Therapy for husband who likes Asian chicks?

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LeeTJ

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Originally posted by: WinkOsmosis
Originally posted by: FFMCobalt
Originally posted by: WinkOsmosis
Why doesn't he divorce her and marry an Asian?

What's the point of a marriage if you're not going to follow through with the promise of being married?
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What's the point of being married to someone you don't love?

because love isnt' the ONLY point of marriage.
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attraction =/= love.

fetish =/= love.

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you americans think you should act on every little whim or feeling
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. you treat marriage like you treat disposable diapers.

that's one reason why i'll never let me daughter get involved with someone like that.

Marriage isn't about whims, it's not JUST about feelings, feelings change, feelings are ephemeral.

Marriage is about commitment and making it together. marriage is about trusting, being trusted, DEVELOPING a relationship, things that take time and are not instantaneous.

these marriages i see in america are sickening. oh ya, let's get married, 2 yrs later, oh well we tried but it didn't work out.
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that's not trying. If you aren't 100% commited to the woman, DON'T MARRY HER.