Therapy for husband who likes Asian chicks?

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AndrewR

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Asian women can be exquisitely attractive, but after living here for a year, I can also testify that they can be ugly -- just like anywhere else in the world. They can also be submissive and meek or domineering and bitchy. Again, just like anywhere else (though it seems that the bitchiness is reserved for private moments moreso than in the States).

One thing I will say: Japanese airlines continue the tradition now abandoned in the States of having GORGEOUS stewardesses. Wow. :)
 

RDMustang1

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Never met an attractive asian women in my life... Sure there are some on tv and in magazines but never one I've felt the slightest inkling for in person... It's mostly caucasion for me.. maybe a hispanic woman here and there..
 

ugh

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Originally posted by: atom
Maybe it's just me, but Asian women tend to not age well.

Duh, same goes for caucasians. It depends on how well the individual upkeeps themselves and perhaps genes has something to do with it as well :p
 

Dacalo

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Originally posted by: Crappopotamus
Originally posted by: nativesunshine
What sucks is when the caucasian guy can't distinguish between a good looking Asian and an Asian who looks like a dog.

But nothing's as bad as a guy who can't take his eyes off ANY girl. He only has eyes for other girls...and none for the one he's already with.
rolleye.gif

lucy liu anyone?

the only solution is to let him satisfy those urges. course you have to.. uhh keep an eye on him right... :p

Seriously, I don't know how the hell Lucy Liu made it to Hollywood

She is one of those stereotypical Asian looking woman who isn't attractive at all

<---Asian
 

Aceshigh

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Originally posted by: Dacalo
Originally posted by: Crappopotamus
Originally posted by: nativesunshine
What sucks is when the caucasian guy can't distinguish between a good looking Asian and an Asian who looks like a dog.

But nothing's as bad as a guy who can't take his eyes off ANY girl. He only has eyes for other girls...and none for the one he's already with.
rolleye.gif

lucy liu anyone?

the only solution is to let him satisfy those urges. course you have to.. uhh keep an eye on him right... :p

Seriously, I don't know how the hell Lucy Liu made it to Hollywood

She is one of those stereotypical Asian looking woman who isn't attractive at all

<---Asian


Did you see Payback? She was hot as hell in that movie.
 

Aquaman

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Originally posted by: Dacalo
Originally posted by: Crappopotamus
Originally posted by: nativesunshine
What sucks is when the caucasian guy can't distinguish between a good looking Asian and an Asian who looks like a dog.

But nothing's as bad as a guy who can't take his eyes off ANY girl. He only has eyes for other girls...and none for the one he's already with.
rolleye.gif

lucy liu anyone?

the only solution is to let him satisfy those urges. course you have to.. uhh keep an eye on him right... :p

Seriously, I don't know how the hell Lucy Liu made it to Hollywood

She is one of those stereotypical Asian looking woman who isn't attractive at all

<---Asian

Yeah........... she has that I'm going to rip your balls off look............ mean............ very mean look :(

Cheers,
Aquaman
 

isaacmacdonald

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Originally posted by: Aceshigh
Originally posted by: Dacalo
Originally posted by: Crappopotamus
Originally posted by: nativesunshine
What sucks is when the caucasian guy can't distinguish between a good looking Asian and an Asian who looks like a dog.

But nothing's as bad as a guy who can't take his eyes off ANY girl. He only has eyes for other girls...and none for the one he's already with.
rolleye.gif

lucy liu anyone?

the only solution is to let him satisfy those urges. course you have to.. uhh keep an eye on him right... :p

Seriously, I don't know how the hell Lucy Liu made it to Hollywood

She is one of those stereotypical Asian looking woman who isn't attractive at all

<---Asian


Did you see Payback? She was hot as hell in that movie.

exactly. My gf (who's asian) thinks she's ugly as well. The thing to understand is it's all about persona. Lucy Liu always does this awesome aggressive asian thing that's just hot as shiznit.
 

EvilYoda

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I have the same problem...last two g/fs were white, lasted for 1.5 and 2.5 years respectively, and I can't wait to date my first asian/Chinese girl.

Oh wait, I'm Chinese too. ;)

(And not to say that white girls are bad...the last one was great, but things haven't ended too pretty for me, so at least I can be bitter with a reason. :D)
 

element

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You think he needs therapy?....I have a thing for Ms. Swan from Mad tv.....he he heeee..... looka like-a man!

just kiddin
 

Dragnov

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I think Lucy Liu is pretty hot because she looks so stereotypical asian/chinese.
 

Isla

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Originally posted by: AndrewR
Asian women can be exquisitely attractive, but after living here for a year, I can also testify that they can be ugly -- just like anywhere else in the world. They can also be submissive and meek or domineering and bitchy.

That's what I was trying to say in my roundabout way. :) We are all human in the end, there is no 'perfect' woman. except in your fantasies.

(And my cleavage comment was not meant as a generalization about anyone, it has to do with the fact that my husband met me at work and I had this one low cut blouse... just wanted to clarify!!!!)
 

SuepaFly

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As a Chinese female, it freaks me out majorly at clubs and bars when a guy approaches and it seems like the guy has a thing for asians. And the thing is that their first line of conversation always goes toward asians. It always seems to be with the caucasian men too.
 

Chaotic42

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Jun 15, 2001
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I've noticed that white guys like Asian girls. In my hometown, the white girls really flocked to the Asian guys. Nothing wrong with it of course, just kind of interesting.

Personally, I've kind of got a thing for Latin girls (not a stalker thing ;) ).
 

Skyclad1uhm1

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Originally posted by: Isla
Originally posted by: AndrewR
Asian women can be exquisitely attractive, but after living here for a year, I can also testify that they can be ugly -- just like anywhere else in the world. They can also be submissive and meek or domineering and bitchy.

That's what I was trying to say in my roundabout way. :) We are all human in the end, there is no 'perfect' woman. except in your fantasies.

(And my cleavage comment was not meant as a generalization about anyone, it has to do with the fact that my husband met me at work and I had this one low cut blouse... just wanted to clarify!!!!)

And still no 'Pics?' requests... Did we end up in intim83's dream, with even ATOTers not being interested in girls anymore? :p

Edit: And FFMCobalt, would you rather make the marriage vow of loving eachother always a laugh by staying together if the love has been replaced with distrust and disgust, and you just long for other people rather than your partner? Is divorce forbidden in your idea?
 

borealiss

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Originally posted by: SuepaFly
As a Chinese female, it freaks me out majorly at clubs and bars when a guy approaches and it seems like the guy has a thing for asians. And the thing is that their first line of conversation always goes toward asians. It always seems to be with the caucasian men too.

what ticks me off more is when asian girls think i'm completely white and stereotype me as american gaijin or gosu that has yellow fever since i have a thing for chinese women. then if i bust out some mandarin, all of a sudden i'm a thing to be gawked at. "omg, he can speak some chinese." but yeah, i understand your perspective too, i know lots of guys that are horndog asian crazy up the arse cuz their asian, it's annoying. and it's always the japanese women they have a thing for. i don't understand that.
 

Nitemare

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Feb 8, 2001
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I would have reommended a Margaret Cho video as well as moving to Kansas

I have a touch of the yellow fever myself(actually island fever)
 

Ernieb

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Originally posted by: Sealy
I think the bigger issue the wife needs to worry about is that he's checking out and hitting on other women while he's married! I think she's missing the point! Who cares if the women are Asian, he's behaving unacceptable, period. That's what he should be in therapy for.


That's what i wanted to say tooo.....no matter asian or american....that's not acceptable..
cuz he is a married man.