I live in NOVA and:
1) The roads are actually great. Potholes are fixed the day they happen, esp after the major snowstorms.
2) Traffic is bad because not enough was invested in mass transit and too many subdivisions were created. Too many culdesacs, not enough through-ways. Not sure if this will ever change, Franconia/Rolling Road are good examples of this.
3) Taxes are nothing compared to MD. I will never, ever move back to the communist state of MD. Ever compare the cost of driving (plates alone) and driving fines? VA ftw.
4) VA DMV online is so simple my grandma can do it. Why are you waiting in lines like a chump? Get with the 21st century and do it online, never had a problem in 5 years with registration, plates, license, etc. Just about the only thing you need to do is go there if it's your first time which is no big deal.
5) Civil servants are always being laid off, where have you been? lol.
http://www2.timesdispatch.com/rtd/n...itics/article/KAIN091_20090908-234002/291533/
6) Are you sure you live in VA? Because you sound clueless or very young, no offense.