage, it's over, not worth it, fubared.

wth, same thing, i just spelled everything out explicitly. it all boils down to: not worth it.

 

[Mill]

Originally posted by: UDT89

Originally posted by: TNTrulez

Originally posted by: Millenium

Originally posted by: MonkOnXanax
i'll make this brief:

1) if she was male, you would not be posting this. if she was a guy friend, would you be coming here and posting "my male friend has a girlfriend and won't hang out with me anymore?" i think not.

2) if you do not give her a chance, you will lose her.

that said, go out with her a few times. DON'T try to be an ass and don't try to purposely not have a good time and sabotage the date. try to have fun and see if you enjoy being with her. if there's a connection and you enjoy being with her, take it from there.

I would not take advice from someone who brags that they use benzodiazapines illegally.

What is benzodiazapines?

Xanax is a benzo and I doubt Monk uses it for legitimte purposes.

Simply put a prescription drug that is high on the abuse chart.

Honestly I object to his username period because anyone taking Xanax in a legitimate manner wouldn't broadcast it.

 

[MonkOnXanax]

Originally posted by: MonkOnXanax
2) if you do not give her a chance, you will lose her.

are you ready for that possibility?

for the rest of you that say that you'll be bitching even if your MALE friends spent less time with you after getting girlfriends. obviously, most of you do not have girlfriends or friends with girlfriends or you would realize that having a girlfriend will take up a *significant* chunk of your time. instead of going out and hangin with your buds you'll be going out and making out with yoru girlfriend.

let's see, what would you rather do... hang out with your MALE friends or hang out and make out with your GIRLfriend?

 

[MonkOnXanax]

Originally posted by: Millenium
Xanax is a benzo and I doubt Monk uses it for legitimte purposes.

Simply put a prescription drug that is high on the abuse chart.

Honestly I object to his username period because anyone taking Xanax in a legitimate manner wouldn't broadcast it.

look at my user name and think about it. get it yet? what does someone take xanax? and what effect would it have on a monk?

you're a tool.

 

[TNTrulez]

Originally posted by: MonkOnXanax

Originally posted by: MonkOnXanax
2) if you do not give her a chance, you will lose her.

are you ready for that possibility?

for the rest of you that say that you'll be bitching even if your MALE friends spent less time with you after getting girlfriends. obviously, most of you do not have girlfriends or friends with girlfriends or you would realize that having a girlfriend will take up a *significant* chunk of your time. instead of going out and hangin with your buds you'll be going out and making out with yoru girlfriend.

let's see, what would you rather do... hang out with your MALE friends or hang out and make out with your GIRLfriend?

Let me guess, you neither have a girlfriend or close guy friends.

 

[MonkOnXanax]

wrong on both counts.

 

[TNTrulez]

Originally posted by: MonkOnXanax
wrong on both counts.

Heh an F for me.