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There is this senior that goes to my school...

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Originally posted by: pulse8
It's never going to happen. You're not confident enough to get an older woman. Even if you did get her, however, she'd dump you by the time she leaves for college.
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lol, i mean i've dated 2 juniors for a real long time this year, then they just got boring so now im here....and this chicks diffent. thats all. its not that im not confident.
 
Then again, some girls are just really flirty. See if she acts that way around other guy friend of hers. I can think of one such example off the top of my head.
 
tell her that since she's leaving in a year and you've never had a chance to hang out with her that you'd like to take her out to dinner before she leaves. But then of course, this works alot better in college than HS.
 
Okay, here it is in a nutshell. Walk up to her and say:
"Hey baby, I know we've been smiling at each other for a while. I feel the emotion surging between our eyes. I know if I ask you to go steady, you'll say yes, and we'll end up having a grand old time. We'll have amazing sex whenever you come back from college, and we'll keep in contact over ICQ. We might even get married, see each other more often, and plan on buying a house. But by then i'll be in college, and my animal instincts will have me sleeping in a different bed every night, which will unavoidably cause severe heartache on your end of things, and we'll break up with you hating me. So why don't we just skip the prerequisites and just hit the sack once or twice before you leave, and call it good."
 
If you let her sense your lack of confidence AT ALL it will be over before you even ask. You need to just ask her out like you don't care what the answer is. If she sees that you are confident and sure of yourself it will help your chances alot.
 
just know that you are better off than i am. i have this "thing" for this girl, and have found out some stuff about her through friends. she's in one of my lab classes...we've never talked and the semester ENDED...how's this for coincidence i've seen her two days in a row randomly, but could never find the courage to talk to her...next time i see her, i will start with "hi" and go on from there...haha.

just know that you are better off than i am, being that you actually have talked to her...and are not in college dealing with this stupid girl stuff...haha. anyways, good luck.
 
Originally posted by: JohnnyFive
Okay, here it is in a nutshell. Walk up to her and say:
"Hey baby, I know we've been smiling at each other for a while. I feel the emotion surging between our eyes. I know if I ask you to go steady, you'll say yes, and we'll end up having a grand old time. We'll have amazing sex whenever you come back from college, and we'll keep in contact over ICQ. We might even get married, see each other more often, and plan on buying a house. But by then i'll be in college, and my animal instincts will have me sleeping in a different bed every night, which will unavoidably cause severe heartache on your end of things, and we'll break up with you hating me. So why don't we just skip the prerequisites and just hit the sack once or twice before you leave, and call it good."
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...mmm i like it 😛
 
I think you are a bit young for a senior. As said above, You = 14, them = 18. Not gonna work. She may enjoy your company, but she will not actually date you for an extended period of time. Your choice of what to do depends on what your intentions are. Is she going to college? If so, she will be gone soon anyway so what do you expect from the relationship? If not, then there is a chance for something more lengthy, but will you be able to provide when she turns 21 and you are 17?
So it boils down to what kind of relationship you want with her. What, in your oppinion, is 'going out'?
 
Originally posted by: XZeroII
I think you are a bit young for a senior. As said above, You = 14, them = 18. Not gonna work. She may enjoy your company, but she will not actually date you for an extended period of time. Your choice of what to do depends on what your intentions are. Is she going to college? If so, she will be gone soon anyway so what do you expect from the relationship? If not, then there is a chance for something more lengthy, but will you be able to provide when she turns 21 and you are 17?
So it boils down to what kind of relationship you want with her. What, in your oppinion, is 'going out'?
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Well i obvisouly don't want to jump right into the whole "want to be my girlfriend" scheme lol. I just want to get to know her better, hang out more. As for the 14 and her 18, shes 17 while im 15, it's still two years, and shell be 18 before im 16 but i dont know. Awhile back when she asked if i liked to date older girls and said yeah she was pretty intrigued by that. She is going to college, but it's real close to home, she will still be living here and all. And if you don't mind me asking. What do you mean will i be able to provide for her?
 
Originally posted by: MainFramed
Originally posted by: XZeroII
I think you are a bit young for a senior. As said above, You = 14, them = 18. Not gonna work. She may enjoy your company, but she will not actually date you for an extended period of time. Your choice of what to do depends on what your intentions are. Is she going to college? If so, she will be gone soon anyway so what do you expect from the relationship? If not, then there is a chance for something more lengthy, but will you be able to provide when she turns 21 and you are 17?
So it boils down to what kind of relationship you want with her. What, in your oppinion, is 'going out'?
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Well i obvisouly don't want to jump right into the whole "want to be my girlfriend" scheme lol. I just want to get to know her better, hang out more. As for the 14 and her 18, shes 17 while im 15, it's still two years, and shell be 18 before im 16 but i dont know. Awhile back when she asked if i liked to date older girls and said yeah she was pretty intrigued by that. She is going to college, but it's real close to home, she will still be living here and all. And if you don't mind me asking. What do you mean will i be able to provide for her?
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When she is around 21, you can bet she will be looking to start a family or get married. She will be looking for 'the one'. It's a ways away, but it's something you should consider. People change a lot between 18 and 21. That is one reason why guys dating older women that young is dangerous.
 
Originally posted by: XZeroII
Originally posted by: MainFramed
Originally posted by: XZeroII
I think you are a bit young for a senior. As said above, You = 14, them = 18. Not gonna work. She may enjoy your company, but she will not actually date you for an extended period of time. Your choice of what to do depends on what your intentions are. Is she going to college? If so, she will be gone soon anyway so what do you expect from the relationship? If not, then there is a chance for something more lengthy, but will you be able to provide when she turns 21 and you are 17?
So it boils down to what kind of relationship you want with her. What, in your oppinion, is 'going out'?
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Well i obvisouly don't want to jump right into the whole "want to be my girlfriend" scheme lol. I just want to get to know her better, hang out more. As for the 14 and her 18, shes 17 while im 15, it's still two years, and shell be 18 before im 16 but i dont know. Awhile back when she asked if i liked to date older girls and said yeah she was pretty intrigued by that. She is going to college, but it's real close to home, she will still be living here and all. And if you don't mind me asking. What do you mean will i be able to provide for her?
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When she is around 21, you can bet she will be looking to start a family or get married. She will be looking for 'the one'. It's a ways away, but it's something you should consider. People change a lot between 18 and 21. That is one reason why guys dating older women that young is dangerous.
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Yeah, by that time I'd be very capable of providing. I know what your saying. I mean If I like her alot, and it clicks i'd stay with this girl for as long as possible.
 
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