The wife of the husband that was screwing my fiancee

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This is nothing but trouble, and if you cant see that....

Well, I hope I am wrong, but take a look at it from another perspective.
 
Don Vito Corleone

Don Vito Corleone

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IMO it's completely inappropriate that you're spending time with the kids at this point, and that alone would cause me to question the sincerity and trustworthiness of the other woman involved. I'm not implying that you are doing anything wrong, but her conduct is, in my view, really disrespectful to the kids.

You may have found something great here, or you may just be a revenge lay for this woman, whether she realizes it or not. I suggest you keep it casual, enjoy it, and stay away from the kids. They are going through enough with the divorce.
 
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Originally posted by: DonVito
IMO it's completely inappropriate that you're spending time with the kids at this point, and that alone would cause me to question the sincerity and trustworthiness of the other woman involved. I'm not implying that you are doing anything wrong, but her conduct is, in my view, really disrespectful to the kids.

You may have found something great here, or you may just be a revenge lay for this woman, whether she realizes it or not. I suggest you keep it casual, enjoy it, and stay away from the kids. They are going through enough with the divorce.
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Well said my friend:thumbsup:
 
olds

olds

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The fact that you used the words "The wife of the husband that was screwing my fiancee" instead of something like "I met a great girl" tells me that you are still hung up on the ex and this is a rebound thing.
PM me in six months with the link to your YAGT, "Girl with kids dumped me for her babies daddy" thread.
 
moshquerade

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Originally posted by: huberm
so as many of you have probably read on my posts I have been having girl problems. My girlfriend of 6 years left me about a month ago (on my birthday). Well, a few days ago, this girl called my house and left a message for me, saying she caught my ex screwing her husband. Keep in mind ever since the breakup I have felt so lonely and afraid I would never find another girl again.

even though we weren't together anymore i still felt shook up about it, and come to find out they had been doing it for months. But I wanted to meet this girl, I figured maybe we could talk about it and we would feel better.

so tonight we met, and i can seriously say I have never connected with a girl like this before. I know I probably have all kinds of weird emotions and feelings running through my head still about the breakup, but this is honestly the most wonderful girl I have ever met.

She also has 2 wonderful kids. Never in my life have I ever even liked kids, but I was amazed at them.

I am taking them to the Children's Museum tomorrow. I guess I just wanted to share with everyone that is having girl/guy problems and don't think they'll ever feel the same again, I can now truly say not to worry!

Cliffs:
1. Depressed about breakup
2. Got a call from a girl that my ex was screwing her husband
3. met this girl
4. Love at first sight!
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run! run away!

 
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Originally posted by: Chaotic42
Originally posted by: huberm
i was impressed with them, i'm not sure what the big deal is taking kids to a childrens museum?
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They don't need another father figure in their lives. Think about it. If you were a kid and daddy wasn't around, would you want to go to the museum with some random dude?
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i did not think about this. Now I see what you are saying about the kids.
 
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huberm

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Originally posted by: oldsmoboat
The fact that you used the words "The wife of the husband that was screwing my fiancee" instead of something like "I met a great girl" tells me that you are still hung up on the ex and this is a rebound thing.
PM me in six months with the link to your YAGT, "Girl with kids dumped me for her babies daddy" thread.
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i changed the title to that because i think too many people were posting thinking i was wanting a relationship
 
jpeyton

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Someone call the networks! WifeSwap!
 
GuitarDaddy

GuitarDaddy

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Sounds like 3 of the four people involved have already sunken to low levels, at this point you are the only one left on morale high ground. If you go through with this your jumping right into the cesspool with them, might as well just all move in together and have some 4way action:confused:
 
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Accipiter22

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Originally posted by: Black88GTA
Good luck...but be careful. This has "revenge fvck" written all over it. :(

If it truly does work out, congrats, but I would certainly be cautious.
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yup.....
 
Phoenix86

Phoenix86

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Originally posted by: DonVito
IMO it's completely inappropriate that you're spending time with the kids at this point, and that alone would cause me to question the sincerity and trustworthiness of the other woman involved. I'm not implying that you are doing anything wrong, but her conduct is, in my view, really disrespectful to the kids.

You may have found something great here, or you may just be a revenge lay for this woman, whether she realizes it or not. I suggest you keep it casual, enjoy it, and stay away from the kids. They are going through enough with the divorce.
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As always, excellent advice.

Go slow, give your emotions time for both of you.

Stay away from the children until you are serious, read months and months from now. After the divorce, well after it.
 
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